What is love? In Westward Journey, love is "If I could do it all over again, I would say three words to that girl, I love you. If I have to add a time limit to this love, I hope it will be ten thousand." Year. "
" In "The King of Comedy", love is "I support you." ""
" In novels, love may be the unique preference; in idol dramas, love may be the beating heart of a deer.
But in reality, love is just the secretion of dopamine and a chemical reaction. Once this feeling fades away, there may be only chicken feathers left.
A talented figure skating boy
In 1985, a boy was born in Chicago in the United States, and his parents named him Lysacek .
When he was just born, he was thin and small. The only thing that his parents worried about every day was probably how to stuff food into his mouth so that he could grow tall and strong like his cousin. .
After all, for Americans, their favorite sport is football , their favorite food is hamburgers, and their favorite thing is a strong body. Therefore, the skinny little Lysacek made his parents very worried. .
But the young Lysacek didn't care about this. What he liked more was skating. He liked to step on the skates and fly on the ice rink, like a fluttering butterfly. Compared with simple skating, he prefers figure skating with various movements and more graceful movements.
Perhaps everyone’s biggest understanding of figure skating comes from Hanyu Yuzuru . The most impressive thing is CCTV’s description of him: “Fortunately, I met you with a peach blossom face, and from now on, the world will be filled with warm spring... His face is like jade, The figure is as graceful as a pine, graceful as a flying dragon, and graceful as a swimming dragon. This is the most profound impression people have on figure skating.
As an American, Lysacek does not understand the elegant beauty of China, but human beings have the same perception of beauty.
When Lysacek saw figure skating for the first time, he fell in love with figure skating beyond everyone’s expectation. Over the next nearly 20 years, he chose figure skating seriously and firmly.
Among all his relatives, the one who supported him the most was his grandmother. When he was eight years old, his grandmother gave him a figure skating outfit and a pair of skates , and encouraged him:
" Oh, sweetheart, I hope you can choose your favorite, not only sports, but also sports, as long as you are happy."
Lysacek happily hugged his grandmother after receiving the gifts and blessings. As the days go by, work harder and forge ahead.
Huangtian paid off his hard work, talent, hard work and interest, and finally allowed Lysacek to pass five levels and defeat six players. won the Grand Slam in each category of the National figure skating competition.
The once skinny little boy, from figure skating athlete of the year, to figure skating world championship champion, to Winter Olympics champion, Lysacek broke the American figure skating men's singles record of 22 in the Olympics. year's record.
After becoming the best athlete, Lesacek was unparalleled for a while. That period was the most exciting and shining time in his life. He is such an outstanding figure, and he is also going further and further on his beloved figure skating road.
A sister-brother relationship that spanned 36 years
and by chance, he met Wang Weiwei , known as the "Queen of Wedding Dresses."
Who is Vera Wang? She is the "Queen of Wedding Dresses" and makes celebrities from all walks of life proud to wear the clothes she designs. A wedding dress she designs by herself can easily cost billions of dollars. Her VERA WANG brand is world-famous. is a well-known wealthy Chinese businesswoman.
Wang Weiwei's father is the business tycoon Wang Qingqing, and her mother is Wu Chifang, the daughter of Fengtian warlord Wu Junsheng, who was a former translator for the United Nations .
Wang Weiwei, who was born in a military and political family, has been passionate about figure skating since she was a child. Although she won many awards as a teenager, it is a pity that there are people outside the world.
Wang Weiwei is still different from other children who are fed by God, and her lack of talent also caused her to leave the arena she loved early.
Vera Wang, who was unable to participate in the competition, was depressed all day long. Her mother felt sorry for her daughter. In order to relax her daughter, she took her to major fashion shows to watch the catwalks.
Looking at Vera Wang wearing all kinds of beautiful clothes on the catwalk, an idea popped into her mind. She must make her last effort for the figure skating career she loves!
She wants to design clothes for figure skaters.
And coincidentally, she can also design herself, and is even well-known in the design world. Adhering to the principle of doing what she says, Vera Wang quickly found the popular star player Nancy Kerrigan.
