Before reading this article, please click "Follow". It not only facilitates your discussion and sharing, but also brings you a different sense of participation. Thank you for your support. In the early morning of February 20, 1997, the flag-raising ceremony was held on Tiananmen Square as usual. However, when the bright national flag slowly rose with the national anthem, it stopped in the middle of the flagpole and did not move again. The flag-raising bearer next to him was full of tears, which means that this was not an accident. 
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It turned out that in the early morning of that day, Deng Xiaoping, who was once the Chairman of the Central Military Commission of the State, left the people he loved forever. What is even more sad is that he entrusted before his death: "Don't have a farewell ceremony." This is why the memorial process of " lowering the flag halfway ".
However, the respectable Comrade Deng Xiaoping still has something that is "unfull of wish", that is, " cornea is donated to those in need, and the body is dissected for medical research." , and this last wish of great significance, was handed over to his wife Zhuo Lin. The reason why
gives heavy trust is all because of the deep feelings between Deng Xiaoping and Zhuo Lin and .
Half-lifelong relationship
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A yard on Jingshan Back Street, Beijing, is the place where Deng Xiaoping and Zhuo Lin for decades . There are two pine and cypress trees that are very close to each other. One is tall and tall, and the other is graceful. They are entangled and rely on, and are called the "Double Dragon Tree" and are witnessed by them working together for 58 years.
Before Deng Xiaoping met Zhuo Lin, he had two tortuous marriages.
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One is a female revolutionary named Zhang Xiyuan . Unfortunately, she suffered from severe puerperal fever during childbirth.
passed away regretfully, and the child she gave birth also died soon after. The other one is Jin Weiying , who is also a female revolutionary, but she has no fate with Deng Xiaoping, and finally ends up in a bleak end.
The successive emotional blows made Deng Xiaoping immersed in sorrow and unable to extricate himself. It was not until Zhuo Lin's appearance that he felt the redemption of love again.
Deng Xiaoping and Zhuo Lin
In the late summer of 1939, the weather in Yan'an was extremely hot, Deng Xiaoping Leave the front line troops and moves to the rear to work. When the comrades around him saw that he was still lonely and helpless, they took the initiative to introduce him to the lesbians.
Deng Xiaoping couldn't help but agree and rushed to the place where he dated. In that cave, he met the elegant and intellectual Zhuo Lin for the first time, which left a deep impression on Zhuo Lin, but for Zhuo Lin, the simple-dressed worker and peasant cadre in front of him did not meet his standards for choosing a spouse.
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Zhuo Lin’s original name is Pu Qiongying . His father is the famous "ham king" in Yunnan Pu Zaiting . As the youngest daughter in the family, she is naturally loved and has no worries about food and clothing since childhood.
However, Zhuo Lin is not a worldly fireworks . In the Pu family, where feudal thought is extremely severe, many female relatives suffer from unequal experiences. They cannot live independently in their lives and their marriages cannot be independent. They are regarded as attachments to "fathers, husbands, and sons". There are many people who commit suicide by swallowing gold.
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She was unwilling to live a painful and struggling life like her predecessors. Especially after learning the knowledge in middle school, she became more aware of the oppression of this feudal idea on women, and also realized that the Chinese nation has reached a critical moment of life and death.
December 9, 1935 , Zhuo Lin and thousands of students from Beiping took to the streets , shouting the slogan "I will not be a slave to the country." As one of the first female students to awaken patriotic ideas, she went straight to Yan'an and devoted herself to the revolution after completing her studies in the Department of Physics at Peking University.
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For Zhuo Lin, "eliminating foreign enemies and revitalizing the Chinese nation" is a lifelong dream and the awareness she should have as an independent woman. Therefore, she hopes that those who stay together for the rest of her life will be an intellectual and discuss the revolutionary path with her.
However, Deng Xiaoping did not give up. In the days that followed, he would meet Zhuo Lin every day through his female friends around Zhuo Lin, but their relationship still made no progress.
Once, Deng Xiaoping asked the middleman to invite Zhuo Lin, but the middleman scratched his head embarrassedly and said to him: " Zhuo Lin has no intention of you, give up as soon as possible!"
Deng Xiaoping and Zhuo Lin
However, Deng Xiaoping stubbornly insisted and said : "I want to marry Zhuo Lin, please let her talk to me!"
This female friend couldn't stand Deng Xiaoping's soft and hard work and asked Zhuo Lin to come out to meet. It was this long talk that made the two know each other better and also made Zhuo Lin change his original understanding of Deng Xiaoping.
