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Today, let’s talk about the story of Zhang Xueliang and his third wife, Miss Zhao Si! Why is Miss Zhao Si the third? Because before Miss Zhao Si appeared, Zhang Xueliang and Gu Ruiyu were married in 1924.
Zhang Xueliang and Yu Fengzhi had not yet divorced at the time, so Gu Ruiyu was always his wife. In 1931, Zhang Xueliang and Gu Ruiyu formally dissolved their marriage.
Although Zhang Xueliang is proud of his love scene, but from beginning to end, he was with Zhang Xueliang and devoted his whole life to Yu Fengzhi and Miss Zhao Si.
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In 1912, Ms. Zhao Si was born in the family of officials and officials in Hong Kong. Her father, Zhao Qinghua, had served as the Deputy Minister of Transportation during the Beiyang government. Miss Zhao Si's real name is Zhao Yidi. The origin of her name is that her English name is Edith, and the homophony is "Yidi", also known as Qixia. Ranked fourth in the family, it is also called "Miss Zhao Si".
Many people have two factions about the love between Miss Zhao Si and Zhang Xueliang. One group is standing on Yu Fengzhi's side and criticizing Miss Zhao Si, thinking that she is a third party to intervene and ruining Yu Fengzhi's marriage; the other group is standing on Miss Zhao Si's side, whether it is right or wrong, and feels young and handsome The love between Zhang Xueliang and Miss Zhao Si is pure.
As the saying goes, in the eyes of a thousand people, there are a thousand Harry Potter, we are not good to comment on what is right and wrong. But what is worthy of recognition is that in this relationship, the marshal Zhang Xueliang always abides by the "monogamous" rule and does not accept concubines.
Miss Zhao Si is naturally beautiful, has a good figure, likes to dress up, and also likes to read and exercise. She has both internal and external studies, and she is very temperamental, so she became the cover girl of Beiyang Pictorial when she was fourteen or fifteen.
In 1927, Miss Zhao Si was 16 years old. She was born into a slim girl. She was at an age when she was playful and curious about everything. I first met Zhang Xueliang, who was 11 years older than her, at the dance party at Cai's Mansion in Tianjin.
I did not expect this acquaintance, but it opened the prelude to a touching love story that has been legendary for more than half a century, and the two have been fate for 72 years.
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After getting acquainted with each other, the two often met for golf and travel. At this time, Miss Zhao Si had already secretly promised the beautiful man Zhang Xueliang. I thought that following the development of the matter, the two would eventually come to an end, and the feelings would come to an end, but there are unexpected events in the sky.
In June 1928, Zhang Zuolin was bombed to death by the Japanese Kwantung Army in Huanggutun. Zhang Xueliang secretly returned to Fengtian and began to take over the Northeast. Just when the Northeast was in need of the young marshal Zhang Xueliang, when the various industries were waiting to be developed, Zhang Xueliang fell ill.
The news reached Miss Zhao Si's ears, very anxious. Later, Zhang Xueliang called Miss Zhao Si and invited her to travel to Fengtian. Miss Zhao Si was ecstatic. In order to see the "Prince in Heart" Zhang Xueliang as soon as possible, she did not hesitate to give up the life of rich clothes and food at home, even the last bit of restraint from a girl.
She replied on the phone, she has obtained the consent of her parents, and is going to be invited.
Not long after, father Zhao Qinghua issued a statement saying: " Four daughters Qixia, recently deceived by freedom and equality, ran away on her own without whereabouts. Chazhao Family Shrine Rules Articles 19 and 22, The name should be removed. This church is one of the ancestors. It should be reported to the ancestor for execution in accordance with the family law. After that, we will not be responsible for any incidents that occur. This Kai .”
The statement is completed, from From leaving official career, retiring and living in seclusion. Zhao Qinghua's move actually had his own considerations. Although he admires Zhang Xueliang, Zhang Xueliang already has a family at this time. Even if he knows what Miss Zhao Si thinks of Zhang Xueliang, this fashion is indispensable.
This statement is undoubtedly breaking her daughter's retreat and promoting her marriage.Furthermore, Zhao Qinghua served in the Beiyang government, while Zhang Xueliang ruled in the Northeast at that time. It is probably inconvenient to rely on his daughter's relationship.
is really pitiful to the parents of the world!
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A wealthy daughter who was born in the family of officials and eunuchs, who left the house and followed her beloved man, lies in Fengzhi's eyes, both pitiful and helpless.
Ms. Zhao Si begged Yu Fengzhi bitterly, and Zhang Xueliang was unexpectedly surprised that Ms. Zhao Si would enter. After thinking about it again and again, Zhang Xueliang made a decision: If you are willing to follow me, I will not drive you away, but I will not take a concubine. You have no status and cannot be called Mrs. Zhang. Even if children are born in the future, this situation will not change.
