Article | Special authors of Heart Help, Rainie Yang and Li Ronghao of Yunyi received their certificates! Just today, Rainie Yang generously announced the good news at an event: "Yes, we got the certificate the day before yesterday." Immediately afterwards, Li Ronghao happily wen

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Rainie Yang and Li Ronghao have received their certificates!

Just today, Rainie Yang generously announced the good news at an event: "Yes, we got the certificate the day before yesterday."

Immediately afterwards, Li Ronghao happily went to Weibo to post wedding photos.

Please let me eat more of this sweet but not greasy dog ​​food.

In fact, the day before yesterday, it was revealed that the two of them received their certificates at the Hefei Civil Affairs Bureau.

's agency did not deny it: "Thank you for your concern."

, just like their low-key and sweet love, acquiesced in this matter with a calm tone.

A man who loves you will not say that he is busy at work and has no time, and puts off important dates again and again.

Just look at Li Ronghao and you will know that he can't wait to turn all his special days into anniversaries for two people.

The day before yesterday was the sixth anniversary of his debut, and now it is their wedding anniversary.

html July 11th was his 34th birthday, which became the anniversary of his proposal.

These little hidden thoughts are the way this man promises his beloved.

For the rest of my life, all my important moments will be related to you.

Someone asked me: "A man like Li Ronghao can't be found even with a lantern now!"

Who said that? It's just that you didn't know how to find it, so you picked out the scumbag from the sea and paid you the wrong affection.

How do you find a man to spend the rest of your life with?

Why is a man who is "good to you" the biggest trap in marriage?

I have a friend whose ex was very nice to her. She did all the eating, washing, and mopping. Good morning, good afternoon and good night, never fall behind.

How could such a good man become his ex?

had been in love for a month, and it was her birthday. The man with a monthly salary of 10,000 yuan waved his hand and gave her a 100,000 yuan package.

She was so happy that she even began to consider getting married quickly, so as not to let this wonderful man slip away.

I have been in a relationship for a month, and I can’t even say that I know everything. I have poured out my heart and soul, and given so much. I wish I could give you everything I have. Is it really because of love? Or is it because you are so hungry and thirsty that you wolf down food when you see it?

I told her: "Take your time, don't be in a hurry."

As soon as she was slow, the man slowly showed his fangs behind his back. He changed five jobs in half a year, and his temper became more and more irritable.

At this time, she sighed: "On the road to marriage, there is a deep pit, which is called being nice to you."

I heard a joke:

Someone asked the prodigal son: "How do you make a woman give everything to you? "

The prodigal son replied: "I just let her believe that I love her. "

When you are in love, everything is very beautiful. No matter how bad he is, he is probably good to you.

At this time, stay calm and don't get carried away by love and get married on impulse.

If it doesn't work, just think of Rainie Yang's answer when reporters urged her to get married: "I have thought about it, but it won't be so fast. We still have our own goals to achieve."

Falling in love can be like buying a bag. If you don't like it, change it. .

Marriage is not about buying a house and choosing your future life.

How many women are so confused when they get married that it takes a long time after marriage to dry up the tears before they become difficult to deal with?

Instead of waiting until then to deal with it, it is better to "take your time and don't rush" now.

Instead of choosing someone who is "good to you", it is better to choose someone who is good enough in his own right. What is the difference between

?

To put it simply, instead of being madly promoted by real estate sales and paying the price in excitement, it is better to let your rationality come back and find the house that you love the most and that is most suitable for you.

For example, Li Ronghao, he is very good and very real.

In this era when no one posts in WeChat Moments, his Weibo posts are as trivial, ordinary and interesting as WeChat Moments.

The variety show is playing too slowly, worry!

usually relies on "Country Love" to pass the time.

Even interesting things about him and his friends were written down one by one.

Such reality is a sense of solidity standing on the ground, a passion for life, and the joy that emanates from the inside out.

Whether a man is reliable or not, it is indeed important to treat you well, but only when he is so cute can he always be good to you.

Whether the three views are compatible, you will know by looking at this incident

You must all know that to get married, you must find a man with upright three views.

But you may not know, what does a man with upright views look like?

Some time ago, Li Ronghao got into trouble.