Deng Xiaoping and Zhuo Lin
In September 1939, Deng Xiaoping and Zhuo Lin held a simple ceremony under the witness of Chairman Mao, Liu Shaoqi and others, and they also took photos as a souvenir. In the photo, Deng Xiaoping and Zhuo Lin were wearing simple Eighth Route Army costumes, , and their bright smiles indicate the happy time they spent together. In the life after
, Deng Xiaoping was the only one who was responsible for his family life, and Zhuo Lin was dedicated to her family life and gave Deng Xiaoping meticulous care. For example, she arranged the clothes, diet and medicines all year round, and was particularly careful.
Deng Xiaoping and Zhuo Lin
Although Deng Xiaoping and Zhuo Lin have completely different personalities , it is precisely because of their complementarity that the two accumulate unscathing emotions in the running-in process. Especially during the arduous revolutionary years, they have made them more dependent on each other and made a promise to stay together for life.
It is precisely because of Deng Xiaoping’s trust in Zhuo Lin that he dares to entrust his funeral to the other party. However, Deng Xiaoping's simple wish is puzzling, because in the hearts of the people, he deserves to be praised and praised.
Loyalty to devote himself to the revolution
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On August 22, 1904, the Deng family in Paifang Village, Guang'an County, Sichuan Province was decorated with lights and celebrating the arrival of the newborn of "three generations of single births". The elders in his family were very happy and named "Deng Xiansheng" . Even if it was later changed to Deng Xiaoping, it indicates that he will have extraordinary experiences and achievements.
Since becoming sensible, Deng Xiaoping's father Deng Shaochang trained him as "family hope". Not only should you be proficient in the Four Books and Five Classics, but you should also understand the way of being a human being.
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Once, when Deng’s father counted the account entries, he found that five yuan was missing ocean . Although it was not a large number, it also made him worried about the consequences of "it is difficult to prevent from family thieves", so he held a home party to discuss the main culprit behind this.
At that time, everyone had a reasonable and well-founded attitude to clear the suspicion, only Deng Xiaoping hesitated. Deng's father noticed the abnormality and scolded him sternly, he slowly said, " I did take away those oceans, but there was a reason. I was to help my classmates."
It turned out that the sister of a famous classmate in Deng Xiaoping's class was seriously ill and had no money to treat him, so he could only suffer pain at home. When he learned about it, he came up with this bad plan in desperation.
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Deng Shaochang After listening to Deng Xiaoping’s story, a warm current surged in his heart. He first praised his son's kindness, which also shows that "no matter what purpose, this behavior is undesirable ", and then he took out some oceans and gave it to the classmate in difficulty.
The father's strictness taught Deng Xiaoping a firm character, while his mother's kindness made him take the world into consideration and regard the sufferings of the people as his responsibility.
919 On May 4, Paris Peace Conference failed, a large number of students in carried out the "patriotic movement" .When Deng Xiaoping was only 15 years old, he saw a team waving flags on the streets and alleys, he was attracted by his high emotions and also developed a strong sense of saving the country.
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At that time, the country was suffering from internal and external troubles, and many aspiring people wanted to study abroad to find a way for the Chinese nation in times of crisis. Deng Xiaoping, inspired by his classmates, had the idea of going to France to study. What he didn't expect was that after 's parents learned about his thoughts, did not stop him at all. Instead, they generously took out their money to prepare for him to go to France.
Before leaving, the father of Deng Shaochang rarely held Deng Xiaoping's hand and said earnestly: "The future of family and country depends on your efforts, and you must achieve success in your studies." The mother also stared at him with tears in her eyes, reminding her of personal safety.
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Because of the strong support of his parents, Deng Xiaoping can do what he wants without hesitation. However, he could not have imagined that he would completely embark on the revolutionary cause.
920, Deng Xiaoping was qualified to study in France, and traveled to Sichuan and Shanghai with 85 other Chinese students, and finally took a cruise to Paris. Although he is the youngest among his peers, he is delicate and sees through all kinds of worldly sufferings.
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"Along the way, landlords bullied hired workers and foreigners bullied Chinese people. After I saw it, my determination to change China became even stronger."
Deng Xiaoping's original intention became an opportunity to contact communism, and also made him meet Premier Zhou.
At that time, the group of international students of had just arrived in Marseille, France. Because of the problem of language barriers, they had to study in language schools. Although Deng Xiaoping had a strong Sichuan accent, he still spoke fluently with his diligent contact. I quickly devoted myself to daily study.
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However, just when he and other classmates thought that his study career was about to begin, the capital chain of Chinese students in international students suddenly broke, causing everyone to lack a source of life and live on the streets.
Detectively saw that the protest was invalid, Deng Xiaoping did not want to give up the opportunity to study abroad. He could only be an apprentice in a factory in Paris, barely maintaining food and clothing. At the same time, Premier Zhou, who works part-time to study, also spreads communist ideas in the factory, seeking "comrades" .
