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editor / small love letter
"Love without material things is like a plate of loose sand."
I wonder if this sentence will be appropriate in the future of the marriage between Guo Xianni and Zhu Shaojie?
In 2011, the well-known Hong Kong actress Kwok Sianni married Zhu Shaojie, a martial arts instructor in Zhengzhou, Henan. Since then, she has started a marriage that the media describes as a strong woman and a weak man.
Guo Xianni is an actress we are very familiar with. She started her career as a model and without any professional training, she entered the entertainment industry with her appearance. She has created many classic roles and gained fame in the entertainment industry.
And her love life was once talked about.
It was not until she married Zhu Shaojie that these scandalous news stopped. However, because of this, the media began to slander Zhu Shaojie, saying that he was a soft-boiled man, while Guo Xianni was married off. Are the rights and wrongs of
really what outsiders see?
And how did Zhu Shaojie, who was really unknown before marrying Kwok Sianni, capture the most glamorous Hong Kong sister Kwok Sianni?
1
Zhu Shaojie first met Guo Xianni in Hengdian. At that time, he was the martial arts instructor of "Palace". Guo Xianni was the concubine in "Palace", but they were not familiar with each other during the filming.
At most, it was only in a scene where the concubine played by Sunny Kwok needed to skate to attract the emperor's favor. As a martial arts instructor, he stood in front of Sunny Kwok for the first time.
At this time, Guo Xianni was already a popular star actor, while Zhu Shaojie was just a small martial arts instructor. The gap between the two was self-evident.
Zhu Shaojie naturally did not dare to have any inappropriate thoughts with Guo Xianni.
But then again, any man would probably be attracted by Guo Xianni's gentleness and beauty, and no matter how much he restrained himself, his heart would inevitably be moved.
Perhaps God realized that the fate between the two of them was more than that, so he took the initiative to create opportunities for the two of them.
A few days before the filming of "Palace" was completed, an artist coordinator named Deng felt that Guo Xianni was already old, and Zhu Shaojie happened to be of marriageable age. The two were very suitable, so he found Guo Shaojie:
"I would like to introduce Guo Xianni Give it to you, but she asked her blind date if he had the guts to hold her hand. "
Although Zhu Shaojie thought this sentence was a bit strange, he could understand what Guo Xianni meant after thinking about it.
She is a well-known artist after all. Once he falls in love with her, the person who falls in love with her will inevitably face a lot of criticism and speculation from the outside world.
If she can't bear it and chooses to leave, for Guo Xianni, it will be nothing but nothing and nothing, which is too unfair to her.
After thinking over and over again, Zhu Shaojie decided to seize this rare opportunity. After all, who can not be tempted by the former Hong Kong sister?
So Zhu Shaojie asked Guo Xianni to have dinner together.
But he didn’t have much dating experience. When he had dinner with Guo Xianni for the first time, he was very excited, but also very shy. After the meal, Zhu Shaojie was so stunned that he didn’t dare to say a word.
Fortunately, Zhu Shaojie maintained his gentlemanly demeanor no matter how embarrassed he was. After the meal, he took the initiative to send Guo Xianni back to his residence. When he said goodbye to Guo Xianni, he took the initiative to reach out and shake her hand and said:
"Nice to meet you, Guo Xianni."
This handshake seemed very meaningful to Zhu Shaojie. He wanted to express his bravery to Guo Xianni and was willing to hold her hand and walk with her.
But Guo Xianni might have been a bit nervous at that time, and She didn't think much about it, she just felt that Zhu Shaojie was very gentle and polite.
After this date, Guo Xianni felt good about Zhu Shaojie, so she was willing to give Zhu Shaojie a try.
She just watched and followed her schedule. It was time to return to Hong Kong, and the two people who had just started to have a relationship were about to be separated.
Zhu Shaojie knew that Guo Xianni was going back to Hong Kong because of work. After all, he already knew her, and the future was long.
When Guo Xianni returned to Hong Kong, she was not in a hurry. One day, Zhu Shaojie also imitated the plot of the film and television drama and sent a hundred roses to Guo Xianni, but it was not allowed to take so many roses on the plane.
But seeing Zhu Shaojie's feelings towards her, Guo Xianni was still very happy and took a few of them.
With some subsequent exchanges, the two became more and more fond of each other, and they naturally came together and began a long-distance relationship. They communicated with each other through phone calls.
Over time, Guo Xianni felt that it was not an option to continue like this. After all, Zhu Shaojie couldn't be with her all the time, so she ignored Zhu Shaojie intentionally or unintentionally.
For this reason, Zhu Shaojie was not angry, but still very angry. Trying to comfort Guo Xianni.
Just when Guo Xianni felt that this relationship was about to last, TVB once again arranged for her to go to the mainland to film. This made Guo Xianni very happy. She quickly called Zhu Shaojie:
"I'm back again. , and then filmed in mainland China. "
Zhu Shaojie was working in Shanghai at this time. He knew that the girl he liked had returned to the mainland, so he quickly put down his work and flew to the filming location to meet Guo Xianni.
