Recently, Big S and her husband Gu Junye I heard that the sales are good. Some netizens complained that such a woman who is nearly 50 years old would have to take her new husband out to business after divorce, which really seems to be hard.
However, it is such a woman who lives what she should be.
Xu Xiyuan is the second child at home. When she was a teenager, she debuted in combination with her sister Xu Xidi, which is the familiar S.O.S. This is also the origin of S.
Da S has been a very opinionated and confident girl since she was a child.
often seems to be particularly lucky for girls like this.
It seems that it has been smooth sailing since its debut. Fame soared.
Even the younger sister Little S sometimes says "jealous" of her sister's luck. Because almost all good scripts and good characters come to Big S on their own initiative.
I think this may be related to her self-discipline and personality.
Since high school, she has been strictly controlling her weight and working hard to maintain her skin and hair.
is such a beauty king, but it is not very smooth on the road of love.
From Lan Zhenglong to Zhou Yumin , and then to Wang Xiaofei , every relationship between Big S is very devoted.
She never hides her emotional life in front of the media.
快乐 and natural.
After several relationships that ended without success, Big S resolutely married Wang Xiaofei, known as the four young masters in the capital.
From acquaintance to getting married, it is less than a month since the two met.
After marriage, the two of them were photographed secretly on social media or privately, they all looked very loving.
I am also sure that in the past ten years, the two have truly fallen in love.
Just like Big S said, some people have just met each other, but they seem to have known each other for a lifetime.
It can be seen how affectionate the two of them are.
After marriage, Wang Xiaofei also turned into a madman who spoiled his wife. Anyone who says Big S is not good on the Internet, he will immediately come out to argue.
The character of protecting a wife, pampering her, and loving her wife is deeply rooted in people's hearts.
However, it is such a man who claims to be eaten by Big S, who is frequently photographed cheating by the media.
From beginning to end, Big S did not come out to criticize or hammer Wang Xiaofei to death.
She was always calm and composed.
Wait until the day the fate was exhausted, and resolutely divorced.
From Big S, I learned three things.
1. Love, we must be able to take it and let it go
Many times, we are trapped in marriage or relationship and cannot extricate ourselves.
even if the other party is scarred, he is unwilling to leave.
Highly part of the reason is that we can't bear to leave the warmth we used to be. I can't bear to leave that sweet time.
so he got deeper and deeper, and he lost himself.
I have seen a post-marriage interview with Big S. She said she never checked Wang Xiaofei's computer or mobile phone.
The host asked her why.
She said:
"No need. What should happen will not happen just because you check it. If you check it, you will cause trouble. If love is destined to come to the end, it will naturally come to the end."
This free and easy spirit really makes me admire.
In life, there are many people who do not trust the other party, or are afraid of cheating, and they are suspicious all day long. They wish they would turn into detectives whenever they have the chance and check all the other party’s social media and activity trajectory.
so I live very tired.
Of course, some people want to live a clear life and don’t want to be deceived.
Love and marriage are like this, making people unable to stop.
Big S's marriage attitude makes me feel that , The tenacity of a woman is not necessarily reflected in her aggressiveness, but more because of her firmness, gentleness and strength in her heart.
2. When encountering misunderstandings, keep elegant
At the beginning of the divorce, public opinion was almost one-sided. They all accused Da S, the princess, the girl, look down on Beijing, etc.
From beginning to end, Big S has never come out to defend himself.
She always felt that it was easy for couples to get together and leave without any need to be unrecognizable. So that the people who are eating melons can watch the fun.
all the sadness and grievances were resolved silently by herself.
This has the headlines of the news at that time.
After divorce, eat truffle and don’t shout to stop.
I thought of a sentence: the pain of adults is automatically adjusted to the silent mode .
can tree want to be quiet but the wind does not stop.
The more silent she remains, the more she becomes the target of being attacked.
After the divorce battle between Wang Leehom and Li Jinglei .
People are used to seeing women's rise and tore the scumbag with merciless hands.
hysteria or angrily.
What the people who eat melons want to see is tearing each other. Reveal each other's old truths.
However, Big S does not have such a personality.
She has always been intellectual and free.
What's the use of both sides suffering?
What can be changed even if public opinion is biased towards oneself?
All that should have happened has happened.
It’s better to stand on tiptoe, look forward, and walk forward.
After all, I once loved it, so I will give you the last respect.
3. After being injured, she still believes in the power of love
After Da S and Gu Junye were married, public opinion once again pushed her to the forefront.
The divorce storm that could not be calmed down has caused waves because of the remarriage incident.
is still being scolded for being ruthless.
However, after Da S issued his marriage statement, he did not give too much explanation to the netizens' doubts.
She doesn't care about the public opinion that slanders her.
As long as it is something she thinks is right, she will do it without hesitation.
As for whether her relationship with Gu Junye is sincere and touching, we outsiders cannot know.
However, a woman who is divorced and who is nearly fifty years old still believes in love, which makes me admire her courage. I also appreciate this attitude towards life.
People are used to watching women sacrifice themselves for their children and compromise.
It seems that pursuing love after divorce is a disobedience, just restlessness.
Someone said, why bother, you are so old.
However, I think that no matter how old I am, as long as I have a bright heart, as long as I am financially independent, as long as I know how to control the importance of it, it is not too late to love.
Of course, the premise is that you must have a strong heart.
When facing the storms in life, you will not complain about yourself or blame others, but will be able to maintain a positive attitude to face life. Face the future bravely.
Because, the future is promising.
(Author Qiao Qiao loves reading and likes writing. Before writing online articles, she now prefers to use short articles to share her ideas and life. I hope my words can bring you a different sensory experience.)
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