After listening to Vera Wang’s design ideas, Nancy readily agreed to Vera Wang’s idea of designing clothes for her. Vera Wang did not disappoint Nancy’s trust and soon designed a unique, very beautiful and suitable Nancy's figure skating outfit.
Vera Wang became famous in one battle.
Later, Wang Weiwei has been designing uniforms for the U.S. women’s national figure skating team. She even designed the uniforms for the Winter Olympics.
In the days that followed, Wang Weiwei climbed to the position of a top wedding dress designer by designing figure skating clothes. At this time, Wang Weiwei was already over fifty.
Because of the same preferences and the same love, 27-year-old Lysacek and 63-year-old Vera Wang fell in love on the skating rink that they both loved.
According to Lysacek, although they had known each other for a long time, they fell in love in every detail.
When Lysacek said this, his expression was gentle but firm, as if no wind or rain could stop their love, and this love did indeed lead to countless storms.
Both of them are public figures. Therefore, as soon as the incident was reported, it quickly attracted a lot of attention. Many people were extremely surprised and could not believe that this incident happened.
After all, one is 63 years old, the other is 27 years old, one is a well-known brand clothing designer known to the whole society, and the other is an excellent figure skater, not to mention that Wang Weiwei has been married for 23 years.
The huge age difference, status difference and economic difference make everyone very unfavorable to this relationship.
For a time, topics such as hanging out with rich women and eating young grass were very popular.
But the two of them didn't care at all. They even showed off their affection in public many times, with intimate actions, photos with happy smiling faces, and clips of walking hand in hand under the camera.
The pictures that confirm their love, one by one, float to the camera, float to the world, and float to the eyes of all those who oppose them.
In this way, the two of them managed to survive this love affair for seven years even though everyone was not optimistic about it.
The seven-year itch ends in a hurry
Seven years, there will be several more seven years in a person's life.
This couple, who was disliked by everyone, held hands for seven years in the eyes of everyone, either mocking or hesitating. Seeing that the two were about to achieve perfection, they saw everyone who knew about it. It’s time to turn ridicule into blessing.
The two of them broke up.
As soon as the news came out, it was shocking. All the people who had not thought highly of them said that they had known this before. Instead, they all asked in surprise, "What's going on?" What happened to
? Obviously seven years have passed, and they were still holding each other's hands some time ago. It was clear that before that, Lysacek was still announcing to the world in public that Wang Weiwei was the love of his life, his. Love is for Vera Wang.
Obviously his confession of love for Wang Weiwei was still hanging naked on the Internet. It was obvious that Wang Weiwei had been calling him her beloved before. How could turn around and the two of them broke up?
was so caught off guard, as if the seven years of love were all an illusory dream.
This breakup incident caught everyone off guard and stunned them.
But it is understandable. After all, seven years is not a short time.
It was obviously so difficult, so disliked by others, and so ridiculed, but they all survived and persevered. But after seven years, when everyone changed their minds and began to bless, the two of them Love has come to an end.
Faced with this love affair that everyone was not optimistic about from the beginning, with a 36-year age difference, to a love that lasted for seven years despite everyone's opposition and ended hastily, everyone has their own differences. the opinion of.
Some people say that Lysacek clung to the wealthy, and after getting the money, he separated from Vera Wang.
Some people say that Vera Wang was too controlling and drove Lysacek to death. After all, after the breakup, Lysacek said in an interview that he was physically and mentally exhausted.
Some people say that they are just because of the Romeo and Juliet effect.
The Romeo and Juliet effect, also known as the forbidden fruit effect, refers to the fact that when a couple is together, despite the heavy pressure from the outside world, their love is still stronger than ever.
But when the heavy pressure disappeared, the conflicts that had been suppressed between the two were aroused, which actually caused the two to separate.
In view of the fact that Lysacek and Vera Wang previously acted like each other was the only true love in their lives and showed off their affection, perhaps the Romeo and Juliet effect is the most likely explanation.
