There has been a saying in China since ancient times: Heroes are sad for beauty, even if it is a hero, it is difficult to withstand the temptation brought by beauty . For example, the last emperor of the Shang Dynasty, when he started as King Zhou, he was still a very accomplished emperor, but after being charmed by the beauty Daji, he became depressed and died of the country
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Later, Chen Chao Chen Shubao ascended the throne and was called Chen Houzhu . Empress Chen is a famous desolate emperor in the Southern Dynasty. He dotes on his concubine Zhang Lihua and others, ignores political affairs, and the state is in decline. In the second year of Zhenming (588), Emperor Wen of the Sui Dynasty slashed Chen in a big way. The Chen Dynasty was destroyed in the second year and the North and South were unified. Chen Chao has a total of 32 years from the founding of the country by Chen Ba first to the death of the country after Chen.
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Why even heroes are saddened by Beauty Guan, in fact, has long been said in a classic compiled in the Western Han Dynasty. is recorded in the "Book of Rites·Rites": Men and women eat and drink, and people have great desires. In other words, eating and drinking and things between men and women are all human desires. And heroes are also human beings, so it is difficult to resist this great desire that accompanies people innately, but if people want to achieve something, they must restrain or quit, it is in sex.
Zeng Guofan is a celebrity we are all very familiar with in the late Qing Dynasty. He is not only famous for helping the Qing Dynasty solve the serious civil strife caused by the Taiping Heavenly Kingdom, but also for his ability to be strict with himself, and he also left a copy "The Family Instructions of Zeng Guofan" is given to future generations. Among the descendants of Zeng Guofan, all of them are talents, some are doctors from abroad, and some have become talents for building the motherland. One of my favorites to evaluate Zeng Guofan is: "Leading meritorious deeds and saying three immortal words, as the teacher will be the same as one person"
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Zeng Guofan also because of him He was able to build merits, set an example, and spread his words to later generations. Therefore, he was dubbed a half-saint, but when he was young, he was also recruited when facing the beauty pass. Cannot hold
How lustful is Zeng Guofan when he was in the bloody Fang Gang
Once Zeng Guofan attended a gathering of Jinshi classmates, because the people who attended the gathering were all the "King officials" at the time, which was better than Zeng Guofan There are many more good conditions. Therefore, Zeng Guofan was an eye-opener with the grandeur of the bells and his concubines. But his wife, Ouyang, is in poor health and often suffers from illnesses. Naturally, seeing so many beauties makes her eyes uneasy.
Another time, a friend of Zeng Guofan took a small wife from a room. Everyone said how beautiful this wife is. This time it evoked the "sickworm" in Zeng Guofan's mind. He first looked for My friends talked about knowledge, and they talked about that little concubine. He wanted to meet, but the friend refused, so he asked again and again, and finally had to call the little wife out and let him see. Zeng Guofan couldn't stay idle now, and said a lot of provocative words, which made the scene very embarrassing. After returning home that night, Zeng Guofan wrote in his diary, "Indecent and disrespectful."
And so on, there are a lot of things in Zeng Guofan's diary that want to get into trouble when seeing a good-looking woman. In fact, this is normal for a healthy young man. Zeng Guofan, who has just passed the year, also has emotions and desires, and driven by "desire", he has done a lot of things that he is ashamed of! But fortunately, Zeng Guofan knew that indulging in this matter would hinder his career, so he inspired to reboot!
It is recorded in the wild history that Zeng Guofan once fell ill due to an affair with a firework woman, but because his condition was not serious, he soon recovered. It is said that he later wrote couplets to some brothel women. There is more than one. At the same time, after defeating the Taiping Heavenly Kingdom, I went to the fireworks site to visit
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His method is very good. Simple, just likeMost men do the same.
First, get yourself busy. If you don’t give yourself some free time, then it will be possible for you to go crazy for a long time. Therefore, he became busy himself as a spinning top. After dealing with work, he began to study literary masterpieces, piano, chess, calligraphy, and calligraphy. In short, he used various methods to make himself unable to stop. When I go to bed every night, I feel exhausted physically and mentally, and I have no other interest at all.
The second method is to self-criticize everything. Write down the bad ideas and bad things you think with a pen, read it every day, and spurn yourself every day. Of course this requires great courage. For example, if he records his interest in other people’s concubines, he can see it every day. It will definitely make him feel very ashamed, so he won’t have any other thoughts. .
The third type is to divert attention. When your mood fluctuates, immediately think about something else. For example, think about how you will end up if you fall, or just pour it with a basin of cold water. He also often warns himself in his diary, if he has an evil thought, write down his thoughts and curse at himself, thereby enhancing his self-discipline
戒Zeng Guofan of the color queen
Zeng Guofan believes that once a person's selfish desires and passions expand, it will be difficult to deal with, and will eventually hinder major careers. He was a posthumous minister, but he was determined not to accept concubines, and his life style was also strictly self-disciplined. This is what distinguishes him from his contemporaries, and it is also a place of extraordinary sanctification!
Zeng Guofan later achieved great success in both his family and official career. He founded the Hunan Army, an extremely human minister, and was his supporter out of ten or four of the great officials in Xinjiang. He is self-righteous and teaches his son, and there are many talents in the family. And all this is due to his ability to "painfully change the former non-
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Zeng Guofan made the Qing court's military power move down, and took time out of the Qing Dynasty. The foundation of the regime, but as far as the situation was concerned, the Qing Dynasty did depend on Zeng Guofan to survive. Therefore, the Qing court was shocked by the news of Zeng Guofan’s death, and dropped out of the court for three days in mourning. He also gave the Taifu the posthumous posthumous title "Wenzheng" and entered. Worship the two shrines of Zhaozhong and Xianliang, and set up special shrines in Xiangxiang, Hunan and Nanjing, Jiangsu to give them a rare honor.
As the most influential figure in modern Chinese history, the most brave and persevering reformer in China, The most perfect personality in Chinese history, the most ideal incarnation of Chinese traditional culture, Zeng Guofan's death, symbolized the disappearance of the last spiritual idol in Chinese feudal society.
The sage has passed away, the great scholar has died, in a true sense The Confucianism of China has entered the end times, but the essential Western learning desires to enter China but broke the door. A great transitional era, supposedly overdue, is still struggling in the mother’s womb like a dystocia baby, making modern Chinese history move forward. Steps, become so confused and confused, hesitant and hesitant, stagger and stagger
