She is an excellent actor, and also a good wife, mother and daughter. Faced with her husband's cheating incident, her response made netizens say, "This is really a wise woman"! "It is easy to fall in love, but it is not easy to get married. Cherish it whenever you want!" immediately became the golden sentence of the Internet at that time. She chose to be tolerant and give opportunities because in her heart, she could not ruin the entire family just because of a mistake in husband .
Facing the cheating of the person on the pillow she trusts most, which woman is not sad, painful, and hysterical, but she did not choose to divorce immediately as everyone hoped, but chose to be tolerant and forgive the other party.
She said: "The most important thing for two people to be together is self-consciousness. If I do a good part of my wife, you should be a good part of your husband, then the marriage between the two of us will be better managed." is right. is precisely because she has her own rational understanding of marriage, so she will not follow the path that everyone expects and live as others hope, but as they want.
Whether she chooses to divorce or make peace, she sticks to her principles. Just like wearing shoes on your feet, only you know whether it fits or not, and the same is true for marriage. You know whether you are happy or not, and you don’t care about other people’s eyes. It is my own choice that I entrust to you.
so where can I get the confidence to have such a firm persistence and broad mind to forgive my cheating husband during my pregnancy?
She believes that being in her 40s is the golden period for women. Regardless of age, appearance and experience, they have experienced the ups and downs of life, and the hardships of life. They have gained valuable experiences and lessons, prompting her to continue to grow and strive to improve herself.
First of all, confidence comes from strength, not afraid of age or time.
Her successfully won everyone's love with her profound knowledge and solid acting skills. Say: "A solid cultural foundation will support people to go wider, farther and longer, and will become permanent competitiveness." When other actors are afraid of losing competitiveness due to aging, she feels that age and appearance are not obstacles to a "good actor". With strength and hard substrate, what can stop a person from moving forward?
Secondly, confidence comes from hard study and continuous growth.
In her career, she has been constantly making breakthroughs, bravely striving, and finally becoming an excellent "hero"; in life, she also knows clearly what she wants, learns to live for herself, and will not change her choices because of other people's opinions.
Women only please themselves and do not live to please others. They should love and struggle bravely and work hard, but remember to grow up and not become a stumbling block to others, otherwise they will be very passive.
movie "Money World" , as the movie China promotion ambassador, Ma Yili attended the movie press conference. At the meeting, Ma Yili wanted to talk to the protagonist. Everyone present at that time thought that the translator was about to come on the stage to help. did not expect that Ma Yili naturally took the microphone and started talking to Michelle in fluent English. She pronounced purely and used authentic words, and even served as the translator between the host and Michelle. Her English skills shocked everyone present!
Afterwards, a reporter interviewed Ma Yili and said, "As a first-line star, you should be very busy. I didn't expect to learn English so well!" She replied, "I am like women all over the world. I have to take into account work, family and children. I am actually very busy, but I never feel it is hard, because the more I want, the harder I have to work!"
Afterwards, an online media commented: Women should be like Ma Yili! With the courage to be willing to do something and the ability to show off, no matter what situation you are in, you can maintain the power to bloom beautifully alone.
Lu Yu once said: "A woman who keeps working hard will always maintain enough confidence and confidence, whether for herself, men, or the world!"
We suddenly understand: A capable woman is open-minded, free and fearless!
years have passed, cultivated internally and raised externally, and read thousands of sails, and still a graceful girl!
After 5 years of tolerance, the two finally put a stop to the siblings of .
The book "Happy Marriage" mentioned:
80% of divorced men and women believe that their marriage breaks down because they lose their intimacy. Only 20% to 27% of couples say that cheating is partly responsible for their divorce.
means that causes divorce problems often occur before cheating . That is: cheating is the result of problems with intimate relationships, not the beginning of problems with intimate relationships.
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