He Xingxun was "married".
The five grown men took advantage of the drunkenness and snatched He Xuxun's cell phone. Without caring about her resistance, they pushed her into a room.
Then, the second-generation official Wan Chuanjia pressed forward and tore He Xuxun's clothes without scruples. Some were the doorkeepers, some held down He Xuxun's legs, and some took advantage of the opportunity to do obscene things.
is so cowardly that he kneels down and begs for mercy.
There are two details in this.
One is what Wan Chuanjia said to Wang Qingzhi when he pushed He Xuxun into the room: "I, Wan Chuanjia, came to your Wang family to give you face."
Look at the flattering faces of Wang Qinglai’s parents.
They refused to let the wedding go ahead without Secretary Wan coming. When Secretary Wan came, the two of them knelt down, wishing they could kneel down in front of others. When the bride and groom paid their second respects, they even more absurdly invited Secretary Wan to the stage and asked the newlyweds to bow three times to Secretary Wan!
Is this a normal neighborly relationship?
Even a slave in ancient times could only treat his master like this.
Why did Wan Chuanjia dare to be so ridiculous at Wang Qinglai’s wedding?
Not only because he is the son of Secretary Wan, but also because of the groveling attitude of the Wang family. Wan Chuanjia felt that even if he bullied the Wang family to death, the Wang family would not dare to resist, and the Wang family would even kowtow to him, thinking that he was giving the Wang family face.
There is a second detail. He Xingxun was on the phone at the time.
The call lasted the entire process and was never hung up. Aren't Wan Chuanjia afraid that their behavior will be recorded?
is not afraid at all.
At that time, the Wang family was holding a wedding, and the yard was full of people. When Wang Qingzhi ran out to tell his parents how lucky Wan Chuan's family was to make trouble, Wang Qingzhi's parents' reaction was that they were making trouble to give us face, and making trouble was the reason for the excitement.
Even the people next to me said that it should be noisy, and noisy is what makes it lively.
They didn't care at all that He Luck was the bride's biological sister or a native of another village. They are locals. Don’t they know how terrible the local marriage troubles are?
A college student was being harassed by a group of men before he got married. If it were their daughter, they would just say in an understatement, "It's time to make trouble. It's fun to make trouble."
Wang Qinglai passed away immediately after hearing the news.
Why is he not like his parents? It's because he himself knows that the marriage troubles between Wan Chuanjia and his family are not something that ordinary people can endure.
As a result, Wang Qinglai’s mother actually said, it’s okay, it’s okay, it’s fun to make trouble, and others to make trouble is to give us face.
I have to say that when people are ignorant and stupid to a certain extent, you can’t say anything at all: Why should you sacrifice the bride’s sister if you want to save face? If the daughter of the Wang family was being married, could they still be so calm and indifferent?
The two grown men watched helplessly as He Xingxun was being married, but neither of them rushed in. If He Xuxing hadn't kicked the door open, then He Xuxing's end would have been unimaginable.
He Xingfu broke Wan Chuanjia’s head in order to save his sister.
The Wang family all saw He Xuxun's tragic situation, but they didn't have the slightest sympathy, and they even said anything to He Xuxun. This is how they are here, this is how they make trouble.
What’s even more ridiculous is that He Xingfu’s father-in-law actually blames He Xingfu for causing trouble to their old Wang family.
My daughter-in-law’s biological sister was bullied to such an extent that her clothes were torn. No one in the Wang family wanted to protect her.The whole family even asked the injured person to apologize to the villains.
Of course, except for the educated Wang Qingzhi, but he has no say in the Wang family at all.
The subsequent operation of Lao Wang’s family was even more shocking.
Seeing Secretary Wan about to leave, Wang Qinglai's mother actually slapped herself in front of everyone. When the two of them went to Secretary Wang to apologize, they kowtowed and knelt before Secretary Wan without hesitation.
This is not a secretary, this is simply a local emperor.
Wang Qinglai’s sister Wang Xiuyu, who is also a young girl, has no sympathy for He Xingfu’s plight and only complains about He Xingfu’s troubles.
As for Wang Qinglai, it is really like Wan Chuanjia said, three sentences can't make a fart.
His sister-in-law was so bullied and his bride was so complained about. As a seven-foot man, he did not even dare to say a fair word for his wife.
Seeing this, we have to think deeply about a question.
Wang Qinglai is so cowardly, and the old Wang family is so indifferent and timid. What on earth does He Xingfu, a smart and beautiful woman like, want to marry Wang Qinglai? Even if the old Wang family doesn't want her, she doesn't want a divorce?
Why did you marry Wang Qinglai?
He Xingfu also once asked He Xingfu this question.
