The more stubborn your parents are, the harder it is to communicate. Recently, I was so angry that I exploded and hurt myself.
My parents used to live in the city. Now I am old and can’t climb the stairs, so I went back to my hometown to live in my hometown, grow some vegetables and raise a dog, so that I can’t live a comfortable life. The house in my hometown was rebuilt thirty years ago. At that time, the bathroom was designed under the stairs. The space was cramped and not ventilated. It had not been occupied for many years. The water pipes inside had become aging and could no longer be used for water.
discussed with them that they were getting older every year, and now they are over 70 years old. I will transform the bathroom, move it to the room, and move the water heater and toilet inside, so that life will be convenient.
However, when they proposed at the beginning of the year, they shook their heads constantly and firmly disagreed. So, I can only go with them.
Last month, they proposed to install an solar water heater , and the bathroom did not change its location, so I quickly arranged it for them.
First, they told them to change their location and moved them to the room; after several times of unremitting lobbying by several people, they finally reluctantly agreed.
Then I asked someone to watch the start of construction, and my old father criticized him for being so decent, saying that such a person from the world just came out to spend money and made money for him. Only those with a simple mind like me were deceived. I was so angry that I said, OK, it’s not time to press the toilet, so let’s take a look for it yourself, saving you money from being cheated by others.
This made the old father grit his teeth, saying that my words were too poisonous and poked his heart... The spear was not contradictory, and I was speechless! The window on the wall behind
is made of wood, so it needs to be replaced with an aluminum alloy window for waterproofing in the later stage. Moreover, there is an idle broken bridge aluminum window for my friend's home, so I can pull it back and use it. It's a good thing. It saves thousands of dollars. However, my old father started to furious again, saying that the original window could be used and it was not allowed to be replaced. I reasoned with him well. If I didn’t change it, the bathroom would not be completely closed after waterproofing, and the windowsill could not be closed, but he still insisted, and it would not be possible no matter how I said it, I could only compromise! Later, I tried to seal it with glass glue and barely used it.
also needs to discuss with them before changing the bed, but I don’t know how much to grind.
Just a little bit of things, the resistance encountered is extraordinary, and the conservative and stubborn thoughts accompany them throughout their lives. Think about it, when we were young, it was so difficult to grow up under the control of the old father of the head of the family! I will never let my children repeat my mistakes, and I will not be a stubborn person like my old father, and it will hurt others!
