Text | Thatched House Xiaocao Columnist and Editor of Changchai Academy | Miss Zhiyu Recently, #罗志祥zhou Yangqingsuyu breaks up# has become a hot search. Some netizens searched the timeline of the two people's interactions on social platforms. They found that the two people who of

Text | Thatched House Grass Chopped Wood Academy Columnist

Editor | Zhiyu Girl

Recently, #罗志祥zhouyangqingsuspected breakup# has become a hot search.

Some netizens searched the timeline of the two people’s interactions on social platforms. The two people who used to often show their affection online have not interacted for more than a month.

On Valentine's Day, the two were no longer as sweet as before. Luo Zhixiang just posted "Happy Valentine's Day to everyone."

Zhou Yangqing only liked his friend King’s Weibo that day.

In Zhou Yangqing’s Weibo account, it is also suspected that the content of the two people’s change of relationship was revealed.

Regarding the rumors that the two broke up, the agency only responded with 7 words, "Artists do not respond to personal matters."

In the past, when faced with false rumors, the two of them would always respond quickly and accurately, never remaining silent.

But this time, there was unexpectedly no clarification. This attitude also broke the hearts of CP fans who are urging marriage.

After all, the two have been in love for nine years. If it really ends in a breakup, it would be really disappointing.

Some people say, "It is difficult to get married if you are in love for a long time." "Love is a long-distance race, but if you are not married, you will be separated."

Is it harder to get married the longer you are in love?

No, there is no inevitable causal relationship between the length of dating and whether to get married.

The key lies in whether you two are suitable, whether you get along harmoniously, and whether you have the same ideas.

The person who wants to marry you will not make you wait too long

Excluding the non-marriage people and DINK people in society, for most women who plan to get married and have children, long-distance love is a big challenge.

Because from a genetic point of view, it is more beneficial for the healthy development of the fetus for women to give birth at the age of 20-30.

Just imagine, a girl who plans to get married and have children falls in love at the age of 23 and encounters a long-distance love race, which lasts for 7 or 8 years. How much youth does she still have to waste with you?

When she was 18, she starred in "Blue Door", Gui Lunmei became the spokesperson for Taiwan's fresh actresses.

In 2006, Gui Lunmei and Dai Liren became acquainted during the filming of " through ". Gui Lunmei was 22 years old at the time, and Dai Liren was 18 years older than her.

In 2007, Gui Lunmei quickly became popular for starring in Jay Chou's "The Untold Secret", while Leon Dai is still working hard for his dream of being a director.

Due to the difference in status and reputation between the two parties, Dai Liren was always unwilling to make it public and maintained an underground relationship.

Later, the man won the Golden Horse Award and became famous.

The media asked them when they would get married. He said that he had to focus on his career and had no plans to get married for the time being.

Later, Gui Lunmei told the media that he did not mind a flash marriage.

Dai Liren got up and told the media, "You expect me to get married, but I just won't get married."

For 14 years, Gui Lunmei was dragged from the age of 22 to 36, without giving the woman the stable family she wanted. The two eventually broke up.

Another example is Xiong Dailin and Aaron Kwok, who were in love for 7 years, and the girls spent their best youth time by his side.

ended up saying, "If your shoes don't fit, you might as well change them."

Later, Aaron Kwok met Fang Yuan and fell in love for only half a year before getting married.

People who truly love you will not let you wait too long.

They are eager to marry you home as soon as possible, get the certificate and seal it, and make you their legal partner.

There are not so many excuses for love. If it keeps making you wait, it’s probably because you don’t love enough.

The wrong person will never be together no matter how long they fall in love.

If they fall in love for a long time, they will break up? Time is not your fault.

The key is whether the two of you are compatible.

Kan Qingzi , Ji Lingchen are typical examples of lessons learned from the past.

Once upon a time, this pair of siblings, who were 5 years apart, sprinkled countless sweets on variety shows.

At that time, there was also an article about their love that hit the screen - "Kan Qingzi has a thousand reasons to be angry, and Ji Lingchen has ten thousand ways to coax her."

But what I didn't expect was that the couple who had been so mad at each other still broke up.

Kan Qingzi first posted in the circle of friends: "I fed the dogs in my youth", which was really heartbreaking.

There were rumors at the time It was Ji Lingchen who cheated, so Kan Qingzi posted a statement on Weibo, saying that she did not cheat or catch him. Until the breakup, she still defended his reputation.

Ji Lingchen's reply was "I loved you", and his words were also regarded as "love". This is the quote from the scumbag man of the year.

Some people say that the man was 25 years old when they broke up and the woman was already 30 years old. The relationship was too long and the girl could not afford it.

In fact, the relationship time is not the root problem, but the difference between the two is the source of the conflict. .

In "Dear Inn", the two people had many conflicts because Kan Qingzi was sensitive and easy to get angry, while Ji Lingchen was not mature enough.

The inn was losing money and was not profitable at all today. Lunch is simple and can be solved casually.

But when it was time to buy food, Ji Lingchen seemed to have forgotten and bought a lot of chicken wings according to his own preferences.

There was a problem with the charcoal and he couldn't use it. Ji Lingchen refused to listen to others' advice. Insisting on trying again, this also made Chen Xiang suffer.

Then Kan Qingzi emphasized that Qianxi had not eaten all day, and Sister Tao was exhausted, but Ji Lingchen did not notice these aspects and still went his own way

. The other time Kan Qingzi was angry, Ji Lingchen would only kiss and hug me. He coaxed her three times and would not solve the problem at the root.

Another time, Kan Qingzi came home at 11 o'clock after filming, and it was very dark and scary when he went downstairs. , called Ji Lingchen to come downstairs to pick her up.

But Ji Lingchen felt that there was nothing unsafe, so he hung up the phone.

Kan Qingzi, whose parents had divorced since childhood, wanted to find a younger and immature boy. Harbor, it's really too difficult.

If two people are not suitable, no matter how long they fall in love, they can't get together.

What's rare is that they never get tired of it.

So some people say that long-distance love never ends well.

No.

Tony Leung and Carina Lau have been in love for 19 years and are inseparable, like soul mates.

Huang Lei and Sun Li started their romance on campus and got married after 8 years of dating. They were so close that others envied them.

Leo Ku and his agent Chen Yunqing had an underground affair for 20 years and finally got married. They just gave birth to a child a while ago.

In short, whether or not to get married, whether there will be a happy ending, and how long the relationship lasts are not necessarily related.

Different people, different feelings, are likely to have different endings.

If you have been in a relationship for a long time but haven't gotten married yet, you should first examine the relationship and see what caused the current situation.

Is it because neither of them has the courage to face the unknown life after marriage, or because they are too different and not suitable at all, but neither of them has the courage to break this situation.

If two people are not suitable, they should break off. Procrastinating will only hurt others and yourself.

Only by saying goodbye to the wrong can we meet the right again.

I hope you will not be confused in your heart, not trapped in emotions, not afraid of the future, and not dwell on the past.

Maybe you will meet the love of your life in a dimly lit place.

[Typesetting | Rush review | Mu Yi]

[Daily topic] About Long-distance love breakup What do you want to say? Everyone is welcome to leave a message for discussion. Uncle Chai loves to listen ~

(Welcome to follow, no reproduction without permission is allowed; originality is not easy, piracy will be investigated.)