When people talk about Xu Zhimo, they will never leave a good impression. The first thing that comes to mind is always Xu Zhimo's excessive behavior towards his ex-wife Zhang Youyi, and always Xu Zhimo forcing Zhang Youyi to sign a divorce agreement.
Xu Zhimo, a talented poet and a man who pursues romance, after marrying Zhang Youyi under the arrangement of his parents, he has always treated her coldly. A marriage without love will not lead to happiness.
At this time, he miraculously met Lin Changmin, Lin Huiyin and his daughter. Lin Changmin served in the Beiyang government, but because of the turbulent political situation, he and Liang Qichao went to the field and took his daughter Lin Huiyin to give lectures in the UK.
Lin Huiyin was just seventeen years old at this time, and she was beautiful. The arrival of Xu Zhimo made the little girl suddenly feel heartbeat.
At first, Xu Zhimo came to visit Lin Huiyin’s father, Lin Changmin, but he got acquainted with Lin Huiyin. Seeing that Lin Huiyin was wearing two braids and looks sweet, Xu Zhimo’s visit gradually became drunk. Lin Huiyin.
He and Lin Huiyin walked under the moon, danced familiarly at the ball, and the same hobbies in literature made their hearts gradually get closer. This is what love looks like.
But Xu Zhimo has a wife and son at this time, which also opened an insurmountable valve for the love of the two.
Xu Zhimo and Lin Changmin also have a more common language, and even played role-playing. Xu Zhimo played the married wife and Lin Changmin played the married husband. Facing such a father, he did not look like feudal parents at all, but was humorous. He did not interfere too much in the feelings of Xu Zhimo and Lin Huiyin, but let the flow go.
At this time, Xu Zhimo’s wife Zhang Youyi came to the UK. However, although the husband and wife are as guests, a marriage without love cannot last. He cannot bear the marriage given to him by the family. He has to rise up and resist, and Zhang Youyi also suffers. Not having such a life, I went to study in Germany.
And Lin Huiyin must also make a choice. Because her father didn’t like her mother, she knew very early that her mother’s tragedy could not be repeated again. She knew that Xu Zhimo had a wife, and she couldn’t have a wife. If the husband is together, unless Xu Zhimo gets divorced, it will undoubtedly bring tragedy to another woman. She will never be a third party, and the mother’s tragedy will not appear on another woman, so she chooses drop out.
However, Lin Huiyin’s withdrawal did not prevent Xu Zhimo and Zhang Youyi from divorcing. In his letter to Zhang Youyi, he said:
true life must be achieved through self-struggle, true happiness must be achieved through self-struggle, and true love is also true. You must work hard and ask for it! The future of each other is boundless... Each other has the heart to improve society, and each other has the heart to benefit mankind. They set an example, bravely and wisely, respect each other's personality, free divorce, end pain, and first sign of happiness, all here!
In March 1922, Xu Zhimo and Zhang Youyi divorced.
At the time of the divorce, Xu Zhimo wrote to Zhang Youyi "Laughing to Solve the Trouble Knot"
"Whose trouble knot is so twisted?
Who has the heart to woven this trouble knot?
There are so many tears and blood in this knot, which should turn Shen Bi!
Loyalty, filial piety and righteousness-cough, loyalty, filial piety and righteousness, thank you for sustaining
four thousand years of history [wisp] endless,
just grinds the humane soul into dust,
The Yellow Sea is not tide, Kunlun sighs,
40,000 lives, the heart is dead, the Central Plains Devil May Cry!
cough, loyalty and filial piety! Z2z
two
Dongfang Xiao, in the end Ming will come back,
is now this messy account, how
cleared?
Three
Don’t worry, everything is human, just be patient
to solve the trouble knot. Although
is tight, it is a knot, there is always a thread to find,
don’t complain about sore fingers, tired eyes,
is not looking up, hurry Work hard! How about
four
! After all disbanded, troubles are hard to knot, troubles are knotted.
is here, now let go of the face and laugh, shake hands and work;
will go to the breeze and the day, and the free road scenery is good.
is full of joy after listening. , Zhandao disbanded the knot,
eliminated the troubles!
divorced, Xu Zhimo's troubles are temporarily gone. But in that era, Xu Zhimo was divorcedFor indeed set off a wave of waves. After the divorce of
, Xu Zhimo's life seems to be much more fulfilled than before. He worships heroes and meets celebrities. At this time, his works have also increased.
