"The Distant Savior" (TV series " Tiandao ") is Ouyang Xue who is struggling from the bottom.
My parents divorced, and my mother left and never appeared again. My father remarried and had a younger brother. Ouyang Xue said that her younger brother had noodles and she drank soup, and she smiled and said, as if she was talking about something that had nothing to do with her.
After reading this, we stopped and thought about it. A 12-year-old girl ran to someone else's small restaurant and kowtowed 8 times, begging the boss's wife to take her in, and then slept on a bench in the small restaurant. It can be seen that not only did not provide her with her to study, but she could not tolerate her anymore. Being beaten and starving may be commonplace.
Years have passed. Ouyang Xue has become a successful person in the ancient city with his own strength. He runs a high-end hotel. When talking about this, there is a bit of bitterness, but I am afraid that there is still a bit of sadness.
But Ouyang Xue is the most optimistic person in the book. She smiles many times.
Talking about my childhood experiences is laughing, and talking about kowtowing to find a job to live in the store or laughing.
Ding Yuanying asked her to help and use her name as the controlling shareholder. She laughed at herself.
Rui Xiaodan told her about her love story, saying "Yuanying", and she joked "ok".
Rui Xiaodan was received by Feng Shijie high-standard. She laughed and said, "Look at what your face has asked you for." She also joked: she used the beauty to use the beauty trick without even reporting the house.
When Rui Xiaodan held the Hongmen banquet, Ding Yuanying asked each of her to give a glass of wine. After the party was over, she seemed to be smoothing the venue and refused with a smile.
A strange woman like this, she has been exploring for many years and finally counterattacked. Then the five underlying logics of her counterattack are as follows:
It is too easy for a young woman to take a shortcut.
When I was eighteen or nineteen years old, I found a suitable person to marry. I depended on my husband. I had no family, so I had a small family to get married. I had a child and worked together. Although it was hard, it was full of risks. As the saying goes, poor couples were sad.
Women of this age are as young as flowers. If they go on a wrong path, they seem to have everything at once.
But Ouyang Xue has embarked on a not-so-easy path, a path that few people have taken, polishing her own craftsmanship and increasing her abilities, from setting up wonton stalls to building a snack bar, she has her own shop. No wonder Ding Yuanying commented: This is no longer simple. Indeed, starting from scratch and having your own small shop is not easy!
The road that is too easy is a wide door, which looks comfortable and comfortable, and is very attractive, but it will become more and more cramped and mediocre; while the road that seems difficult, as long as you persist and overcome difficulties, you will become more and more spacious. This is the narrow door.
Ouyang Xue chose to go to the narrow door and eventually achieved her career. She owned 580,000 yuan in the Venus Hotel and had a total dividend of 147,705 yuan at the end of the year, several times the income of the working class. She can also take out nearly 500,000 yuan of funds and purchase stocks according to Ding Yuanying's instructions.
Ouyang Xue has achieved class leap by herself and has a certain degree of economic freedom.
2. Have courage
Ouyang Xue has courage and dares to let go and take risks and make trouble.
She had the opportunity to open a hotel in a prime location, but she had no money. She probably had no start-up funds when she opened a snack bar. She dared to go to Beijing to find Rui Xiaodan who was studying in college, and lobby Rui Xiaodan. Rui Xiaodan did her mother's ideological work and took out the house in the Rose Garden as a mortgage loan.
Ouyang Xue said that Rui Xiaodan is bold and has an idea, but why isn’t she herself? I made up my mind to open a hotel. If I have difficulties, I will try my best to solve it.
At Rui Xiaodan's Hongmen Banquet, she saw that Rui Xiaodan fell in love with Ding Yuanying. She did not discuss with Rui Xiaodan and directly tested Ding Yuanying and kept increasing the money for meals. Although the method was extreme, she really investigated people. If Ding Yuanying was a low-level person, she might be drunk in a few words, smashing bowls and dishing, and losing her temper.
It was this bold temptation that allowed Ding Yuanying to show his talent for snatching stocks, and also allowed Rui Xiaodan to show her chivalrous courage. Even Han Chufeng couldn't help but praise her as a female hero after hearing Rui Xiaodan hung up the phone.
A brave woman is certainly rare, but Ouyang Xue is obviously a brave woman!
3. Not greedy
Ouyang Xue is not greedy at all.
First of all, the Venus Hotel really makes money, and she can spend nearly 500,000 yuan to buy stocks. The equity of Venus Hotel, she and Rui Xiaodan each have half of the equity, 580,000 yuan. In other words, if she wants to acquire Rui Xiaodan's equity, she has the ability to acquire it. For her, her profits will be maximized as well as the acquisition of equity, but she did not do so.
Ding Yuanying's initial idea was: use Ouyang Xue's name to name the controlling shareholder of the company, and the money will be her, and the losses will be her. But Ouyang Xue pondered for a moment and asked herself to invest in real money, not wanting to make secret money. At the same time, if she really lost money, she would admit it and would not complain.
Not only is she not greedy for money, she is also not greedy for comfort. She only bought a used car, which costs 40,000 yuan. She is perfectly capable of buying a better car, but she doesn't.
4. Stable emotions
Ouyang Xue's emotions are very stable and peaceful.
If you want to complain, she is the most qualified to complain. She could complain about her father, mother, stepmother and younger brother, tell others about her deep grudges and grudges. After three days and three nights, no one dared to say that she was pretentious, but when she told Ding Yuanying, she was faint, as if she was telling other people's stories, and it passed in a few words. She was not immersed in her own sadness and sadness, and only had a personal determination.
Ouyang Xue was embarrassed by Ding Yuanying at the Hongmen Banquet. Later, Rui Xiaodan and Ding Yuanying fell in love. She did not regret her recklessness. Things had already happened. She later mentioned drinking to Rui Xiaodan many times to apologize. However, Rui Xiaodan refused, so she let it go and did not worry about gains and losses.
Rui Xiaodan talked about Ding Yuanying’s previous story of working in private equity funds. Ouyang Xue was surprised and said, “Why haven’t you heard what you said? Rui Xiaodan said, does this matter have anything to do with us? She was just speechless and didn't get angry that she was offended by this, but saw that her friend's look was worth 200,000 yuan.
Someone said: A happy childhood can heal your life, and an unfortunate childhood needs to be healed in a lifetime. Ouyang Xue has crossed her unfortunate childhood, controlled her emotions steadily, and acted and looked at things calmly, becoming the master of emotions.
5. Be loyal
At the Hongmen Banquet, she kept increasing her meals, making it difficult for Ding Yuanying to check on her friend Rui Xiaodan, and wanted to test Ding Yuanying's character.
Similarly, Rui Xiaodan borrowed 200,000 from her father and lent it to Ding Yuanying as her margin for buying stocks. But she got the 200,000 yuan and bought the stock with her own 500,000 yuan. She didn't have to guarantee it, that is, if she lost, she would lose. If she made a profit, let Rui Xiaodan make money as well.
She is a loyal woman.
It is these five underlying logic that creates the amazing woman Ouyang Xue. The stocks designated by Ding Yuanying doubled her wealth; the victory of the company's lawsuit brought her wealth to a new level. But these wealth, which does not belong to her own core circle of competence, did not confuse her. She continued to deepen her career in the diet industry and strive to improve her ability in the diet industry.
I hope you and I can also master these underlying logics: (1) walk on narrow doors; (2) be brave; (3) not greedy; (4) be stable in emotions; (5) be loyal; earn life wealth belonging to our core circle of competence and be an independent and wealthy person.
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