He Xingfu's answer was: "I want him to be honest and willing to work, and he doesn't smoke or gamble."
We started watching the TV series from the beginning. He Xingfu was getting married. Her face was calm, without the shyness and sweetness of a newlywed bride, and there was no admiration and admiration for Wang Qinglai in her eyes.
naked: I have reached the age of marriage, it is time for me to get married, and I will find a suitable and honest person to marry.
In the eyes of others, Wang Qinglai is very cowardly, but in the eyes of He Xingfu, Wang Qinglai's cowardice is an advantage, and the old Wang family's cowardice is also an advantage. It is this kind of person who is more tolerant and tolerant.
He Xingfu, a beautiful woman, is looking for this kind of man, and this is also the most common misunderstanding for women in traditional marriages: Men, honesty is an advantage. As long as the man is honest, it seems that all bad things will follow this Men are insulated. However, they completely ignored the various shortcomings of an honest man in real life. He may not have the ability to establish a family, and he may not be able to protect his woman and children. And his honesty is often just an appearance. , he might just be in no condition to go bad. Once the conditions are met, he, an honest person, becomes a dishonest person.
is like Wang Qinglai.
During the blind date, he fell in love with He Xingfu at first sight. Why? Because He Xingfu is very beautiful.
But, can he establish a family? Can he protect his wife?
If the bride was not the bridesmaid but the bride, Wang Qinglai would choose to tolerate it to a large extent.
He is honest, but this kind of honesty makes women despair!
What's more, after he went to a big city, he changed from being honest to being dishonest.
One of the most meaningful points of this drama is that after He Xingfu discovered how useless the entire old Wang family was, she still did not choose to divorce. Even after Wang Qinglai became dishonest, she still chose to stay together.
I have to say that this is a very tolerant and tenacious point in He Xingfu, but what is behind this?
What is behind all the tolerance and tenacity of women?
I have suffered countless grievances by myself, swallowed all the tears by myself, and shed all the sweat by myself.
Just as He Xuxing said, He Xingxing's requirements for men are too low.
However, many times, men will not love you more and be more grateful to you just because your requirements are low. He is likely to ignore all your normal and legitimate demands because your demands are low, and in the end, it is likely that all your normal demands will turn into unreasonable demands on his part.
Just like He Xingfu in this drama, her sister was so bullied, she just wanted an explanation, she just wanted justice. However, in the eyes of the Wang family, her normal needs are that she should divorce her if she does not care about her husband's family.
A truth about marriage
I have been married for almost ten years, and I especially want to tell women one thing: In marriage, your requirements for men cannot be too low.
Marriage is a shelf, and under the shelf are parents and children. You and your man support a family. If your requirements for him are too low, his support for the marriage will become lower and lower, and in the end you will be left to carry the burden on your own, even in the end. , the entire marriage will fall apart.
Just like He Xingfu, a marriage dispute can make her feel so aggrieved in the Wang family, but what about the future?
will only become more and more tired and aggrieved in the future.
Unless she is particularly capable.
And this TV series shows how this extremely capable woman gradually became the leader of Wanjia Village.
However, in reality, how many women can be "how happy"?
So, When a woman chooses marriage, she must think clearly. Do you have the capital to choose an honest man to marry?
He can't establish a family, can you? He can't protect his wife and children, can you? He can't give you a bright future, can you?
Why did Song Yunping in "大江大河" insist on marrying Lei Dongbao , an impulsive and reckless man, despite his younger brother's objections?
Because she has seen the shortcomings of her honest father since she was a child.
Because of her father's honesty and cowardice, she and her younger brother Song Yunhui had suffered a lot since childhood. She never wants to marry an honest man in her life, she just wants to marry a dishonest man, an arbitrary man, because only this kind of man can establish a family and give her a life so that she can live. Gotta have some fun.
A misunderstanding that women must get rid of
Another very important thing is that women must get rid of a misunderstanding: Are capable men dishonest? Do handsome men have to be flirtatious?
is not like this.
There are many capable men like this. He will never do things that hurt women or betray the family, because the cultivation and upbringing in his bones will tell him that it is not good to do so.
Marriage really needs the support of two people, especially at the stage when there is an elder and a younger one. What a couple needs is not only honesty, but also struggle, hard work, ability, wisdom and money. .
Here, I really don’t want to persuade girls to find an honest man and get married.
While you are young, make yourself more capable. When the time comes for you to face marriage, be rational, clear-headed and realistic.
You must always remember that men are different from men.
Some men can make you straighten your back and make you happy, just like Zhang Xinyu married He Jie, while some men can make you suffer injustice all your life and move forward with a heavy burden, just like Zhao Meilan married Su Daqiang.
