In real life, most people often prefer to watch stories of others' counterattack success, because they have our shadows on them, they are just as ordinary, maybe of their origin, appearance, family background, etc.
Counterattack life
Everyone hopes that they can also have a cheating life like the person who counterattacks. So how can we cheat? I think three things are essential:
cultivate a sense of responsibility
If a person does not have enthusiasm, he will achieve nothing, and the basis of enthusiasm is responsibility. ——Leo Tolstoy
US President Reagan When he was a child, he accidentally broke the glass of his neighbor's house for playing football, and then he was asked for $12.50 by his neighbor's house. In the United States at that time, $12.5 was a considerable amount, enough to buy more than 100 hens that could only lay eggs. The money was undoubtedly a bolt from the blue for Reagan, who was only 11 years old.
American
He told his father guiltily about this. Seeing that he was in a dilemma, his father handed over the money to him to repay his neighbor and told him that the money was considered to be my loan to you. Today, a year later, you will return the money to me in full.
After that, Reagan started all kinds of odd jobs without delaying his school time. Through his efforts and continuous accumulation, he saved enough money in half a year and returned it to his father.
Making money
When Reagan was president, recalling the past, he said: that incident made me understand what responsibility is and taught me to take on my mistakes with labor.
In today's society, the higher the status, the heavier the responsibilities the person bears. If we want to successfully counterattack, we must realize that our future status is proportional to the magnitude of responsibility we have to bear.
JD CEO Liu Qiangdong once said that needs 100 million yuan in expenses every day, and CEO represents responsibility.
Liu Qiangdong
We must cultivate our sense of responsibility, like President Reagan, be responsible to others and our own behavior.
accumulates strength and does not make unprepared accounts
Recently, the particularly popular live-action anchor on the Internet is Dong Yuhui from New Oriental . He always shares his experiences with everyone in the live broadcast room.
When he was broadcast live, he mentioned that he had just graduated from college and entered New Oriental. During the first time he entered the workplace, he had a lot of grievances and bullies. But he did not choose to give up, but actively continued to accumulate his strength.
New Oriental
At that time, the subject he taught was English, so he did all the papers before the college entrance examination and frantically became familiar with the types of questions. So much so that he didn't even have to read the textbook when he was giving lectures, because he could take a break from the question on the college entrance examination paper in a certain province in a few years. It is precisely because of his efforts that he became the director of teaching and research at the age of 23.
We all admire Teacher Dong Yuhui's eloquence, his casual writing, and his knowledge, but these are the results of the books he has read, the path he has walked, and the hardship he has suffered over the years.
From Teacher Dong Yuhui, we can better understand that there are no cheats in life, most of which are the result of accumulation and hard work.
Be good at mentality
Things depend on how we view them. ——Orisen Sweet Maden
Founder of Alibaba Jack Ma In his speech, he once said that he had come into contact with many outstanding entrepreneurs and political leaders. He thought that everyone would encounter difficulties and setbacks when they can get to this point. He likes to see how those excellent people face these problems, how they face ordinary people, and how they face a master.
Jack Ma
After studying, Jack Ma found that all promising people in have a good attitude, are optimistic, are very positive, do not complain, and know how to reflect on themselves.
We often say that mentality is a person’s Feng Shui.People with good mentality can often be calm in good times or bad times. For those who achieve great things, a good mentality is also particularly important.
