Venus once asked Yu Feihong : "You are 50 years old, why are you not married yet?" Yu Feihong smiled and said: "He refuses to marry me."
The man she was talking about was Dou Wentao, Jin Xing laughed at her and said: "He can't control you, so of course he doesn't dare to attack you."
Yu Feihong replied: "I didn't think of him as a man, and he didn't think of me as a woman."
Yu Feihong is an outstanding woman, why has he not married for so many years? Who does she love? What is the relationship with Dou Wentao?
01 He appeared on the screen and acted in "Bamboo" at the age of 8.
Yu Feihong was born in Hangzhou in 1971. His parents are both intellectuals.
Parents are full of expectations for their daughters. They hope that their daughters will have lofty ambitions and ideals.
It is quite meaningful to give her the name Yu Feihong.
has been strict with her since she was a child. She must not speak loudly, be polite to others, and cannot disobey what her parents say.
has been the sweetheart of her parents since she was a child. When she was 8 years old, her mother took her out shopping.
was discovered by a talent scout and invited to make a movie. Her mother took her daughter and left.
Later, talent scouts found their family through various channels and got her parents' job done.
successfully shot his first movie "Bamboo". Although it was his first time acting in a movie, the camera performance was good.
At the age of 16, he was selected by the director again in "The Coward and the Murderer".
Her parents were very strict with her education, and it was impossible for her to fall in love and fall in love prematurely while she was in school.
made movies twice, and she also fell in love with acting. She wanted to take the film school exam, but her parents stopped her and refused to allow her to take the exam.
She had no choice but to obey her parents and got admitted to the School of Foreign Languages of Hangzhou University.
After entering college, she was particularly resistant to learning foreign languages and decided to resist. Now her parents can't control her.
did what she said. Within a year, she dropped out of school and prepared to apply for Beijing Foreign Studies University.
She also made up her mind. No matter how much her parents stopped her, she would not listen to them.
As luck would have it, she contracted hepatitis A on the eve of the exam. She said she was going to be admitted to film school and wanted to review while undergoing treatment.
The doctor said: No, she can't review her homework during the treatment. He told her to take the exam next year and she won't be able to catch up this year.
She was stunned when she heard this. She was extremely anxious and uncomfortable.
When her parents asked her what was going on, she revealed her inner thoughts.
Her parents did not stop her this time. Instead, they sympathized with her and begged the doctor so that she could have a chance to take the exam.
She was successfully admitted to Nortel . Liu Yunlong, Shao Bin, Zhu Hongjia, and Xu Xin were her classmates. She devoted herself to studying, and many boys took the initiative to pursue her.
She became the beauty of the school, and she was given the nickname "Kitten."
She was as cute and cute as a cat. She was so pretty, the beauty among beauties, and boys all wanted to please her.
Because of her strict family upbringing, she didn’t want to fall in love. No matter when boys struck up a conversation or wrote love letters to her, she ignored them and focused on studying.
02 Her first love Liu Yunlong
A boy named Liu Yunlong wanted to pursue her, but he did not invite her to watch a movie or go out to play.
Instead, he studied with her and exchanged ideas on performance. The two rehearsed together in the rehearsal room, learned from each other, asked each other for advice, and sometimes had meals together.
Later, Yu Feihong developed a liking for him, and the two became close.
Liu Yunlong announced loudly:
His girlfriend is the school beauty Yu Feihong. Other boys please stop. The classmates also congratulated them.
The two of them were very close. Once when she was sick, Liu Yunlong rushed to take care of her, but she drove her away. She said: "You are busy with your business, I don't need anyone to take care of me, I will take care of myself."
She is a self-reliant girl, very independent.
Later, Yu Feihong went abroad to study, and their love ended without any problems.
Liu Yunlong later married Xu Xin and devoted herself to being the woman behind him. Liu Yunlong also acted in movies, worked as a director, opened a company, and was a boss, and became a winner in life.
After Yu Feihong and Liu Yunlong broke up, he devoted all his energy to studying and rejected the pursuit of all boys.
In 1992, when he was a junior in college, Yu Feihong joined the "Joy Luck Club" filmed by American director Wang Ying on the recommendation of his teacher.
She went abroad to see the world. After the filming of the movie, because she had not completed her studies, she flew back to Beijing to continue her studies. After
graduated, she had a place to stay in school as a teacher. Unexpectedly, she went abroad after teaching for one year.