So what will be the outcome of this reunion between the two lovers? ?
2
It was several months before we met again. Guo Xianni had been filming for three months, and Zhu Shaojie had been with Guo Xianni almost the whole time. It was also during this time that the two got to know each other better.
Zhu Shaojie discovered that Guo Xianni Although she is a big star, she does not have any arrogance or pretentiousness. She just treats acting as a job.
In addition, although Guo Xianni earns a lot of money, she is not keen on high consumption of luxury goods. Frugal...
As we got along day by day, Zhu Shaojie fell more and more in love with this girl who was 6 years older than him, and became more and more determined that she was the one he wanted to spend the rest of his life with.
So he said hello to his mother in advance. After Guo Xianni finished filming, she took her back to meet her parents.
Guo Xianni was very happy when she heard that Zhu Shaojie was taking her back to meet her parents. After all, she had no illusions about love and marriage before she met Zhu Shaojie. Only then did she believe in love again.
So when she started dating Zhu Shaojie, she was also heading towards marriage.
After Zhu Shaojie returned home, she accompanied Guo Xianni and chatted with her mother.
Watching her mother and Guo Xianni talking happily. , there was a ripple in Zhu Shaojie's heart, and he felt more and more that he made the right choice by choosing Guo Xianni, and the idea of marrying her was unparalleledly profound at this moment.
So Zhu Shaojie took advantage of this atmosphere to get down on one knee and propose to Guo Xianni. At this time, the two people had only known each other for three months.
Although Guo Xianni was surprised, she still felt very happy and finally agreed to Zhu Shaojie's proposal.
After the proposal was successful, Kwok Sianni took Zhu Shaojie back to Hong Kong to visit her parents.
Guo Xianni’s parents were very happy to see that their daughter was finally willing to get married. Moreover, they chose Zhu Shaojie who was very down-to-earth and progressive and treated Guo Xianni very well, so they still supported their marriage.
So in 2011, the two got married together with the blessings of their parents, relatives and friends.
After getting married, Zhu Shaojie took Guo Xianni to Guam for their honeymoon, which is where the idol drama Jiang Zhishu and Yuan Xiangqin went for their honeymoon.
The two also spent a very sweet period, but then came real problems.
After all, the two of them were indeed strong women and weak men at that time, so can such a marriage withstand the test of reality?
3
At that time, the outside world was not optimistic about this marriage, because Zhu Shaojie’s financial strength was much lower than Guo Xianni’s, and the outside world always felt that they would separate one day.
There are even rumors that Guo Xianni’s mother does not like Guo Xianni marrying a poor boy like Zhu Shaojie.
But that is not the case.
Zhu Shaojie's career is actually on the rise, but sometimes he doesn't compete in his career and keeps doing things quietly, which makes his career not seem to be developing as well as Guo Xianni's.
In the early days, Zhu Shaojie not only worked as a director, but also as a producer. Guo Xianni felt that it was too hard for him, so she made a suggestion and asked Zhu Shaojie to choose one. In the end, Zhu Shaojie chose to be a director.
It’s just that when you become a director, you have to worry about all the big and small things in order to make a good work. However, he gave up the final signature of the chief director of the work to someone else.
After Guo Xianni found out, she asked him why, and he said that it was because that person was a senior and she had to respect him and be humble.
For this reason, Guo Xianni told him sincerely:
"Although humility is good, you deserve it, and your career must develop."
After that, Zhu Shaojie finally listened to Guo Xianni's words and began to With his enterprising spirit, he successively filmed works such as "Xian Qingyun Zhi" and " Protecting Beauty ".
As for the fact that Guo Xianni's mother does not support the two of them, Guo Xianni also directly responded:
"My mother likes him very much. There is no such thing as a strong woman and a weak man. He is just relatively low-key."
However, the outside world still doesn't seem to believe it. Once after Zhu Shaojie finished work, he returned to Hong Kong to find Guo Xianni.
It happened that Guo Xianni had a job, so she worked as an assistant to Guo Xianni, fanning her wife and giving her water. Unexpectedly, the paparazzi caught him and immediately said:
"Zhu Shaojie has no job and is reduced to doing odd jobs for his wife."
Normal men see such content. Everyone would be furious, but Zhu Shaojie had already been mentally prepared and never took it to heart.
Life belongs to him and Guo Xianni. What outsiders want to say is their business. What really worries him is that he and his wife Guo Xianni rarely see each other because of work.
After getting married, the two couldn't see each other most of the time, but whenever there was a chance, Zhu Shaojie would go to Hong Kong to accompany his wife. Perhaps it was a breakup that was better than a wedding. The relationship between the two has always been very good. Not long after the marriage, Guo Xianni became pregnant.
