1922, when he learned that Zhang Youyi was pregnant, Xu Zhimo said coldly, "Abort the child", and before Zhang Youyi could recover, Xu Zhimo disappeared in a few days.
As a woman with a strong heart, she understands that feelings are not mercy. One month after the birth of the child, she resolutely signed the three words "Zhang Youyi" on the divorce agreement , announcing the disintegration of the two's seven-year marriage, allowing the poet Xu Zhimo to pursue his own romantic life.
Zhang Youyi has a very socially renowned family. At the age of 12, she received women's education at Jiangsu Provincial Second Women's Normal University. At the age of 15, before she graduated, she was betrothed to a student from Hangzhou No. 1 Middle School by Zhu Rui, the secretly fourth brother of Zhejiang governor. He said that this student was talented and rare. His family was a wealthy businessman in Jiangnan, and this student was Xu Zhimo.
Xu Zhimo was also unable to violate his father's orders. In his words, "The orders of the matchmaker are accepted by his parents." In this way, Zhang Youyi dropped out of school and became the young grandmother of the Xu family.
11918, their first child, Ah Huan, was born, and Xu Zhimo left his wife and children to study abroad. In 1920, under the pressure of Zhang Youyi's second brother, Xu Zhimo had to let his wife go to the UK.
Zhang Youyi described the attitude of Xu Zhimo coming to pick her up at that time: "I leaned against the tail deck, waiting impatiently to get ashore, and then saw Xu Zhimo standing in the crowd looking around. At this moment, my heart was cold. He was wearing a thin black fur coat and a white scarf around his neck. Although I had never seen him in a suit, I knew it was him at a glance. I could tell his attitude at a glance, and I could not make a mistake, because he was the only one among the people who picked up the boat that showed an expression that he didn't want to go there."
Because Xu Zhimo was in love with Lin Huiyin at this time, Zhang Youyi's arrival has undoubtedly become a stumbling block, so the opening scene appeared after Zhang Youyi gave birth to the child.
After the divorce, Xu Zhimo did not ask about the life situation of his ex-wife and children, which gave people the feeling that he was relaxed. Finally, he removed this burden and could love Lin Huiyin wholeheartedly.
, and Zhang Youyi studied early childhood education in Germany with the help of her second brother. Peter unfortunately died in 1925. She was heartbroken and in a very depressed mood. This should be the darkest time in her life.
11926, she was taken back to Shanghai by her eighth brother and continued to study in Beijing with her son Ah Huan. Later, after her mother passed away, she took her son back to Shanghai.
She first taught German at Soviet University . Later, with the recommendation of her brother, she revitalized a savings bank of a woman who was on the verge of bankruptcy. She used her unique business acumen, in current terms, fission marketing is similar, saving money to give gifts, attracting customers to give coupons, and also put out a unique slogan: In this era, women must have savings.
Facts prove that Zhang Youyi is a business genius.
Many modern people know the fashion brand "Yunshang". Its founder is Zhang Youyi. The symbol of the former Shanghai nobles was: My clothes were made in Yunshang Clothing Store. She combined the knowledge she learned from the West and summarized her own set of cutting methods and fashionable styles that combine Chinese and Western styles, which were all the rage in Shanghai at that time.
Her clothing store business continued to expand, and she opened branches in many big cities, becoming a fashion trend at that time.
By 1934, she helped her second brother manage finances. During the war years, she hoarded a lot of military dyes and had huge capital accumulation.
11953 Zhang Youyi met a doctor named Su Jizhi in Hong Kong. Su Jizhi and Zhang Youyi were neighbors and had four children divorced. Zhang Youyi would often help them. As long as she could, she would help her. Gradually, the two of them were warmed by each other. At this time, Su Jizhi expressed her feelings to her and hoped to start a family.
Although Zhang Youyi has a good impression of Su Jizhi, she is also a grandmother after all, so she wrote a letter to her son Xu Jiakai , who is far away in the United States, asking for his son's opinions, and the son quickly replied to his mother.
"The mother's widow is a loyal wife. She has been polite for more than thirty years. She gave birth to me and cared for me... In terms of her mother's life, she has very little joy. Her mother's job has been over. Her mother's heart is worthy of comfort. Who comforts her mother? Who is with her mother? If the mother gets someone, her son will ask for her father's affairs."
Although her son is a civil engineer in the beautiful country, the poet's charm can be seen from her writing style and is worthy of being the son of Xu Zhimo.
Xu Jiaqi settled in the United States and had four children. His daughter-in-law Zhang Cuiwen was also personally selected by Zhang Youyi. The whole family was happy, which also made Zhang Youyi feel extremely relieved and relieved in her later years.
1967, Su Jizhi accompanied her to the old place of Kangqiao where she once lived with Xu Zhimo.
Zhang Youyi said in "Little Foot and Suit: The Home Changes of Zhang Youyi and Xu Zhimo": He and I sat on the banks of the Cambridge River, admiring this river that was walking around Cambridge University. Only then did I realize how beautiful Cambridge is, I never knew this before. We also took the bus from Cambridge to Shaston, and I just stood outside the cabin I lived in and stared at, and couldn't believe that I was so young when I lived there. "
She only realized in her memories that she was young.
Does Zhang Youyi love Xu Zhimo? I think she loved her wishfully. Look at her own self-report!
You always ask me, do I love Xu Zhimo or not. You know, I can't answer this question. I am confused by this question, because everyone always tells me that I have done so many things for Xu Zhimo, I just said I must love him. But I can't say what love is. I have never said "I love you" to anyone in my life. If Xu Zhimo and his family are called love, then I probably love him. Among the few women he met in his life, maybe I love him the most.
In the words of Xu Zhimo's son, if something happened to the plane, his father would have a woman who loved him until he was 90 years old, love his talents, love his poetry and picturesqueness, and love his romance. Perhaps as Zhang Youyi said, she would always be for Xu Zhimo should take care of his family!
After the accident of Xu Zhimo's plane, Lin Huiyin just asked his friend to pick up a piece of the plane and hung it at home. Lu Xiaoman In addition to crying, only Zhang Youyi has always been recognized by the Xu family. She is also the only woman who handles his funeral.
1972, after Su Jizhi's death, Zhang Youyi handled his funeral and went to New York to live. In 1988, he spent his life and carved it on her tombstone: Su Zhang Youzhi.
Whether she loves Xu Zhimo more or loves Su Jizhi, she finally thinks it is Su Jizhi. It should be said that Xu Zhimo is the person she loves, and Su Jizhi is the person who loves her, which also gives her a perfect life.
Zhang Youyi's life has shortcomings and perfection. She uses her own abilities to make her life more meaningful and also allows herself to gain the dignity of personality. A woman's wisdom is the capital to make herself bloom.
