"Fate and Knowledge" once said: "To wear the world, to be smart and to see high." No matter what the social background or environment, only people with flexible minds can adapt to changes, turn dangers into bargaining, and have a better life. .
In the process of the development of ancient Chinese feudal society, members of the royal family held an absolutely noble position. After understanding many stories in the deep palace, you will find that if a servant wants to end well, he must be adaptable and cleverly handled. Aspects of the relationship. It can be seen that those who can be trusted by members of the royal family generally have a strong ability to observe words and colors. In the deep palace, if there is no clever mind as a backing, it is difficult to survive smoothly.
By understanding the history of the late Qing Dynasty, you will find that by the Empress Dowager Cixi, there is a very favored eunuch Li Lianying, although Li Lianying’s most famous skill in hair combing But in fact, in addition to combing the hair, Li Lianying was able to be dominated by Cixi for 53 years, and it was also closely related to a special skill.
Li Lianying was born in 1848 and became a eunuch at the age of 7. Since then, Li Lianying entered the harem. Generally speaking, the eunuchs who have just entered the palace will not be reused. Compared with the old eunuchs, the new eunuchs are lacking in work ability or other aspects. However, Li Lianying is favored by Cixi by virtue of the combing technique she learned in her early years. , Became the leader among the eunuchs in the harem.
Although there were eunuchs specializing in combing hair in the harem at that time, their combing skills were far from that of Li Linying. in the harem of the late Qing Dynasty,Empress Dowager Cixi relied on Li Lianying's hair combing skills so much that she kept it by her side. Affected by this situation, whenever future generations talk about Li Lianying, the first thing that comes to mind is his superb combing skills.
After receiving the asylum of Empress Cixi, Li Lianying's status has risen. Perhaps in the eyes of many people, the eunuchs in ancient society were more treacherous, but Li Lianying was different from other eunuchs. Although Li Lianying later became the celebrity in front of the Empress Dowager Cixi, he has always maintained a more kind personality. In the course of her life in the harem, Li Lianying remained humble and cautious no matter she met court ladies, eunuchs, emperors or ministers.
In addition, even though Li Lianying had a solid backing as Empress Dowager Cixi at the time, when facing other eunuchs and court ladies of lower rank, he always treated each other with a smile. Arrogant and arrogant to others. In this case, Li Lianying was respected by many court ladies and eunuchs.
Through understanding many literary and film works, we can find that in the ancient harem, the eunuchs with higher status generally made things difficult for them. But in Li Lianying's life, she never did such an act. It can be seen that Li Lianying can win the respect of others for herself with her clever mind no matter when and where.
When Li Lianying was with the Empress Dowager Cixi, he always tried to resolve the distress in the heart of the Empress Dowager Cixi and put forward corresponding opinions . Based on the combined influence of the above reasons, the Empress Dowager Cixi has favored Li Lianying for 53 years.In the Forbidden City at that time, there were few eunuchs who could equal the status of Li Lianying. The reason why he can be favored by the Empress Dowager Cixi for more than 50 years, apart from combing his hair, is closely related to his clever and clever mind.
From the above introduction, you can feel that Li Lianying has a kind attitude towards everyone in the palace. Even in the face of the gloomy Emperor Guangxu, Li Lianying can also maintain a normal heart and provide the Emperor Guangxu with corresponding help. According to historical records, in the harem at that time, except for Li Lianying, almost no one was willing to pay attention to Emperor Guangxu. It can be seen that Li Lianying's personality was obviously better than that of ordinary people.
During her tenure in the harem, there was almost no negative news about Li Lianying. When many people talked about Li Lianying, they would have a certain amount of admiration in their hearts. With a clever and clever mind, Li Lianying has not been framed by others. Although Cixi had some suspicion towards Li Lianying in his later years, but with Li Lianying's ingenious solution, in the end, the empress dowager Cixi did not punish Li Lianying, but instead gave him a good ending.
For an eunuch, it is not easy to have a smart mind like Li Lianying. It is because of this special ability that he has received the treatment of the Empress Dowager Cixi for 53 years and has become the focus of future research.
Conclusion
By understanding what Li Lianying did in her life, we will find that although Li Lianying is just an eunuch, he can recognize the situation and try to make a difference for others Good impression. It is for this reason that Li Lianying can survive safely in the deep palace with a happy ending.
Although in the development process of modern society, our country has long abandoned the feudal and decadent social system, but Li Lianying's actions still have a certain sense of learning and reference. Whether in school or in the workplace, we should strive to improve ourselves,Facing study and work with a better attitude, reap a bright future.
Reference: "Manuscript of Qing History"
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