text/Mu Yan
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As the Sheng family's Dinghai Shenxin Old Lady Sheng is a soul character in the drama " Knows ". She has insight into people's hearts, is clear about everything, and always speaks and does things with thoughtfulness and appropriateness.
I like her very much and admire her very much, but to be honest, I don’t want to live like her.
is obviously a proud daughter of heaven, but she chose the most difficult way to live and lived a happy life.
Although she has to suffer if she doesn’t suffer this or that, the suffering she suffered is too strong.
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As the only daughter of Yongyi Hou, she was very favored at home before she got married.
Not only that, she also raised her in the palace for a while, and her decency and dignity are incomparable to countless people.
According to her conditions, the families who want to marry her are naturally nobles, but she fell in love with the second master of the Tanhualang/Sheng family, who was a merchant, at first sight. She insisted on marrying a low-marriage into the Sheng family despite her parents' opposition.
After getting married, she was unwilling to let her husband take a concubine because she loved her husband so much. But her husband not only repeatedly took concubines, but also favored them and killed his wife, which disappointed her deep affection.
Even her only son was unfortunately ruined by her husband's favored concubine.
Ben Huan happily entered the marriage she chose, but unexpectedly, what awaited her was desolate.
Later, her husband died early and her parents wanted to help her remarry, but for the sake of her love for her deceased husband, she not only did not choose to remarry, but also adopted the concubine's son Sheng Hong (her husband's only bloodline) to her name and carefully cultivated it.
She used her dowry to ask Sheng Hongyan for guidance, teaches him to pass the imperial examination, hire a wife and have children, and reproduce the ancestral temple of Sheng’s family.
even flatly refused to marry the concubine's daughter into the Sheng family for the sake of Sheng Hong's future and the future of the Sheng family, and completely broke off relations with the mother's family.
As a noble daughter of the Hou family, her retreat plan is much more than ordinary families. The marriage was not going well, and her husband died early and had no children. She could leave the Sheng family without any burden.
But she is soft-hearted.
For the sake of the love in her heart and to prevent the deceased tomb of her late husband from being desolate. Even if everything seems so unworthy.
(There are too few narratives of Mrs. Sheng in the play. The above analysis of her past is written in combination with some original information)
Of course, it is also possible that she has no intention of remarrying and is powerless to love again after encountering a bad marriage.
But no matter what, she chose to stay in the Sheng family, and she really held a sincere heart to share the honor and disgrace with the Sheng family, and to live and die together.
Just as Changbai said later, the old lady worked hard for this family without blood.
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Did Mrs. Sheng regret her choice? I think there are some
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When she persuaded Minglan to give up her young master, she looked at Minglan who was deeply trapped in it and couldn't extricate herself. She said a little angry and helplessly -
"Forget it, for the sake of a man, all the teachings I have taught over the years have been wasted. You are fascinated by your love, you don't remember anything, and you are not afraid of anything."
For a man, he is fascinated. Isn't she talking about herself?
She suffered the loss of love first and then gradually got herself into the mud. She was afraid that Minglan would follow in her footsteps and would suffer for the rest of her life because of a passionate love.
After all, if she could make a new choice, she would definitely not want to live such a hard life.
What is worth admiring is that although she regrets it, she understands that regret is useless.
So she did not blindly indulge in the pain of being let down and did not use her own internal friction.Instead, after accepting it, bear the consequences for your choices and strive to make all situations develop in a better direction.
Since you have chosen to stay in the Sheng family for love to support your concubine's son, you must let the Sheng family flourish in your own hands.
She really did it too.
With his own strength, Sheng Hong, the concubine's son, has been well trained, allowing the Sheng family to rise step by step.
She became the manager and backbone of the Sheng family.
When outsiders mentioned her, in addition to saying that the only daughter of the Yongyi Hou also truly admired her character and admired her hard strength in all aspects.
privately thinks that this can barely be considered a comforting point, because it can be regarded as a reflection of her personal life value.
After all, time has changed, and the identity of Yongyi Hou's only daughter is just a gimmick. Her life that sacrificed for love must be meaningful and must be rewarded.
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Unfortunately, she is such a good person, but she does not receive the kind treatment she deserves in the Sheng family.
Although Sheng Hong was raised and taken care of by her, she always pretended to be personal interests in her heart. Although she was morally filial to her legitimate mother, she never had any sincerity.
This is also the reason why Sheng Hong only thought about personal face and was eager to calm down and not seek justice for her after she was poisoned by her daughter-in-law Wang.
The rest of the people almost always treat her as an old god when they have something to do, and they don’t feel at ease with her at all.
The man who once married without hesitation failed her, and later the concubine's son who was selfless in cultivation also failed her.
After being disappointed one after another, she saw through the coldness of human nature. She was sad and disappointed, so she simply chose to live in Shou'an Hall, eat vegetarian food and chant Buddha's name, which was very meaningless to retire after success.
According to the description of Lin Qinshuang , the house in Old Lady Sheng was as deserted as a temple before raising Minglan.
If it weren't for Minglan and Changbai, the two grandchildren who cherished her grandmother enough, she might have really become a living dead person.
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I have observed such a phenomenon on the Internet (roughly, inaccurate). Many people say that they hope that there is a wise person around them like Mrs. Sheng who can guide me, but they hardly see anyone who says they want to be someone like her.
The phenomenon is quite worth mentioning. Why do people want to have someone like her but don’t want to be her?
Because everyone knows that her life wisdom is almost extracted from the history of her life's blood and tears. Although she is clear about all generations, she is also weathered.
It's so hard to live like her.
A good daughter of a marquis's family. After getting married, because of the word "love", she gradually drifted away from her parents' family. She suffered a lot of grievances and suffering in her in-laws' family and kept living for others, but she did not live well for herself.
Which woman wants to live that kind of life?
The way Mrs. Sheng treats love today is a kind of love-oriented personality. Even if the efforts are always inversely proportional to the gain, she just cannot stop loss. The result is that she can only swallow all the grievances and pains into her stomach.
Of course, there is nothing wrong with her pursuing love, and it is also nothing wrong with giving sincerity. The mistake is that after being disappointed, she obviously has the chance to look back, but she devotes her whole way to the end for that little love.
is really not worth it.
Since we don’t want to live like Old Lady Sheng, then we all remember that Never sacrifice yourself for love.
I wish you all happiness.
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