Prince Zhou
Once, Deng Xiaoping accidentally passed by Premier Zhou's speech. When he saw the young people on the stage discussing the impact and future of communism on the Chinese nation with passion, he was deeply attracted, and appeared on time for many days since then. Not long after, the Communist branch of Europe traveled to Europe was established in France, and Prime Minister Weekly served as the main person in charge. After learning the news, Deng Xiaoping immediately recommended himself and applied to join the Communist Party of China.
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Weekly Premier fully felt that his understanding of communism was no less than that of others, but he still failed to accept his application for joining the party.
Deng Xiaoping asked the reason in confusion: "Is it because my point of view is incorrect? Why did I pass it?"
Premier Zhou said slowly: "With your opinion, it will surely shine on the revolutionary road of the Chinese nation. But you are not old enough now, you can join the Communist Youth League first, and I will reserve a quota for you to join the party."
Premier Zhou and Deng Xiaoping
Deng Xiaoping suddenly realized that under the leadership of Premier Zhou, he carried out a number of communist activities in France, published red publications such as "Chin Guang", and opened a tofu shop to provide an income source for those international students who work and study.
924, Deng Xiaoping got what he wanted and became a member of the Communist Party of China. At that time, Chiang Kai-shek launched the "April 12 Coup" in China, damaging our party members and patriotic people. After returning to China, he took the initiative to join the underground party work of Shanghai, risking being exposed at any time to convey information to the organization.
Premier Zhou and Deng Xiaoping
At that time, the young Deng Xiaoping demonstrated his super work ability again and again in the process of danger, which was highly praised by Premier Zhou and Chairman Mao. But he was never proud and complacent, and was diligently on the front line of fighting against the enemy.
It is precisely because Deng Xiaoping adheres to the belief of the Communist Party of China that he is given an important task. For example, in the Zunyi Conference, we supported Chairman Mao's leadership and determined the correct path of Long March . also created one myth after another in the process of "Liu and Deng's army advancing into Dabie Mountains ".
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After the founding of New China, Deng Xiaoping was also on the front line of building the country and studied the development path of socialism with Chinese characteristics.
978, he proposed "reform and opening up", which was praised as a hymn by people "An old man drew a circle by the South China Sea" . Then, China's economy ushered in a period of earth-shaking development, and many people "going to the sea" to do business and founded large enterprises that were famous both at home and abroad. However, Deng Xiaoping never regarded these shocking great achievements as medals of merit, but instead believed that this was the "attitude for the country and the people" that he should have as a member of the Communist Party of China. He said : "As the son of the Chinese people, I love the motherland and the people deeply."
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However, this old man who has a profound impact on China's development has to face the test of natural laws.
The successful and famous revolutionary ancestor
996, Deng Xiaoping retreated to the second line, but he was still paying attention to national affairs at all times. That morning, he got up and brushed his teeth as usual. When he was about to read the newspaper, he suddenly had difficulty breathing and his chest was like a stone weighing thousands of pounds. While Deng Xiaoping was sobbing in pain, the guard happened to come into the house to deliver breakfast. After the other party discovered the situation, he immediately contacted his doctor, but with simple instruments and equipment, he could not check Deng Xiaoping's injuries at all, so he had to send him to the People's Liberation Army Hospital.
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Doctor uses professional medical equipment and to carefully examine Deng Xiaoping's whole body , and finally found out that he was suffering from Parkinson's and had symptoms of respiratory infection causing dyspnea.
At that time, his wife Zhuo Lin rushed to the hospital as soon as possible after learning the news. When she saw Deng Xiaoping with a weak face, she couldn't help but feel calm, but Deng Xiaoping looked calm and even comforted his wife : "Don't be sad, I'm fine."
Although all the medical staff were running for Deng Xiaoping's disease, his body was weak day by day. Zhuo Lin could only wait by Deng Xiaoping's side without leaving any steps, so that the great man could enjoy the last happy time.
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997 Spring Festival , Deng Xiaoping's ward was full of festive red, and relatives and friends all came to visit. However, the warm atmosphere failed to keep him alive. After several rescues, he closed his eyes forever. Zhuo Lin cried bitterly, but when she thought of her husband's last wish during her lifetime, she could only cheer up and do the last thing for Deng Xiaoping.
Three months later, an airplane hovered over the sea. Zhuo Lin sprinkled the ashes in her hand into the sea, muttering: "Don't worry, watch the prosperity and development of the motherland here."
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From the War of Resistance Against Japan to the founding of New China , Deng Xiaoping had faith and never feared life and death. It is precisely because of his persistence that China is on the road of development of prosperity and civilization, and his spirit will inevitably influence the latecomers and contribute their lives to the rejuvenation of the Chinese nation.
