There is a saying that says it is very realistic. If fate can give you, it can be taken back.
is like the "dead queen" written by Zweig . She was born in a magnificent palace since she was a child and later married to the king. She is simply the darling of fate.
No one expected that the people overthrew the king and brought the king and his wife to the guillotine. In this way, this spoiled and beautiful queen ended her life in a tragedy.
The last moment, she was the darling of fate. The next moment, she was abandoned by fate and became an abandoned son. This is what we often say, "Fate is impermanent and life is unpredictable."
Therefore, Zweig wrote: "She was too young at that time and did not know that all the gifts given by fate had already secretly bid for the price."
Destiny is fair. If you give these gifts to you, you will have to pay the "unknown" price. These costs may be your blessing, your stable life, or your rest of your life.
In order to keep our blessings, it is better for us to be more low-key. God will eventually take away his blessings for someone who always likes to show off these secrets.
1. The richer you are, the more you have to say that you have no money.
A master of Chinese studies once said that it is easy to change from "non-existence" to "existence", but it is difficult to change from "existence" to "non-existence".
He is a poor man and always likes to say that he is very rich, which is very simple. You are a rich man, but you won’t admit that you don’t have money, but you will show off everywhere. In this way, it will be difficult for you to keep a low profile.
After many years of experience, I discovered the truth: the longer the richer people are, the more they know how to keep a low profile. The more the rich people are suppressed, the more they like to be high-profile.
In the Internet field, there are two bigwigs of business empires, both of whom are as famous as the Internet history. Of course, their style of doing things is different. One person likes to talk big in front of the public, and one person likes to make money in silence.
Until today, we can find that the former that is boasting about is already unlucky. The latter, who is silent and low-key, is basically invincible. This is the difference between low-key or not. The same is true for ordinary people. The richer you are, the more you hide yourself and don’t be too glamorous. Because outsiders don’t want you to live a good life.
2. The smaller you achieve, the more you need to keep your edge.
Throughout history, there have been too many heroes, but they are unlucky because of their "sharpness".
In the late Eastern Han Dynasty, Yuan Shao swept the north, more than ten times stronger than Cao Cao . Who knew that Yuan Shao was too arrogant and did not know how to think rationally, and was defeated by Cao Cao.
Eight years later, Cao Cao had unified the north and launched the Red Cliff War, hoping to eliminate Liu Bei and Sun Quan . However, Cao Cao still underestimated his enemy , which led to the desire to unify the country.
After more than ten years, Liu Bei attacked the Eastern Wu in order to help Guan Yu revenge. also lost his mind. He accidentally fell into Lu Xun 's plan, and was burned to a camp for 700 miles, and died in Baidi City. The principles of
are similar, that is, those who show their strengths will eventually encounter the turning point of "everything will turn back" and will not have good results. At this time, being sober and living a low-key life is more important.
The more you achieve, the more you should lower your attitude. Then God will think that you can be a human being, and naturally you will not make things difficult for you.
3. The more you are in a certain position, the more you cannot be arrogant.
You are the supervisor in the company, so you look down on people with lower positions than you.Slowly, "arrogance" appears in your heart. But it was these arrogance that caused many people to suffer.
When you look down on others, it proves that you have been "started" by God. The higher you are, the more difficult it will be for you to do things. In the end, this "unlucky" will bring you back to the pre-liberation overnight.
There is a nouveau riche who made a lot of money by seizing the opportunity. He saw that all the relatives in his hometown looked down on him. In his opinion, I am so rich and you are so poor, why should you interact with each other?
After a few years, this upstart was in trouble. He was hit by the market and his factory went bankrupt and owed a lot of money. Sadly, his child is also sick and urgently needs money for treatment.
At that moment, he thought of his past relatives. Who knew that relatives refused to save him when they saw him die and ignored him. After experiencing this incident, he realized that he had nothing to do with great things. If he didn't become a boss, he was just an ordinary person.
Ordinary people, don’t regard the platform as their own strength. Without this platform, maybe even ordinary people are inferior.
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is too prominent in life, that is a problem. The so-called "The tree is fascinated by the forest, and the wind will destroy it." You are the most prominent among the trees, and the storm will find you as soon as possible.
You are the richest among this group of people, but you don’t know how to be low-key, so people with bad intentions are eyeing you as soon as possible. And you and your family don’t feel any security.
The better you live than others, the more you should lower your attitude. If you bow your head, others won’t hate you. is like a white swan among a group of crows. If you don’t dye your feathers black, you will be miserable.
God, I will take care of those low-key people. If you are too high-profile, you will be far from bad luck.
text/Shushan Youlu
