Today, there are still many parents who are biased in modern society. Many families do not have only children, but have multiple children. Logically speaking, these children are the hearts of parents and should be treated equally.
But for some reason, some biased parents in will prefer one of the children, making this child's status at home above other siblings.
In fact, parental bias causes great harm to people. Whether it is a boy or a girl, this kind of harm will be difficult to heal for the rest of her life, because the shadow of harm brought by the closest people is difficult to eliminate.
In history, Duke Zhuang of Zheng was a very partial mother.
Wu Jiang, born and died unknown, is the daughter of the king of Shen State in the Spring and Autumn Period, the wife of Duke Wu of Zheng , and the mother of Duke Zhuang of Zheng.
She and Duke Wu of Zheng gave birth to two sons, the eldest son was born (Duke Zhuang of Zheng), and the second son was the uncle Duan. Both of his own sons, Wu Jiang loved Gongshu Duan very much and could be said to have a great disgust towards Duke Zhuang of Zheng.
"Zuo Zhuan·Yin Gong's First Year": "Duke Zhuang was born and shocked the Jiang family, so he was named "Xiaosheng", so he hated him."
"Records of the Grand Historian" and "Zuo Zhuan" recorded that Wu Jiang was having a difficult child when he was born in Zheng Zhuanggong, and it was said that his feet were out first. In today's terms, the fetal position was not correct, but Wu Jiang believed that Duke Zhuanggong gave birth to a son against him, so he hated Duke Zhuanggong very much.
For this reason, Wu Jiang named it "河正", reverse birth, which means that the child has enough birth and is first released.
Three years later, Wu Jiang gave birth to another son for Mr. Wu of Zheng, Gongshu Duan. This son was born smoothly and was deeply loved by Wu Jiang. She even asked Mr. Wu of Zheng to make Mr. Duan the crown prince many times, but was rejected by Mr. Wu of Zheng.
Since ancient times, the establishment of the eldest son is the respect, and the dethronement of the eldest son is the way to cause chaos.
Wu Jiang was unwilling to accept it. Before Duke Wu of Zheng died, he still persuaded Duke Wu of Zheng, hoping to make Gongshu Duan the crown prince, but he was still rejected by Duke Wu of Zheng.
The mother's preference for her younger brother has come to this point, and Duke Zhuang of Zheng saw it completely and felt pain in his heart.
are also mother's sons, why does her mother hate her very much?
Mr. Zheng Wugong died and the crown prince Xiaosheng succeeded to the throne, that is, Duke Zhuang of Zheng.
Wu Jiang has always been planning a future for her younger son Uncle Duan. She used to rely on Duke Wu of Zheng. This time it was Duke Zhuang of Zheng that was the turn of Duke Zhuang of Zheng. Therefore, Wu Jiang had to beg her disliked son Duke Zhuang of Zheng.
As the younger brother of the king, Shu Duan also wanted his own fiefdom, so Wu Jiang asked Duke Zhuang of Zheng for the 新方新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新新�
号官网址 The terrain is dangerous, and Duke Zhuang of Zheng explained to his mother that this place cannot be used as a fiefdom. Except for this place, the rest of the fiefdoms can be selected.
So, Wu Jiang asked Duke Zheng Zhuang to grant Jingyi (more than 20 miles southeast of Xingyang City, Henan Province) to Shu Duke Zheng Zhuang agreed to Wu Jiang's request.
During the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, the city walls of fiefdoms were required. The large ones could not exceed one-third of the capital, the medium ones could not exceed one-fifth, and the small ones could not exceed one-nineth.
. is now illegal in Beijing and is even larger than the capital. So the doctor Ji Zhong persuaded Duke Zhuang of Zheng that this place could not be used as the fief of Shu Duan, for fear of being unfavorable to Duke Zhuang of Zheng.
Duke Zhuang of Zheng understood the interests, but this was the request of his mother Wu Jiang and he must not disobey.
Ji Zhong still persuaded Duke Zhuang of Zheng, and Duke Zhuang of Zheng said confidently: "If you do evil things, you will die. Let's wait and see!"
Sure enough, Gong Shuduan's ambitions remained undiminished after arriving in the capital, actively expanded his sphere of influence, waited for the opportunity to return to the capital, and ascended the throne of monarch in one fell swoop.
In the 22nd year of Duke Zhuang of Zheng, Gong Shuduan believed that the time was ripe, so he decided to attack the capital of Zheng State.
Seeing that the two sons were about to kill each other, Wu Jiang, as a mother, actually wanted to help Gongshu Duan as an inner supporter. Just when Gongshu Duan attacked, she opened the city gate as an inner supporter.
Mr. Zhuang of Zheng had long known that Gongshu Duan had a bad intention, and also learned about the date of Gongshu Duan's attack, so he sent troops to attack Gongshu Duan in advance. Gongshu Duan was defeated and fled to Gongshu Duan, so he later called him Gongshu Duan.
Gong Shuduan's attack date can be known, not to mention that his mother Wu Jiang did an internal response. This move made Duke Zhuang of Zheng very angry. Wu Jiang was so partial that he could not have any mother-son friendship with Duke Zhuang of Zheng.
So, Duke Zhuang of Zheng placed Wu Jiang in Chengying and vowed, "I won't meet again until the yellow spring."
More than a year later, Duke Zhuang of Zheng began to miss his mother and regretted his oath, but he was unwilling to break the oath. At this time, someone persuaded him: "If you dig the ground and see the spring water, and open a tunnel to meet in it, who can still say that you have broken the oath?"
Duke of Zheng felt that it made sense, so he asked someone to dig a tunnel to meet his mother in the tunnel.
Zheng Zhuanggong and Wu Jiang met in the tunnel, and were in a very happy mood, so they sighed, "I met in the tunnel, and they were happy."
Wu Jiang also wrote a poem after walking out of the tunnel, saying, "Beyond the big tunnel, the joy is also leaking!" So they became mother and son as before.
Afterward, the relationship between mother and son gradually improved.
Due to Wu Jiang's bias, this historical farce was created. It can be seen how terrible the bias of parents is. It will breed discord between brothers, thus leading to conflicts.
As the saying goes, "A harmonious family will bring prosperity." Harmony is the most important thing in everything, especially in the family!
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