A picture was circulated on the Internet some time ago. In the picture, two middle-aged women were sitting in the subway. One was dressed exquisitely, and the other was dressed casually. They looked completely slovenly.
Netizens commented one after another. Some people think that the woman who is exquisitely dressed lives a good life, while others think that the woman who is unkempt lives a comfortable life. In fact, everyone has their own way of living. Some people pay attention to dressing up, and some people pay attention to other aspects.
As for who has a better life, it depends on which aspect you are talking about. If we talk about economics, at first glance it seems that the woman who is dressed up is richer, so she dresses up beautifully. And the slovenly one cannot dress himself properly because he has no money.
But in fact this may not be the case. There is a saying: People cannot be judged by their appearance, and sea water cannot be measured. The one who is dressed up exquisitely may not have more money in her pocket than the one who is slovenly. Sometimes it is the slovenly one who is richer.
People with certain social experience and life experience will not judge people by their appearance, but will see the essence through the appearance. But it is easy for young people to judge people by their appearance, so that they make wrong judgments and end up regretting them.
A girl judges people by their appearance, and ends up regretting it
29-year-old Fang Xin really wants to find a suitable marriage partner as soon as possible. She wants to get married and have children like others, but she is unwilling to lower her standards for choosing a spouse. Fang Xin's standards for choosing a spouse are quite high. The partner should not only graduate from a prestigious school, be handsome, but also have a good family background.
But a young man with such a good condition might not necessarily fall in love with her, so Fang Xin couldn't do anything high and low. In the blink of an eye, she turned 29 and became a "leftover girl". Her parents were urging her to get married every day. Seeing that she was about to turn 30, she was very anxious, but she had no choice.
Fang Xin is a girl who pays great attention to dressing up. She can eat instant noodles for a week to buy a beautiful skirt; she can skip breakfast for a week to buy a bag. She spends all of her monthly salary of 4,500 yuan on her own clothing, and sometimes asks her parents for some money.
In fact, no matter how she packages herself, there is an age gap between a 29-year-old girl and a 20-year-old girl. But in order to catch a rich husband, she had to go to great lengths to package herself. And she does advocate a refined life. She likes petty bourgeoisie and loves vanity.
Later, someone introduced a young man to Fang Xin, and his conditions sounded good in all aspects. On the day of the blind date, Fang Xin packed up again and wore all brand-name outfits. She felt that only by filling herself with nobility could she increase her worth.
After Fang Xin met the young man, her enthusiasm suddenly dropped. She secretly complained to the introducer, how could he introduce such a person to her? The young man was dressed very casually, and his whole outfit was very ordinary. Nothing was branded.
When Fang Xin saw the young man dressed like this, she rejected him in her heart, thinking that his family background was not good and the introducer was bragging about his conditions. Since I have already rejected the other party in my heart, I have no interest in continuing the blind date, but I feel a little embarrassed to leave as soon as they meet, so I reluctantly deal with it.
The young man was very interested in Fang Xin and kept talking to Fang Xin, talking about clothes. The young man said that when living at home, it is not necessary to wear brand-name clothes. The standard should be to wear comfortable clothes. He was very satisfied with Fang Xin, but he felt that Fang Xin was a little too chasing after luxury goods.
Fang Xin immediately became unhappy. He stood up from his seat and said that he could not live a refined life anymore. She also said that the conditions of the blind date were not good, he could not afford luxury goods, and the clothes he wore were too low-grade and not worthy of her at all.
As Fang Xin said this, she picked up her bag angrily and left. The blind date immediately apologized to Fang Xin, saying that he had said the wrong thing and letting Fang Xin calm down. But Fang Xin was already not interested in him, so why would she want to sit down and talk again? So she walked away without looking back.
Fang Xin turned around and complained to the introducer, asking how he introduced such a person to her? If she wanted to find such a person, she would have married herself long ago. Why wait until now? The introducer was very apologetic and said that the blind date had seen Fang Xin's photos and liked Fang Xin very much, so she became the matchmaker.
After some time, Fang Xin went to meet a friend. A relative of the friend's family had a date with him, and he happened to bring him to meet the friend. So Fang Xin saw this person, who turned out to be her blind date.
The blind date was still dressed very simply. He was surprised when he saw Fang Xin, but he immediately became elegant. Now, he has a new girlfriend, and Fang Xin is no longer interested in her. During the blind date that day, Fang Xin didn't observe him carefully because she thought the clothes he was wearing were too low-grade.
Now Fang Xin looked at him again and found that all aspects of his conversation and behavior were as the introducer said, and he was indeed good. Fang Xin felt an indescribable feeling in her heart, especially when she saw him taking care of his girlfriend so considerately, Fang Xin was very envious.
After the blind date and his girlfriend left, my friend chatted with Fang Xin about the blind date. Friends said that he has a monthly salary of 20,000 yuan, a villa and a luxury car at home, and his parents are both in business. At first, when the introducer told Fang Xin about the blind date, he didn't explain it in detail, so Fang Xin didn't actually know much about it.
After Fang Xin left her friend's house, she immediately called the introducer to confirm what her friend said. Fang Xin immediately regretted it in her heart. She had always wanted to catch a rich husband, but when the golden husband really appeared in front of her, she refused.
People should not be judged by their appearance.
Fang Xin dressed herself up beautifully and wore all famous brands, as if her family was rich. But in fact, her family is just an ordinary family, and her income is not high. She just looks good on the outside.
The blind date's family is in good condition, and his income is not low, but he is dressed simply. Fang Xin judges people by their appearance. When she first met her blind date, she rejected him when she saw that the clothes he wore were too low-grade, so she missed her blind date.
When Fang Xin learned the true situation of her blind date's family and saw her blind date's polite appearance, she felt very unhappy.
Therefore, young people must not judge people by their appearance. Some people like to dress up and make themselves look like nobles, but in fact they are nothing; while others who do not look good are actually very powerful.
In fact, it is better to be a more down-to-earth person and not engage in frivolous things. People need face, but lizi is more important. There is no need to give up lizi for the sake of face. When it comes to consumption, you should live within your means and do it according to your own situation. Don't be ostentatious just for the sake of vanity.
Author: A creator in the emotional field, focusing on various issues in the emotional field, welcome to pay attention. Life is warm because of affection and love. Let us grow in love and spend every day in true love.