In "The Voice of China", Li Ronghao chose an online song "Your Tavern is Closing for Me" for the students. He was bombarded by netizens and became a hot search topic.

"What kind of music can Internet songs be considered? Do you have any misunderstandings about music?"

"Li Ronghao chose such a song, it is simply too low."

He immediately posted a Weibo counterattack:

Listed eight points, in fact , he expresses the same meaning: " allows others to like things you don't like. "

's most correct three views, this is probably it.

Why?

Because he lives in a three-dimensional world.

Many people live in a one-yuan world, where you are me and I am you.

They require their other half to think the same way as themselves, to be able to understand their own needs, and to be able to satisfy themselves. Just like these netizens who criticize Li Ronghao if they don't like a song: "Why do you think differently from me!" People like

will not make any difference when they get married. They can rule the world with just one sentence. : "Why do you think differently from me? You must change, you must be like me, and you must meet my expectations!"

With the boundaries between people, we have entered a dualistic world.

I am me, you are you.

You have boundaries, but just like primary school students drawing the 38th line, it is difficult to have deeper communication.

Such people are avoidant, distant and indifferent in marriage.

plus meaning and value, you enter the world of three yuan.

Li Ronghao is like this: "I really like this song and want to share it with everyone. I think it is meaningful and valuable."

Such a person is rich, his relationship with others, and The relationships in this world are fluid, constantly nourished and enriched.

So, how to find a reliable man, what you have to do is to find a rich adult in the three-dimensional world, not to find an emotionless killer in the dualistic world, let alone to pick out a man in the one-dimensional world. A giant baby.

How far can this man go with you?

has a maturity derived from " black vitality ". What does

mean?

It is a kind of huge energy that breaks through the darkness and bursts out in the struggle.

is the crystallization of time and suffering in him, a very pure and authentic power.

Li Ronghao is like this. His experience is actually quite bumpy.

html When he was 09 years old, Li Ronghao started learning guitar by listening to cassette tapes. He dropped out of school in the second grade of junior high school for unexpected reasons.

When he was in his teens, before his hair had fully grown, he decided on the path of life and wanted to make music.

For this reason, I took the train to Nanjing every week and learned a rather niche instrument, the double bass.

’s persistence lasted seven years.

Perhaps it was because of the hard work that he couldn't see the way forward, but it wasn't like he hadn't looked for other paths.

tried the traditional entrance examination, went to a technical school to study, and finally got the qualification to take the college entrance examination.

failed the exam three times and failed in the end.

The joke of fate is not over yet.

He suffered another serious car accident and stayed in the hospital for more than a year. Not long after

was discharged from the hospital, his father died of leukemia.

was knocked down hard again and again, but he got up again and again.

However, we rarely see the marks left by bitterness on him now.

Why should he?

In a variety show, he talked about this secret: "From now on, nothing in your life can scare you anymore."

He has experienced extremely negative emotions and survived the confrontation with despair.

As a result, he learned how to deal with pain and could more truly empathize with others.

He has seen the ups and downs of life and the complexity of the world.

As a result, he learned to think about problems from different perspectives and from the perspectives of different people.

He also walked alone and walked through the trough step by step.

As a result, he understood that he was stronger than he thought, and he believed that he could be relied on and could be relied on by others. How could a mature man like

be so unreliable?

When I saw the news that they had received the certificate, Li Ronghao's song kept echoing in my mind: "When you appear on the stage, others seem to be nothing more than that."

Now, they finally met each other, "no one is more suitable than you", and they are firmly committed to each other. Hold each other's hand and enter the palace of marriage.

html’s long-distance love race in 2005 was not favored, and was once criticized by others. Today, it has finally come true. So please, you must “torture each other until we grow old”!

They spent five years running hand in hand to complete the love fairy tale in their hearts.

what about you?

You are also the love protagonist in your own life.

Maybe you have experienced a not-so-good relationship and met a not-so-good person. Or maybe you are still alone and gradually getting used to loneliness.

It doesn't matter, you have to believe:

There will be a person who will be good to you and will always be good to you.

There will be a person who allows you to like things that he doesn't quite understand and likes you for who you are.

There will be a person who is walking through the darkness, with a sincere heart, walking towards you step by step.

You will definitely meet.

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