Lin Huiyin returned to China with his father, Xu Zhimo's thoughts also began to be confused, empathizing with nature, and starting his own way back home. He boarded the Japanese Mishima Bay ocean freighter and embarked on the journey home. After
went home, Xu Zhimo was also a frequent visitor to Lin Huiyin’s family. Lin Huiyin would also warmly entertain him, but whenever he mentioned emotional topics, Lin Huiyin always kept silent. She knew that she and Xu Zhimo could only be confidantes. It's impossible to be together. Lin Huiyin finally had a showdown with Xu Zhimo. There was only a pure friendship between them, without any other feelings. Lin Huiyin finally chose Liang Sicheng and spent his life happily with him.
This can be said to be a huge blow to Xu Zhimo. The first love he pursued so hard, but ended in failure, the girl he loved became Liang Qichao's daughter-in-law. Xu Zhimo's eyes seem to be in the endless dark night, can't find the direction to go forward, will he still meet the love of this life? Xu Zhimo was lost.
Slowly, Xu Zhimo was relieved of the love he couldn't do, and he and Lin Huiyin and his wife also became friends.
When Lu Xiaoman walked into his life, Xu Zhimo's heart lighted up again, God still took care of him.
Lu Xiaoman is an ideal incarnation in Xu Zhimo's eyes.
Lu Xiaoman, a famous socialite at that time, was called "Southern Tang and Beilu" together with Tang Ying. He was only in his 20s and was called "Prometheus of Chinese literature and art in the 1920s" by Yu Dafu. But in 1922, Lu Xiaoman At the age of marriage, he obeyed his parents' orders and married Wang Geng as a matchmaker.
Although the person who proposed the marriage had crossed the threshold at that time, Lu Xiaoman's parents still looked down upon him, and Wang Geng was born in a scholarly family, and he has a high status after studying abroad. And Lu Xiaoman is also considered a talented girl, right in line. After
got married, Wang Geng was promoted.
For Lu Xiaoman, he has also been influenced by advanced Western ideas. The husband and wife must have endless love and endless words, but they are people of two worlds.
until the appearance of Xu Zhimo.
Xu Zhimo, Chen Geng and Liang Qichao's student, after Wang Geng was transferred, Wang Geng asked Xu Zhimo to take care of Lu Xiaoman. Lu Xiaoman is an ideal embodiment in Xu Zhimo's eyes. He just wanted a perfect love, in front of love, what morality, what common sense, in Xu Zhimo's view, are all illusory things.
And the married life of Lu Xiaoman and Wang Geng is not like the imaginary appearance of a talented woman. They are more indifferent and have no common topics.
But contrary to Xu Zhimo, both of them are romantic people, so they have a common language, so their feelings also heat up rapidly.
Xu Zhimo doesn't care about friends and wives, and Lu Xiaoman doesn't care about three principles and five constants.
The public opinion of the society, the opposition of parents, and the blinding of friends have also become stumbling blocks on the road of love between the two.
"Xiaoman, on our way forward, there will be beasts and traps. Splash our ideals, fill our courage, fill the traps, and we will fight the beasts"
Xu Zhimo The words seemed to give Lu Xiaoman the motivation to continue fighting. The feudal marriage system of
has prevented how many lovers from getting married. Is it the order of the parents? Or pursue love? This is a problem.
Xu Zhimo's father objected to his son looking for a married woman, and Lu Xiaoman's parents objected to his daughter's derailment. What should happen to their relationship? Of course it is a bold pursuit.
Whenever encountering obstacles and setbacks, I can always think of Yu Dafu's words: "Do you love? If you really love, then love vigorously, don't suppress your feelings." The two of
finally broke through. Many obstacles, together.
But life after marriage is really as romantic and beautiful as Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman imagined?
The prerequisite of romantic love is the abundance of material life, but the life of firewood, rice, oil and salt after marriage is indispensable. Xu Zhimo, Lu Xiaoman and the family break, they can only live on their own. Once romance is tied to love,Then it was full of contradictions. Xu Zhimo could only fight for life, but Lu Xiaoman still went into and out of the song and dance hall, as her socialite, and met Weng Ruiwu because of asthma, and contracted opium.
