People often say: The opposite of love is not hate, but indifference.
No longer in love Ahn Jae Hyun did it. He treated the girl Gu Hye Sun who he once regarded as a treasure as air and let her express her true feelings: I am the ghost living at home, you once loved so much. The woman turned into a zombie.
From the beginning of the divorce to September 3, when Goo Hye Sun said she still did not want to divorce Ahn Jae Hyun, both parties were frantically making moves that were fatal.
From the initial show of affection in front of the camera, to the high-profile breakup of the relationship, to the back-and-forth, this celebrity couple, once known as the "Korean fairy tale", perfectly performed an unseemly melee. .
has been at the forefront of public opinion one after another, and both Goo Hye Sun and Ahn Jae Hyun have been labeled as "ugly".
If Ku Hye Sun is "unable to love", Ahn Jae Hyun is a "heartbroken man"; if Ku Hye Sun is "possessed by drama queen", Ahn Jae Hyun is "unkind to others".
The balance of public opinion is completely biased, and no one can guarantee that anyone will escape unscathed.
As early as August, Goo Hye Sun posted a status on social networks saying: Ahn Jae Hyun wanted a divorce but she didn’t. She also said that Ahn Jae Hyun wanted to make a public statement. She said that what the other party said was not true, so she released it first. This news.
posted screenshots of the conversation between the two.
learned from the information she shared:
1, Ahn Jae Hyun and Goo Hye Sun had private discussions about divorce;
2, they both belong to the same agency, and the woman signed the contract two months ago. The company where the man works;
3. According to the company’s statement, it was the woman who was proactive about the divorce, but the woman refuted this part, indicating that the man wanted to divorce but she didn’t;
4. The property that the two lived together before was given to the man, and the man Money for the woman’s house.
The summary is: Ahn Jae-hyun wanted a divorce but Ku Hye-sun didn’t. Ahn Jae-hyun joined the company earlier than Ku Hye-sun, and the company chose security guard Jae-hyun.
After learning about this incident, everyone’s first reaction was: shock.
Ahn Jae-hyun and Goo Hye-sun are much more popular than Song Joong-ki Song Hye-kyo in Korea. They show off their affection in front of the camera. Their daily routine is sweeter than sugar. Both of them are good-looking and talented. , used to be a couple of gods and immortals that everyone envied.
The two chose to get married a year after they announced their relationship. Many people were puzzled by this couple whose careers were on the rise, but Ahn Jae-hyun said: "I like this person very much and want to get married quickly." Life."
Whenever the couple was mentioned in the following days, everyone would sigh: This is true love.
The two characters in " Newlywed Diary " make people realize that the ordinary life of daily necessities, food, rice, oil and salt also hides endless romance and sweetness, and quarreling can also be a coquettish act.
Now that they are divorcing, it is undoubtedly a basin of cold water that has extinguished everyone's hopes.
Then he called Ahn Jae-hyun a "scumbag" and a "heartless man".
Goo Hye Sun's remarks after that hit the pain points of countless netizens:
"He seemed to have just fallen in love with me, very briefly."
"Just like when he persuaded me to get married, he also took the responsibility to persuade me when it came to divorce. "
"I am a ghost living at home. The woman you once loved has become a zombie."
recalled what she said, "My sister is already thirty-four years old. No matter what she does, she will not be moved. , the last heartbeat is only for you." No one does not feel sorry for their feelings and for her.
It can also be seen from the conversation that Ahn Jae-hyun showed his immature side. The two agreed to explain the divorce in front of their elders, but the man who wanted the divorce regretted it and ran away, leaving the mess behind. Let the woman deal with it.
Everyone started to criticize: Ahn Jae Hyun is irresponsible, has no responsibility, and is not a good husband.
"I am not satisfied after marrying such a good wife" and "I feel sorry for Goo Hye Sun".
But for a person who has changed his mind, these are insignificant scoldings that have no effect. Just like you cannot wake up someone who is pretending to be asleep, it is also difficult to restore a heart that no longer loves.
It has been two weeks since the incident. On September 3, the topic "Koo Hye Sun said she still doesn't want to divorce Ahn Jae Hyun" became a hot search topic, and the comments were full of "Koo Hye Sun is a drama queen". It was completely different from the previous heartache.
Goo Hye-sun, who does not want a divorce, cannot satisfy the desire of the "perfect victim" in the eyes of the public. She just wants to maintain her marriage with Ahn Jae-hyun, even if it is already in ruins. Another reason why
doesn't want to get divorced is that he wants to keep his pet cat.
But how can there be an eternal honeymoon period in marriage? Without love, both parties are puppets "kidnapped" by marriage.
Gu Hye Sun has her own persistence, but Ahn Jae Hyun really has no love for her anymore. I am afraid that her efforts to save her will be ineffective in the end. If she continues to live with a sense of responsibility without emotional ties, it will only be Let the two become resentful couples full of hatred.
It can also be found from the living conditions of the two people that there are many completely out of sync in the lives of Gu Hye Sun and Ahn Jae Hyun, and the contrast in concepts is extremely strong.
still remember that in "Newlywed Diary", Ahn Jae-hyun did not dare to fart in front of the other party after getting married and had to go to the toilet, while Goo Hye-sun got up in the early morning to wash her hair just because she was afraid that Ahn Jae-hyun would not like her dirty hair.
Both of them were too concerned about shaping the perfection of this relationship, thus neglecting the fact that the real marriage life is full of loopholes and hardships, and requires facing all kinds of sloppiness. After the hormonal craze subsided, the hidden reefs emerged one by one, and no matter what Perfection is the original face of love, but they and the public have ignored this, thinking that they can rely on illusions to maintain it.
Currently, Gu Hye Sun and Ahn Jae Hyun are still fighting. They don’t know when this less than honorable melee will stop. Gu Hye Sun is pretending to be asleep, and Ahn Jae Hyun is determined. No one has the right to call them except themselves. Stop this "puppet" marriage.