Today I read "Every section of life is an insight: Lu Xiaoman" This book, what makes me feel the most is that her life is wonderful and miserable, and the wonderful thing is that all the people she met are The most powerful character in the Republic of China, the sad thing is that she didn't realize the meaning of life until her later years in her life.
She was born in a turbulent autumn. Although she was born in a turbulent time, she is a wealthy family, is a big chaebol, lives a life of high society, and has received the best education since she was a child, because she is the only daughter of the Lu family , Deserves higher education.
Her father, Lu Ding, was smart and eager to learn since she was a child. He was among the best in every exam. He was deeply loved by teachers and people. When Lu Ding was studying in Japan in his early years, he joined Mr. Sun Yat-sen's Alliance and was arrested in the early years of the Republic of China. He served as an official in the National Government for more than 20 years.
Her mother, Wu Manhua, Lu Ding's wife, was also born into a prominent family. Wu Manhua is not only talented, but also very good at meticulous painting. This makes Lu Xiaoman better than others.
The charm of rich girls
Childhood is a picture, and childhood is a star in the sky. What was Lu Xiaoman's childhood like? She is a fair-skinned, beautiful girl with clean eyebrows, she is now called Bai Fumei.
After finishing pre-school education, she transferred to the primary school affiliated to Beiping Women's Normal University and Beiping Girls' High School successively and received a good education. If you want to enrich a girl, you must let her accept the influence of knowledge. If there is no knowledge to bless her, how did Lu Xiaoman finally get to know the literati Xu Zhimo?
Lu Xiaoman’s father had studied in Japan in his early years, and he knew that the child’s education must start with the baby. Coupled with the knowledge of Xiaoman’s mother, the couple reached a consensus and let Xiaoman start his learning career as soon as possible.
Xiaoman entered the Sacred Heart Academy at the age of sixteen, and his pampered charm has been fruitful. The sixteen-year-old Lu Xiaoman officially kicked off her life full of turmoil.
the other half of the family
When Lu Xiaoman came to choose a good son-in-law,Both parents and foster father and mother were discussing the important matters of her marriage, and finally selected his ex-husband Wang Geng. Although Wang Geng's family background was average at that time, his future was limitless. In addition, Wang Geng was in a military camp, and he believed that he would be able to do a great cause in the near future.
Soon Xiaoman’s parents prepared a grand wedding for her. It was a high-end and high-end wedding at the time. The Lu family was responsible for all of this, because Wang Geng’s family died early because of his parents’ early death. , And there is no extra money to hold this grand wedding.
In the eyes of outsiders, Wang Geng has picked up a big deal. Not only does he embrace the beauty, he also saves a huge amount of money. The two newcomers have received Western education, but they did not come and taste love. The taste of marriage entered the palace of marriage.
After marriage, Wang Geng was busy with his career and did not have time to accompany Xiaoman. This made Xiaoman's heart full of sorrow and grief, which also laid the foundation for their subsequent divorce.
It is said that if two people who love each other again, if they are not accompanied by the other half, they will spread their wings sooner or later. In addition, two people who have never experienced love at all will not be together for a long time, which makes people uncomfortable with the status quo. Lu Xiaoman yearns more for a better life.
Xiaoman was not reconciled. She took a lot of socializing. Although some socializing was compelling, but fortunately, it could alleviate the momentary loneliness, but this was not a way. In the later communication, she met her love Xu in life. Chima.
Lu Xiaoman and Xu Zhimo met at the New Moon Society. At that time, they did not have a good impression of each other. In a performance, Xu Zhimo acted with a kind of devotion. Attracted Lu Xiaoman. She was deeply attracted by the men on the stage. Later, Lu Xiaoman also joined the Crescent Society. After the two got together day and night, a spark of love was created between the two.
Xu Zhimo knew that Xiaoman had a husband, but the two eventually ate the forbidden fruit and crossed the gap. After that, the relationship between the two heated up. After heavy obstacles, the two successfully came together.
In the first days, the two lived a fairy-like life. Good days are always fleeting.In Lu Xiaoman's bones, she is a spoiled young lady, she can live every day without worry, she can sleep until three shots of the sun, but Xu Zhimo can't, he wants to support his family, and he has to go out to earn money.
Lu Xiaoman, who had spent his time in comfort, somehow learned to smoke, which made him barely able to maintain his family's money. Soon because of Lu Xiaoman’s smoking, Xu Zhimo didn’t have much to say. , It’s just a little harder than usual.
The good times did not last long. With Lu Xiaoman not repenting, Xu Zhimo hoped to earn more money to maintain his family. He set foot on the north drift, but the plane crashed on the way back. From the moment he heard the bad news, Lu Xiaoman's whole body collapsed, and even Xu Zhimo's funeral was handled by someone else.
Life is like a dream, and a dream is like life
After Xu Zhimo's death, Lu Xiaoman began to cheer up again. Thinking back to the previous things, Lu Xiaoman realized that Xu Zhimo had paid too much for her until he died. It was also because she smoked a lot to make money for herself, all of which was caused by her personally.
After Xu Zhimo's death, Lu Xiaoman's health was getting worse and worse, but fortunately, she woke up and knew what she wanted to do. In the last few years of her life, she spent all of her time collecting manuscripts for Xu Zhimo during her lifetime. In the end, it was compiled into "The Complete Works of Zhimo", which is not in vain of her life.
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