Big S Gu Junye flashes marriage: It's cool to dare to love and hate, but ordinary people must not follow suit easily

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Today is International Women's Day on March 8. In this very commemorative festival, there is an explosive news that Big S is getting married. The object of marriage is Korean singer Koo Junye.

First, Koo Junye announced the marriage of the two. , He said that the two had fallen in love with each other more than 20 years ago, and then broke up. When he knew the news of her divorce, he immediately contacted her, and the two continued their relationship, hoping to get everyone's support and blessings.

Later, Da S also reposted it on ins, saying that life is impermanent, I cherish the happiness of the moment, and thank you for everything that has allowed me to get to where I am now.

What shocked everyone was that she had just gotten divorced some time ago, she had just gotten out of that unhappy marriage, why did she jump into a new pit again, netizens were very enthusiastic about this matter, He also joked that his ex's phone number should not be deleted.

Everyone is exaggerating that S dares to love and hate, that if you love someone, you will be brave to be with him, just like when you loved Wang Xiaofei back then, openly, the official announcement is together, the official announcement of marriage, without hesitation. If you don't love it, you can let it go decisively and separate from the other party.

The story of her and Goo Junye sounds like the plot of a TV series. They dated for a year more than 20 years ago, and then they separated due to less time and separation. After separation, Goo Junye never fell in love again, but neither did they. They contacted again, and now they contacted again after the divorce of Da S, and they got married because of the epidemic, and Gu Junye was unable to enter the stage to meet.

This sounds really crazy.

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This is very in line with Da S's style, she is such a person who dares to love and hate.

But netizens are still very worried. We can all understand everyone's concerns. After all, two people have not been in contact for more than 20 years. Getting married is too impulsive.

What if, after years of baptism, the other person is no longer the person we once loved, what if two people live together with different personalities, too many in case we are afraid of this.

We encourage everyone to dare to love and hate, but we do not encourage people like Da S, because Da S is not an ordinary person, and she can afford bad consequences.

Assuming that the two may be together in the end, or there will be discord due to various reasons, that's okay, she has the ability to divorce again, just like she wants to get married, if she is really unhappy in the future, she can also think Divorce is divorce.

Getting married if you want to get married, or getting a divorce if you want to get a divorce requires huge capital, not just being alone, because most ordinary people do not have such ability and are not so powerful.

This is the main reason why we don't encourage everyone to learn Big S. I didn't say that she did it badly. I believe she must be very happy at this moment. If the other party doesn't bring her happiness, she can't be so casual marry each other.

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Why can't we ordinary people easily imitate the big S? The reason is simple and can be said from two aspects.

First, we don't have her huge financial resources.

Whether it is a marriage or a divorce, it requires a lot of financial resources. Of course, you can also say that as long as the man has money, it is fine, and the man bears all the expenses, which is indeed possible.

But what we mean by financial resources is not just the financial resources to get married, but the financial resources to deal with the unfortunate marriage life, because marriage is actually opening a blind box. You never know what the blind box you open is. Happy or unhappy in marriage.

Maybe he did treat you very well before marriage, met all your needs, promised to raise you many times, and pampered her like his daughter. But no one can guarantee whether he can spoil you like this all the time.

What if he doesn't spoil you? What if he cheated, what if he was going to dump you? At this time, you don't have any financial resources on your own, so you can only reach out and ask him for money. If you want to spend money, you have to look at the other party's face.

But if you have the financial resources yourself, you can buy whatever you want. You don't need his consent to do what you want, because you can do it yourself, and you don't have to be angry with him.

And if the marriage is unhappy and if you have no money, you can only endure it silently in the marriage, because a person can't raise a child after a divorce, maybe even his own. How dare you get a divorce.

But if you have money, you can shake your hair, walk away in big strides, and divorce him directly. You can live just fine on your own, without worrying about not having money to support your kids or having nowhere to go.

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Second, we ordinary people do not have the courage she does.

Da S is a very, very courageous person, which is reflected in her pursuit of career and management of her appearance. She works very, very hard, and it is precisely because of her hard work that she has such a wealth of wealth, which is the basis for her current choice.

She is very, very strict in managing her appearance. She is very, very strict in managing her figure. The weight loss goals and plans she has set can really be achieved. She can restrain herself for her own goals. appetite. In terms of whitening, as long as it can be whitened, she will definitely try it.

Her courage has penetrated into all aspects of her life, so she is such a person who dares to love and hate in love. Confused, without hesitation.

So she wasn't worried at all, what would happen if she married Gu Junye if she wasn't happy, and if she wasn't happy, she would get a divorce, it's that simple.

But we ordinary people do not have the courage like her, and many times we may face unhappy marriages, we may be entangled, hesitate, suffer, and then continue to be hurt in it, and there is no way to get out. And may never get out again.

So as an ordinary person, if you can't bear the consequences, don't go into this muddy water easily.

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Article Illustration | Big S, Goo Junye