After so many years of opening the second-child program, many families are responding to the national policy. In many second-child families, the old saying goes, "The oldest child is stupid, the second child is sharp." That is to say, the second child is smarter than the eldest c

After so many years of opening the second-child plan, many families are responding to the national policy. In many second-child families, the old saying goes, "The oldest child is stupid, the second child is sharp." That is to say, the second child is smarter than the eldest child. This is very common in many families.

A few days ago, Xiaobao went shopping with a college classmate. While drinking coffee in the coffee shop, Xiaobao's classmate started to tell how smart his second baby was. Sometimes after a business trip for a few days, I feel that Erbao is much smarter after I come back.

Either I learned a new word, or my little mouth became sweet again. During the whole coffee time, most of them were describing how smart Erbao was.

At the end of the class, Xiaobao asked, "Where's Dabao? Why didn't I hear you talk about Dabao?" The classmate said, "Hey, don't mention it, it will piss me off." Now he has learned to talk back to me. He is very naughty and disobedient. I got used to it back then!

Indeed, many mothers take great care of their eldest baby when they have their first child. From daily life to food and drink, mother takes great care of Dabao.

Little did he know that it was because of this that Dabao was harmed. Whatever Dabao wants, mom will give it to him. Whatever Dabao does, mother listens to. As time goes by, Dabao's temper gets worse and worse. To be honest, it was really the mother who harmed Dabao.

01 The eldest son is very lonely.

After the eldest son was born, there was no one to play with him. He communicates more with adults, is responsible, responsible, and has greater autonomy. However, many families pamper Dabao and pamper Dabao very much, which causes Dabao's temper to get worse and worse. Because Dabao will often find tricks to deal with his parents, for example: if you don’t give Dabao something to eat, he will cry to his grandparents (the little guy is very smart)

02 The second child has playmates

After the second child is born, there are The boss’s company. With two children together, parents will inevitably have life and financial pressure, and they will have less time to spend with them. At this time Dabao and Erbao became playmates. The second baby's nature will be exposed, and he will learn and grow through play. Therefore, we often see Erbao's active thinking.

03 Parents’ preference

Before the second child existed, the eldest child was the only one. After having the second child, the second child becomes everything. Since ancient times, the education in many families has been that the eldest child should give way to the second child. When the eldest child has not made much judgment, this will hit him the hardest.

Some parents even send their eldest child to their parents far away so that their grandparents can help. As everyone knows, in Dabao's heart, they think that my parents no longer love me, and my grandparents are the only ones for me. Therefore, in terms of education and character development, the actions of parents harmed Dabao.

Source: Jiayoubaobao.com