Wang Yangming The achievements of "establishing morality, making meritorious and speaking in Chinese history are extremely rare in the history of China. The creation of the "快快文 " that has a profound impact on future generations has a lot to do with the family environment where he was born.
Wang Yangming's extraordinary achievements in life are inseparable from his childhood enlightenment teacher. He is Wang Yangming's grandfather Wang Lun. At the same time, it is also inseparable from his father Wang Hua.
Wang Yangming's grandfather Wang Lun is a well-read scholar and has written several volumes of "Bamboo Manuscripts" and "Jianghu Miscellaneous Manuscripts". Wang Lun was very famous, free and easy, and indifferent to fame and fortune. He was a noble hermit who was well versed in Confucianism and Buddhism. His father Wang Hua was the top scholar in Chenghua's 17th year. He served as editor of the Hanlin Academy, bachelor of the Hanlin Academy, young Zhanshi, right assistant minister of the Ministry of Rites, left assistant minister of the Ministry of Rites, and minister of the Nanjing Ministry of Personnel. Wang Hua has worked in Kyoto for a long time. Wang Yangming has lived with his grandfather and grandmother since childhood. His grandfather and grandmother dote on him very much and give him encouragement and guidance. In the second year Wang Hua served as Hanlin, his life had stabilized, so he took his father and son Wang Yangming to live in the capital. In such a scholarly family with a strong cultural atmosphere and a family of poetry and rituals, Wang Yangming's potential and talent were fully utilized, laying a solid foundation for Wang Yangming's growth and becoming a great man of a generation.
From Wang Yangming's family atmosphere, I felt the following inspirations:
1. Encourage children to get involved in various interests and hobbies from an early age, which is beneficial to children for life
Wang Yangming practiced bow and horse riding and shooting since he was a child, studied " Sun Tzu's Art of War ", " Six Strategies ", " Three Strategies ", etc., and was addicted to five things: Ren Xia, riding and shooting, lyrics, gods and immortals, and Buddhist affairs. Although his father Wang Hua once threw his chess into the river, there was basically no strong stop. Especially for Grandpa Wang Yangming, he firmly believed that his grandson would definitely achieve great success, so what Wang Yangming wanted to do since childhood? Wang Yangming had so many hobbies and did so many "extraordinary" things when he was a child, and his grandfather supported him.
When summarizing Wang Yangming's achievements, many modern scholars said that it was Wang Yangming's wide range of interests and hobbies in various things since he was a child that he had his future exploration and practice and finally achieved immortal achievements.
For example, when Wang Yangming was a child, he played military skills, archery, etc. with his children. Although naughty caused his father Wang Hua to have a headache, his father did not absolutely forbid. Especially grandfather Wang Lun, who has always supported and believed in grandson Wang Yangming behind his back. For example, Wang Yangmingge's story of bamboo , he and his friends looked at bamboo without blinking. The friends were tired and retreated after 3 days and 3 nights, while Wang Yangming went through a full 7 days and 7 nights until he fell ill. For ordinary parents, they must intervene, scold or stop their thoughts and actions in the middle. Wang Yangming was able to be uninterrupted for 7 days, and was inseparable from the silent support behind his family.
In an environment where support without obstruction or stopping, Wang Yangming's nature, intelligence and exploration are constantly inspired. Compared with today's children, parents may have excessive intervention and stifled their children's nature, allowing them to study and live according to the paths designed by their parents at a young age. A few children even experience depression, bad behavior, etc.
As a parent, in daily life, it is best to be good at discovering children's potential abilities and hobbies. It is better to encourage them rather than kill their hobbies.
2. It is important to create a good reading and learning environment for children
Although Wang Yangming still can't speak until he is 5 years old, when he suddenly speaks, he can completely blurt out a large paragraph. At that time, my grandfather Wang Lun picked up his pen and wrote. After finishing writing, he recited the four words "The Way of the University", and stopped reading it later. Wang Yangming next to him suddenly recited loudly: "The Way of the University is to be clear about virtue, to be close to the people, and to stop at the highest good.Knowing the stop, then you have a calmness, then you can be calm, then you can be at peace..." Grandpa was surprised and happy and asked him how he recited it. He said that grandpa was chanting every day, and he naturally knew it after listening for a long time.
Another example, when passing by Jinshan Temple in Zhenjiang, Wang Yangming's grandfather Wang Lun drank and wrote poems with his friends and wrote poems improvised. When it was grandpa Wang Lun's turn, he racked his brains and couldn't make good sentences for a while. But little Wang Yangming had already recited a poem casually:
Kingsoft is as big as a fist, breaking the sky under the water.
Drunk and leaning on Miaogaotai Last month, Jade flute Blowing through the cave Dragon Sleep.
Friends thought it was my grandfather who designed and prepared in advance, so they deliberately asked Wang Yangming to read it out. So they gave Wang Yangming a title on the spot, asking Wang Yangming to write another poem with the bright moon in the sky and the mountains looming in the distance. Unexpectedly, Wang Yangming also wrote the poem immediately.
The mountain is near and far away and the moon is under the moon. It is said that this mountain is larger than the moon.
If someone's eyes are bigger than the sky, the mountain is wider.
The thinking, literary talent, layout, etc. of the poem are by no means possible, and Wang Yangming has done it again. The friends present were shocked and shocked.
Wang Yangming's little little At the age of age, you can write poems that ordinary people may not be able to write, which is definitely due to Wang Yangming's family. There are all books at home, and grandfather and father are all the people. A good reading and knowledge-seeking environment also invisibly affects and leads Wang Yangming's strong desire for knowledge.
As the saying goes, you have never eaten pork and have never seen a pig run? Those who are close to vermilion are red, and those who are close to ink are black.
The impact of the environment on children can be said to be subtle.
For young parents, no matter how busy, tired or annoyed, they should also create a good learning environment for their children from an early age, so that they can develop a good habit of loving reading, reading, and thinking from an early age
3. Parents' own habit of learning will affect and drive their children well
Children love to learn and read. In addition to having a good environment, parents' leading by example is also very important. For example, Wang Yangming's grandfather can hold books and chant poems every day. His father is the top scholar and the emperor's teacher. He reads a large number of books or copy related materials every day, and plays a subtle role invisibly.
I have a friend who bought few toys for his children after his child was born, and the most of them were all kinds of children's books and books. The most beautiful furniture in the home is the bookcase, which contains all kinds of books. He usually reads books when he has nothing to do, goes to libraries and bookstores, and often takes his children with him. Now, his children are different from other children. They can have no mobile phones, but they cannot have books. Children read books very consciously every day and read very much every day. You can read at least tens of thousands of words of material a day. Children's compositions are often used as model essays, read, imitated, and praised in the class. My friend said that he was very worry-free and had no effort or worries at all. For the composition topics given by the teacher, children always had various topics, and they could always write them ingeniously, with thoughts and innovative ideas.
Charlie Munger once wrote that I have never seen anyone with wisdom in my life who does not read every day, and there is no one. Buffett and my reading volume may surprise you.
None of us can deny the impact and role of a good family education environment on it. We want our children to become wise people, develop good learning habits, and enhance their reading volume. I think that first of all, parents should start with themselves, put down their mobile phones and pick up books, guide their children to read more books and think more, so that their children can enhance their cognitive abilities through reading and enlighten their lives.
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