Sometimes when friends get together, when it comes to taking care of their children, many mothers can't help but complain about their children's father. For example, in the middle of the night, when the child needs to be fed and changed, the father will not wake up no matter how

Sometimes when friends get together, when it comes to taking care of their children, many mothers can't help but complain about their children's father.

For example, in the middle of the night, the child needs to be fed and diapered, but the father does not wake up no matter how much he screams; or the father would rather stay at home and look at his mobile phone than take the initiative to share the housework.

Today, the male protagonist of the film I want to introduce is such a father, and the female protagonist has some unexpected things happen in order to take care of the family. It is -

" Tully "

Tully

At the beginning of the video , the heroine Marlowe (Charlize Theron) is already the mother of two children.

Although the children brought a lot of joy to Marlowe's family, giving birth to the child made Marlowe's figure seriously out of shape -

a pot belly, elephant legs, crow's feet, and dark bags under the eyes.The former girl is now a A bloated aunt.

His son's mania has always been Marlowe's biggest worry. In order to relieve his son's symptoms, Marlowe wipes his son's body with a non-wet brush every day.

But this method of treating the symptoms rather than the root cause cannot improve the son's situation outside the home.

Her son's mania made the kindergarten teacher very anxious. The kindergarten formally proposed to Marlowe to persuade her to quit, which made her very angry.

At this time, Marlowe's unexpectedly pregnant third child was about to be born . It was really a wave of ups and downs, and Marlowe was exhausted from all the things.

Her husband, Drew, is 41 years old and is the main breadwinner of the family. He has no bad habits.

goes home every day and kisses the children and talks a few words. After returning to the room, he puts on headphones and plays games. is not particularly concerned about things at home.

Anyway, this is not the first time that his wife has given birth to a child. Being a father again is nothing new for Drew.

In this environment, Marlowe and Drew's third baby was born.

Feeding, changing diapers, putting people to sleep, washing clothes, cooking, taking out the trash...

Marlowe did everything by himself. 4 hours was so full that he didn't even have time to sleep. The house was a mess. There was no one to clean up.

Marlowe's brother couldn't bear to see his sister suffer, so he planned to hire a nanny for her.

At first, Marlowe was afraid of spending money and rejected his brother's kindness. Drew also believed that his wife was experienced and could take care of three children easily, so hiring a nanny was simply redundant.

But the fact is that Marlowe is no longer a little girl in her twenties. The three children are noisy day and night, which makes Marlowe physically and mentally exhausted.

With desperation, Marlowe accepted his brother's suggestion and hired a night nanny.

And this nanny is Tully!

Tully is not only young and beautiful, but also kind-hearted and patient. In addition to taking care of the children, she also takes care of all the housework at home.

Tully was like a savior , directly rescuing Marlowe from the eighteenth level of hell. Slowly, Marlowe and Tully became good friends who talked about everything.

Because of Tully, Marlowe took the initiative to apologize to the kindergarten;

Because of Tully, Marlowe's relationship with his children became better and better;

Because of Tully, Marlowe began to take care of his out-of-shape figure;

Because of Tully, Marlowe Decided to regain the relationship with Drew as a couple.

In order to help Marlowe repair the relationship between husband and wife, Tully actually proposed a "threesome" suggestion. As his wife, Marlowe not only did not get angry, but also readily accepted it.

Tully just wore one of Marlowe's favorite dresses when he was young and climbed into Drew's bed...

Sure enough, the lifeless married life took a new turn.

In order to seek the excitement of life, Tully and Marlowe drove to the center of New York, where they went to the bar to see handsome guys and attended the party.

Marlowe's long-suppressed heart was released, and she could laugh and shout to her heart's content.

And at this moment, Tully submitted his resignation to Marlowe...

Marlowe was very puzzled. He had done a good job, why should he resign?

Marlowe tried every means to persuade Tully to stay, but to no avail.

Finally, on the way back, due to mental exhaustion and drinking, Marlowe and Tully overturned the car into the river together.

Marlowe was unconscious in the hospital. When the doctor asked Drew if Marlowe had any history of mental illness before, and diagnosed her with severe lack of sleep, Drew seemed to realize something.

It turns out that Marlowe suffers from multiple personality disorder , Tully is the second personality that Marlowe imagined, which is his young self.

In fact, Marlowe was diagnosed with severe depression when his son developed mania. Although he was later cured, the heavy housework of taking care of three children never stopped.

Later, coupled with the frustration caused by his son out of school, his body being out of shape, and her husband's indifference, Marlowe began to hallucinate, imagining that he was twenty years younger and could do anything in heaven or on earth.

In fact, it’s not just Marlowe. Which modern woman doesn’t hope that she can take care of both her family and her career? !

not only hopes that his children will grow up in groups and be successful in their studies, but he also hopes that he can be as beautiful as a flower and live a high-quality life.

Many mothers are studying for exams while running between markets and supermarkets. They only have a small amount of time after putting their children to sleep every day.

In order to keep up with the times, only my mother knows the hard work during this period.

My little sister once asked some male friends who have become fathers, how do they experience the role of father after the child is born? After all, my father had never been pregnant for ten months.

And their answers were very vague, and they had no idea what to do specifically.

Just like in the movie, why does the heroine suffer from personality disorder? Why hasn’t my son’s mania improved? It is precisely because the male protagonist who is a father no! do! for!

In traditional Chinese concepts, men are responsible for making money and supporting the family, while women are responsible for raising their husbands and raising children.

But please note that men can make money during the day and go home to rest at night, but what about women? They must take care of their families 24 hours a day.

People say that father's love is silent, but silence does not mean indifference.

If a father is accustomed to using his mobile phone to kill his children when they are crying, and uses force to deal with naughty children, and is not even willing to accompany them, then how can we believe that such a father loves his children? !

This is the lack of fathers in family education, which is what people call "widowed parenting"!

Children who lack father's love will develop some adverse tendencies, such as cognitive impairment, personality defects, emotional disorders, and physical development disorders.

Therefore, as a member of the family, the father is equally important. If having children is the great goal of human reproduction, then women should not be allowed to fight alone -

take the initiative to share some housework within their ability and accompany them patiently. A child who loves his wife at the same time.

has a good saying, there is no silent father's love, only a father who evades responsibility.