Lu Xiaoman is also addicted to the social scene in Shanghai. Instead of going to Beijing, Xu Zhimo can only travel between two places, while Lu Xiaoman is surrounded by everyone, dancing, playing cards, attending prom, and smoking opium, even though Xu Zhimo has a good income, but Still can't meet Lu Xiaoman's expenses.
" I don’t know in which direction the wind
is blowing.
I am in a dream,
is hovering in the clear waves of the dream.
I don’t know in which direction the wind
is blowing-
I am in a dream , Z2z
her tenderness, my fascination.
I don’t know in which direction the wind
is blowing-
I am in a dream,
sweetness is the brilliance in the dream.
I don’t know which direction the wind
is in Blowing-
I am in a dream,
her grievance, my sorrow." At this moment, Xu Zhimo of
, facing his wife, his life went from ideal pursuit to dullness. He never thought, originally thought The romantic love has become like this.
In the late autumn of 1931, Lin Huiyin returned to Peking from Xiangshan to recover from illness. Xu Zhimo went to visit her, mentioned Lu Xiaoman, and felt sorry for Xu Zhimo's trip between the two places. Xu Zhimo frankly to Lin Huiyin that although he has a considerable income, he is still oppressed by money.
Xu Zhimo teaches at Peking University and can earn 500 yuan a month, but for Guanglu Xiaoman alone, 500 yuan is not enough. Shanghai Industrial Bank sent a bill to the bank, and even lost 500 yuan. It is also not a small amount to run around Beijing and Shanghai. Expenses, so he often finds some plane tickets that do not cost money.
At this time Jiang Baili wanted to sell a house in Shanghai. Xu Zhimo wanted to be an intermediary, so that he could get another income, so he needed a plane to go to Shanghai at no cost, and then hurried back to Beiping.
This time, everyone seems to have a hunch. Every time Xu Zhimo takes a free plane, there will always be a safety hazard, but Xu Zhimo will always be noncommittal, even joking about Lu Xiaoman, " If I really fell to death by plane, Then you will be merry widow".
Xu Zhimo was thinking about Lin Huiyin’s report meeting, plus there are free planes, and he was going to take Zhang Xueliang’s plane to Beiping, but Zhang Xueliang’s plane was unable to fly, so he went to Nanjing the next day at 8 am on the 19th. Xu Zhimo took the free plane ticket and boarded the Jinan plane to Beiping. The weather was excellent, but Xu Zhimo suddenly had a headache. He originally wrote to Lu Xiaoman not to take off again, but he entered the plane again and boarded Jinan. There were only two pilots and Xu Zhimo who flew over Mount Tai. When approaching Jinan, there was suddenly heavy fog and a dilemma. The plane crashed into the mountain above Dangjiazhuang. The head office went to investigate after learning:
"Xu Yiwu The tampon sits in the third row; the main pilot sits in the second row, head sideways and backwards as if talking to Xu; the deputy pilot only has half his head left, and the main pilot pokes into the abdomen for the transfer of hands on the plane; Xu head breaks A hole, a broken rib, and burning feet."
When Lin Huiyin learned of Xu Zhimo's accident, his legs suddenly became weak. Liang Sicheng was afraid of his wife's excessive sadness, so he went to the place of the accident instead of Lin Huiyin.
The bad news reached Zhang Youyi. Zhang Youyi couldn't believe it, and said to her son: "Your father has gone to heaven, let your uncle pick up the spirit."
Lu Xiaoman was stunned when she knew it, her sky fell, what should she do in the future? After the death of
her husband, Lu Xiaoman knew that he didn't cherish it before.
"From now on I am determined to be a human being, the kind of person you have always hoped me to be. From then on I will never ask about love in the world, people have joy, let my soul follow your soul"
From then on, Lu Xiaoman concentrated on Organized Xu Zhimo's manuscript at home and edited "The Complete Works of Xu Zhimo".
people often don't cherish it when they are there, and regret it when they lose it.
Xu Zhimo ran around in order to make money to support his family. After his death, Lu Xiaoman re-behaved for Xu Zhimo!