Yu Fengzhi is 14 years older than Miss Zhao Si, and soon accepted this "little sister". Zhang Xueliang called Yu Fengzhi the eldest sister and Miss Zhao Si the younger sister. Although Miss Zhao Si has no status, she claims to be Zhang Xueliang's "personal secretary" and has served her for a long time. Zhang Xueliang also specially created an independent and quiet residence for her.
Since then, the three have lived a married life. Yu Fengzhi is a general woman and never embarrassed Miss Zhao Si. Even if Miss Zhao Si gave birth to Zhang Xueliang's fourth son, Zhang Lulin, Yu Fengzhi would be like her own life.
This kind of life is probably the "day" that every man wants to live now, but it is a pity that such a peaceful life was broken under the Japanese invasion.
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Zhang Xueliang faced Chiang Kai-shek’s policy of "to fight against foreigners, we must first settle for internal affairs", and insisted on "stop civil war and unite against Japan". There was a conflict between the two, Zhang Xueliang wrote to admonishment many times, and then cried and remonstrated, but to no avail, and finally decided to remonstrate.
December 12, 1936, launched the "Xi'an Incident" with Yang Hucheng of the Northwest Army. Forced to be helpless, Chiang Kai-shek promised to stop the civil war and unanimously resist Japan. Zhang Xueliang expressed his responsibility and personally sent Chiang Kai-shek back to Nanjing. But he did not expect that Chiang Kai-shek treached his faith, detained Zhang Xueliang, and lived a long-term confinement life.
After Zhang Xueliang was imprisoned, Yu Fengzhi and Miss Zhao Si were the only candidates who were allowed to accompany Jiang Jieshi. But at that time, the fourth son Zhang Lulin was young, so Miss Zhao Si could only take care of the younger son. So in the first three years of Zhang Xueliang's initial imprisonment, Miss Zhao Si was not accompanied by her.
It was Yu Fengzhi who stayed with Zhang Xueliang at that time. In the first three years when Zhang Xueliang was detained, Yu Fengzhi did not leave for a while. During the period, he changed the place of detention several times, and Yu Fengzhi accompanied him all the way. In the end, Yu Fengzhi, who was suffering from depression and became ill, was diagnosed with breast cancer. With the help of Song Meiling, he went to the United States for treatment.
It was from this time that Miss Zhao Si replaced Yu Fengzhi and stayed with Zhang Xueliang for half a century. If it weren't for good luck, or if Yu Fengzhi had breast cancer, there might not be a moving love story of "Zhang Xueliang and Miss Zhao Si".
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From being a young marshal to becoming a prisoner, Zhang Xueliang experienced pain that he had never had in his life. In the isolation and loneliness, Miss Zhao Si always stood by with him, and the two depended on each other. People who have met said that Miss Zhao Si often wears blue clothes with shoes on her feet, almost completely washed out, and staying with Zhang Xueliang all day is moving.
After Yu Fengzhi's treatment in the United States gradually improved, in order to live and support her children's education, she fought in the stock market, cutting through thorns all the way, and eventually achieved small successes, but still did not give up running around for Zhang Xueliang in the United States. Later, under the political background of necessity, Zhang Xueliang and Yu Fengzhi dissolved their marriage.
In July 1964, Zhang Xueliang and Miss Zhao Si were officially married. Since then, he has lived a life of solitary confinement and lost contact with the outside world. During this period, Zhang Xueliang was also transferred to the place of detention many times. But no matter where she is, Miss Zhao Si is always with her.
In her later years, Miss Zhao Si was in poor health. She had suffered from lupus erythematosus, and her lungs became cancerous after long-term smoking. She had undergone a major operation and removed half of her lungs.Cause breathing often difficult.
In 1995, Zhang Xueliang and Miss Zhao Si settled in Hawaii. On June 7, 2000, 88-year-old Ms. Zhao Si fell when she got out of bed. She suffered from physical discomfort and dyspnea. She was sent to the hospital. Half a month later, Miss Zhao Si passed away at the age of 88.
Zhang Xueliang showed unspeakable grief for the death of Miss Zhao Si, and there were lines of tears in the eyes of centenarians. He once told others that he owed Miss Zhao Si too much in his life.
From the first acquaintance to death, the 88-year-old Miss Zhao Si has been with Zhang Xueliang for 72 years, and she has experienced too much during that time. "September 18 Incident", Zhang Xueliang bears the infamy of "not resisting the general", and Miss Zhao Si accompanied him, and was also ridiculed and abused by others.
After the "Xi'an Incident" was imprisoned, she took over the baton from her eldest sister Yu Fengzhi and took care of Zhang Xueliang wholeheartedly. For 50 years and half a century, she did not complain or regret, only a copy from the beginning to the end. The end of true love.
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