After all, for Lysacek, before falling in love with Vera Wang, he was also a beautiful sight in the figure skating arena.
A person who can be called a prince not only won all the major awards in the United States, but was also the Prince Charming in the eyes of the audience who liked figure skating at that time, and won the hearts of many girls.
Seamless connection, Thai socialite
However, Lysacek, who kept talking about his "physical and mental exhaustion" on the news, turned around and immediately got engaged to the Thai socialite, This Thai socialite is who?
She is the daughter of Thailand's number one real estate developer, and is truly a wealthy woman.
Lysacek, who enjoys the resources in the fashion circle brought by Vera Wang, met this rich supermodel with a good figure and beautiful face in 2011.
According to Lysacek, they were just "friends." really got together in the summer of 2020, and the marriage was officially announced in 2021.
There are overwhelming opinions on the Internet, but Wang Weiwei seems not to be affected in any way. When faced with her boyfriend's marriage news, she just smiled faintly and said: "I wish him to find true love."
In the same way, Compared with Lysacek, who vented his bitterness in front of the camera, Vera Wang, who is gentle and elegant, said nothing except this blessing.
Even when Lysacek, as the fiancée of a wealthy family, customized a wedding dress, Vera Wang generously designed and produced that unique wedding dress.
Timeless and beautiful bones, although the collagen on the face will pass away and the youth will pass away, the elegance and calmness engraved in the bones cannot be taken away by anything.
Faced with the news of various extreme reversals, many strange people emerged and began to express their own opinions.
Why are we not willing to follow the old woman? Why is his breakup with Wang Vera Wei a joy? Such remarks are full of condescending and inexplicable pride.
But, to be fair, is it really only Wang Weiwei who has benefited from this relationship? In other words, has Vera Wang really benefited from this relationship?
She has a 27-year-old boyfriend that she loves deeply, but with her help and her connections, this 27-year-old boyfriend has paved a broad road to the fashion world for herself.
relies on Vera Wang's reputation and has received many endorsements in the fashion circle. And Vera Wang only has one young boyfriend who she thinks "loves" her deeply.
From this point of view, it seems that Wang Weiwei has been wronged, but time has passed and will not come back again. Regarding the love-hate entanglement between the two, we should no longer discuss or point fingers based on our own wishes.
After all, how can the love between a man and a woman be judged simply by the amount of profit?
As the old saying goes, an infatuated woman is a heartless man, but in the past five thousand years, there have been many infatuated men and heartless women. Emotional matters are a secret that is unique between two people. It does not allow others to point fingers, and there is no need for others to point fingers.
We would rather believe that Lysacek and Wang Vera were really in love, regardless of identity, power, reputation, status... just because it was her and him.
It was her calm elegance and talent that attracted him, and it was his hard work and elegant and free appearance that attracted her. She is a painting that he can appreciate and taste, and he is her lost dream.
There is this sentence in an ancient Chinese poem: Before you gave birth to me, I gave birth to you and you are already old. You hate that I was born late, and I hate that you were born early.
Beautiful but regretful love is always moving. There are five sufferings in Buddhism: birth, old age, illness and death, separation from love, meeting of resentment and hatred, not being able to get what you want, and the five aggregates being abundant.
We would rather believe that the love between Lysacek and Vera Wang is a separation of love and a love that cannot be obtained, and we do not want to add so much contempt and filth to it that seems to be nothing.
Love is beautiful, it should not be just the chemical magic of dopamine, it should not be just material things, it should also be the same sentence: "I love you for ten thousand years." It should also include the sentence: "I will support you." Ah! "
Love is not a cold chemistry, it should be a promise, a wish, a forbidden area deep in the heart that no one can touch, but that will never fade.
References
1, China National Knowledge Infrastructure; 63-year-old "Wedding Dress Ai Wang" conquers the 27-year-old Ice Prince; Shi Wei; Evening News Wencui; 2015 Issue 04;
2, China National Knowledge Infrastructure; Wang Weiwei's World; Yao Dujunzi; Excalibur; Issue 01, 2019;
