Hot TV series "Rock Flower" ushered in its finale, and Penglai and Bai Tian, the mother and daughter who bothered each other, also gave an answer.
Penglai brain cancer occurred. During the day, I learned that Penglai had been following her through Da Cui, loved her across the ocean, and no longer hated Penglai.
Penglai fell into a dream after the operation. In the dream, she continued to pursue her dream of rock music and was full of energy. As the camera turned, she hugged her childhood during the day, and the two of them happily snuggled together forever, forever...
Mother's love for her children will never be missing. Even if she is late, it will be expressed in another form.
A study by American sociologist Maury Strauss shows that
Never conceals her need for Penglai's care for her during the day, but Penglai's love is deep, but he refuses to express it.
Both mother and daughter have very popular personalities. The accidents that happened one after another are hilarious, but they are in deep thought.
If your child is as sensitive and rebellious as during the day, how should he get along?
Parents should not miss their children's childhood
If the child lacks the love of his parents in childhood, it needs to be cured for a lifetime.
The reason why Penglai left the day in "Rock Flower" is not because he doesn't love her, but because she lacks care since childhood and vows to give everything for the day.
So when divorce is inevitable and choosing to be with her father during the day, she resolutely gave up the property and went to the United States alone, hiding her love in her heart.
Children are deeply dependent on their parents in their childhood, both physically and mentally. Once they are missing, the harm will hit their young hearts.
Survey shows that children with parents are often confident and sunny, while children who lack parents are often inferior and timid.
Not missing children's childhood is a basic requirement for parents.
However, many people go to other places for their lives, many people are busy with work, and many people cannot help themselves and cannot be with their children.
companionship cannot be done, so let love follow.
A phone, a video call, and a gift can make children feel the deep love of their parents, and hope can fill them in their hearts.
Respect and equality are the prerequisites for getting along
As children grow older, their self-awareness arises and they are increasingly eager to be treated equally. If their ideas are not respected, rebellion cannot be avoided.
During the day, she saw her mother Penglai who had not seen her for twelve years. Instead, she was not ecstatic. Instead, a basin of cold water was poured over. The two of them started to quarrel, and her rebellion was evident.
Children's rebellion is a manifestation of self-growth and needs to be faced with it.
It is unwise to argue with the child at this time. This will only make the child feel that his self-esteem is hurt and he will fight against the parents.
Mencius said:
Ancient people taught children not to blame too much, and treating children well is the way to get along.
Children who are respected and treated equally will not lose their temper for no reason, will not suppress their inner emotions, and the relationship between parents and children is harmonious and warm.
Let go appropriately
When children grow up, they will gradually get farther and farther away from their parents, and their self-awareness becomes stronger and stronger. At this time, it is still not feasible to just take care of everything about their children.
Once I saw a short video where parents pointed at their children's house, discussed whether their children had any little secrets, and even took out their children's notebook.
The father opposed looking at the child's notebook, and the couple put down the argument.
Children are not puppets of parents, nor are they marionettes in parents' hands. They are kites destined to fly into the sky. They need to be let go of their hands and let them fly freely.
Conclusion
Writer Haruki Murakami once said a passage in " Kafka by the sea":
TV series is over, but life in reality continues. Don't let your children walk on the road of rebellion, this will make them walk on the wrong path.
Choose the right way to communicate with them. When they get older, they will eventually find that their thoughts were ridiculous.
But parents should respect their thoughts at this moment, let go appropriately, give them company and love, and they will break out of the vicious circle of self-cognition errors and get along well with their parents.
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