At this time, Guo Xianni was 37 years old, and she paid special attention to her first child. Zhu Shaojie also calculated Guo Xianni's due date and thought about taking a month's leave to accompany the birth.
But God is not as good as God. When Guo Xianni was about to give birth, Zhu Shaojie almost couldn't get to her in time.
At that time, Zhu Shaojie hurriedly took a bus from Shenzhen to Hong Kong, but when he arrived, he was stopped by the customs.
The reason is that his visa has expired. Usually, these things are handled by assistants, so Zhu Shaojie never pays attention to the date of his visa.
Zhu Shaojie panicked and called Guo Xianni to explain the situation. Guo Xianni might be pregnant and was in a very impatient mood:
"Then am I going to give birth or not? How can I give birth if you don't come?"
If you want to go back to your hometown of Zhengzhou at this time, It would take at least a week, and Zhu Shaojie was annoyed that he was not careful.
At this time, the staff discovered that Zhu Shaojie's passport contained US visa , and his wife was expecting childbirth in Hong Kong, so they allowed him to enter Hong Kong as a tourist, so that he did not miss the birth of his child.
Finally, in 2012, Guo Xianni gave birth to a daughter, Kylie, and their world became a family of three, happy and happy.
4
Of course, Zhu Shaojie and Guo Xianni were very happy about the birth of their daughter. When Guo Xianni was in kindergarten, she had already thought about letting her daughter follow her own path.
studied in Hong Kong from elementary school to high school, and then went to Canada to study in college, so that I could have a long experience and see more of the outside world.
However, Zhu Shaojie felt that just let nature take its course. What he wanted was how to make his daughter happy and grow up safely.
The couple saw that Kylie was growing up every day and had their own plans, but one thing in common was to pave the way for their daughter, so Xianni Guo began to return to acting, and Zhu Shaojie also resumed his previous busy daily life on set.
Such an inevitable separation in different places has never weakened the relationship between the two.
Zhu Shaojie later also filmed a work with Guo Xianni as the heroine.
It was just that during the filming process, Guo Xianni had to run around in high heels. At that time, Guo Xianni had just come back and was not used to such a high-intensity work. Her feet were covered with blisters at the end of the day.
When Zhu Shaojie returned home, he saw Guo Xianni making those blisters, so he considerately asked Guo Xianni to put on the band-aid. Guo Xianni said coquettishly that it was hard work. At this time, the dedicated Zhu Shaojie said:
"If you are afraid of hard work, don't be a heroine."
Guo Xianni was almost furious, but Zhu Shaojie, who had always been so dedicated and serious, was what attracted her, so she didn't care too much about Zhu Shaojie.
Zhu Shaojie actually understood Guo Xianni's hard work. During the filming the next day, he may have taken photos of Guo Xianni without revealing anything.
So maybe the occasional incomprehensible romance between the two is the real marriage.
After all, marriage cannot be perfect every moment. Only by silently understanding after being unhappy like this can a marriage be happy for a long time.
5
Now the two have been married for 11 years, and they only have one daughter.
Zhu Shaojie, Guo Xianni and their daughter once wanted to have another child. Unfortunately, Guo Xianni was pregnant at the time, but she was stillborn due to filming.
After that, no matter how hard they tried, they still couldn't get pregnant. Maybe it was destined by God, but it was already a very happy thing to have a well-behaved and lovely daughter by their side.
With the separation of the entertainment industry, the relationship between Zhu Shaojie and Guo Xianni has gradually been recognized and envied by everyone.
Due to the epidemic in the past two years, Zhu Shaojie and Guo Xianni have not seen each other for nearly a year. Even before, Guo Xianni had forgotten their eight-year wedding anniversary. It was Zhu Shaojie who remembered the wedding anniversary and took the initiative to say to Guo Xianni:
"Eighth wedding anniversary" ", I can't go with you."
For Guo Xianni, Zhu Shaojie still remembers their wedding anniversary after eight years. This is the best gift.
Regardless of whether anyone would say that Zhu Shaojie relies on his wife to make ends meet, it seems that the fact is that the two are evenly matched, and there is no one who is better or worse.
Perhaps when he first got married, Zhu Shaojie’s career had just started, and he looked worse than Guo Xianni.
But later, Zhu Shaojie caught up through his own efforts and talents and took on the responsibilities of the family. This is already better than many men.
So perhaps it can be seen from the marriage of two people that the first condition for choosing a marriage partner is not money, but a person's outlook on life, responsibility, motivation, single-mindedness, etc.
It is said that "poor and lowly couples will be sad for everything. Sitting idle and sad, you will also feel sad for yourself." In real life, a marriage that is empty of material things is actually a mess.
Just like Guo Xianni said:
"After my husband and I got together, I knew what I wanted."
It's not Jinshan jewelry, nor expensive clothes, but Zhu Shaojie as if it were the first time we met. Holding her hand from beginning to end, watching the long flowing water with me.
