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When mentioning Xu Qing, she always gives the impression of being gentle and dignified, with dimples on her face, which makes her a little sweeter.
Especially Ren Yingying, played by Xu Qing in "Swordsman and Proud Jianghu", not only performed Ren Yingying's fierce willfulness, but also showed Ren Yingying's tender side.
is also righteous and evil, crazy for love, she became the most beautiful Ren Yingying in the audience.
But who would have thought that Xu Qing, who originally played Ren Yingying, is now 51 years old and still unmarried.
A beauty like her, logically speaking, shouldn't be left, but this is the case.
Actually, Xu Qing also has a few love experiences.
In 1992, when Xu Qing and Wang Zhiwen were filming the TV series "Imperial City Roots", the two had a love affair, and then they made their love affair public. They were called the "golden boy and jade girl".
originally thought that this relationship will have a good development, but the sweet period of love is always short-lived, coming and going fast.
Two years later, when Wang Zhiwen left Beijing and returned to Shanghai, their relationship came to an abrupt end.
In 1998, Xu Qing met scholar Liu Bo when he took the filming of the film. The two came together, but the relationship lasted only 3 years, and the two broke up. After
, although Xu Qing also had a rumored boyfriend, they did not come together, which resulted in her 51-year-old still single.
Why are you single? It is because Xu Qing has her own deepest understanding of love.
Xu Qing’s view of love has not changed for twenty years: “ is either 100% or zero, there is no middle number.” If she wants to talk about love, she must make sure that the other person loves her, and she will be tempted. The other person's eyes read: "I love you" these three words.
Moreover, Xu Qing also said: In a relationship between the sexes, she will absolutely give each other freedom. It is very scary to have no freedom. Because it is a bondage to the other party. Before, she used to think that love is to worship herself, one must be one-to-one, and must be clean, but she now understands that such obsessions can hurt each other.
In the rest of her life, Xu Qing has been searching for the prince charming according to her mate selection criteria.
but has not been found, which leads to such a single situation.
In fact, people like Xu Qing have money, beauty, figure, and beauty. It is their own choice whether to marry or not.
Perhaps in the minds of some people, they will feel some guilty conscience for Xu Qing, thinking that she has such a good gene, if she does not get married and have no children, it will be a waste.
But this is just our thoughts. Xu Qing's thoughts are different from ours. We cannot use our thoughts to guess her.
In the world of celebrities, their lives are not just about getting married and having children, they also have careers.
And when they think about marriage, it is more complicated than we think about it.
Just like Yu Feihong, 50 years old, an immortal goddess, many people think that she is 50 years old and still not getting married because she is not married.
But in an interview, Yu Feihong denied this point of view, and first talked about the criteria for choosing a spouse: individuality is independent and can give each other independent space.
In Yu Feihong’s mind, she pursues a higher level. She pursues spiritual comfort and enjoyment. If that person appears, she will gladly accept it. If that person does not appear, she too She wouldn't be wronged for that kind of worldly success with someone she doesn't love, because she knows that it is a lifetime pain.
And Xu Qing is also the same, she is also looking for the person who fits her in the depths of the soul. If not found, she is aloneYou can also live well.
Xu Qing once said in an interview: " I used to think that my husband and child are home, but now I don’t think so. My home is on myself, so I’m so happy now. I know what I’m going to do. , I want to be a very good actor, I want to be a very good person, I want to give back to the society, I want to love the person I want to love and do what I want to do."
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In Xu Qing's body, there are still some complaints, such as princess disease, pretending to be tender, and girly.
Many people think that she is 50 years old, but she is still pretending to be tender, which is obviously not in line with her age.
Moreover, in participating in "Flowers and Boys", when asked whether this season was happy or last season, Xu Qing did not hesitate to say that it was the last season.
When asked why, she said that because the people in the previous season were normal, the implication was that there were abnormal people in this season, and this person is most likely Zheng Shuang.
Her attitude towards Zheng Shuang made many viewers dissatisfied. They felt that she was bullying Zheng Shuang by putting on airs. It was from that behavior that many people did not like Xu Qing.
Indeed, Xu Qing has her own fault in handling that matter, but it is her personality. If you like it, you like it. If you don’t like it, you don’t like it, and you won’t hide it. Instead, it will be shown through your own words and deeds.
If she dislikes someone in her heart, even if you make her smile as to whether she likes it or not, she probably can’t do it. People like Xu Qing are the least good at disguising.
Actually, people like Xu Qing are like us in real life. Both likes and dislikes are shown on the face. It is precisely because of her personality that while gaining praise, Also received some abuse.
But people are two-sided. You are not RMB. It is impossible for everyone to like you. As long as some people like you, that's fine.
Faced with the voices she didn't like, Xu Qing also accepted it and lived a thorough and clear life.
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The Xu Qing you see is not flattering, not flattering, nor arrogant. Everyone thinks that she seeks benevolence and benevolence, but they don't know how many glorious days there are in life, and there may be many rains and flowers, but she knows how to digest herself.
The most precious quality of a person's life is to be yourself. When you can be yourself, you will find that your life is full of endless joy.
American writer Debbie Ford once said: Instead of being a good person, it is better to be a complete person. To be a good person is to live half of yourself, and to be a complete person is to live out all the truth. Of yourself.
And Xu Qing, is such a free and easy woman, whether you like it or not, she is like this, she goes further and further on the road of pursuing herself.
Perhaps, pleasing yourself is a way of life in itself.
Today’s topic:
Do you like Xu Qing?
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