She felt that there was a lot to learn, and she spent three years abroad.
03 "Hand in Hand" made her an instant hit.
Both her professional knowledge and acting skills have improved a lot. As soon as she returned to China, she was invited to participate in "Hand in Hand" to play the role of "Little Three Wang Chun", which made her an instant hit. She is not only beautiful, but also has good acting skills.
After that, she had more film appointments. In 1999, Yuan Heping directed "Little Li Fei Dao" and invited her to star in Jinghong Fairy. Wang Shuo was also a man who admired her very much.
It is said that this is a role specially designed for her by Wang Shuo, and the movie became a great success after its release.
Her reputation as the "Fairy of Jinghong" greatly increased her popularity. "After the Feihong, there will be no more Jinghong." She was grateful to Wang Shuo.
and Wang Shuo became good friends. The two often gathered and chatted together, and she had the idea of becoming a director.
Yu Feihong and Wang Shuo talked about a book "Ginkgo, Ginkgo" that she liked very much.
Wang Shuo understood it and adapted the script for her, under her guidance.
Yu Feihong bought the copyright of the novel, which was also adapted into the TV series "Love Has an Afterlife".
Wang Shuo helped her a lot, from the adaptation to the final release.
Because it was the first time to make a movie, it also went through ups and downs. It encountered many difficulties, including raising investment and finding a crew. After
started filming, her financial chain broke again, and she mortgaged her house and car.
wears many hats in one person, including director, starring role, and screenwriter. It was not officially released until 2009. Although
received good reviews, because it was too literary and not a commercial film, the ratings were dismal and the cost was not recovered. It won the Best Drama Award.
04 The two men respected her but did not dare to pursue her.
During this period, Wang Shuo gave her a lot of help and support, but nothing happened between her and Wang Shuo.
Yu Feihong was moved and said: "Wang Shuo is a kind-hearted person to the core. I respect him very much."
Wang Shuo felt that he was not worthy of her and said: "Yu Feihong can only watch from a distance, not play with her."
In people's impression, her best friend who was rumored to be Dou Wentao.
She and Dou Wentao met on a program. Dou Wentao was immediately attracted by her temperament and was full of expectations and affection for her.
The two also became friends who talked about everything. Dou Wentao, as a well-known host, is eloquent.
is very supportive of Yu Feihong's work and often promotes her movies. People have rumors that the two are lovers.
Someone photographed Yu Feihong and Dou Wentao returning to the villa together, and people thought they were in love.
Dou Wentao once admitted that he knew Yu Feihong's life very well, and he even knew how many pairs of socks were in the drawer.
People thought they were partners and asked when they would get married.
In a program, Venus asked Yu Feihong: "You are 50 years old, why are you not married yet?"
Yu Feihong laughed: "I also want to get married, but Dou Wentao won't marry me."
Venus teased her: "He doesn't dare to attack you, it must be because of him I can't control you."
Yu Feihong said: "I didn't think of him as a man, and he didn't think of me as a woman."
Dou Wentao once said: "Every time I fall in love, Yu Feihong is with me."
When Yu Feihong is worried, he will go to Dou Wentao to talk to him.
Dou Wentao said: "I look up to Yu Feihong like a mountain and aim at perfection. She stayed with me when I was broken up."
Yu Feihong said frankly in a program when asked by Venus: " There is a boyfriend who has a good relationship, but the two of them have never thought about getting married. "
The writer Xu Zhiyuan also asked Yu Feihong in a program, why not get married?
05 Frankly, having a fixed partner, marriage is not a necessity.
Yu Feihong admitted frankly: "I have a fixed partner, but marriage depends on fate, let it take its course."
As for Yu Feihong not getting married, but having a fixed partner, she refused to reveal the identity of her partner.
Just because she is not married does not mean that she does not have her own personal life. She once said: My spiritual world is rich, and some men are single for a long time. Is it abnormal for a woman to be single? "
Yu Feihong would think that although some couples are in marriage, there is no communication of hearts and minds. Such marriages are worse than being single.
In a program, she said: "I am not single or anti-marriage, but marriage is not a necessity for me, and it is not something that needs to be done at any age. "
wrote at the end:
This is how she views love: "In fact, love is not the only thing that can enrich a person's life. Apart from love, there is also family affection and friendship. But I will always have the purest and simplest attitude towards love. "
She has a thorough understanding of love. She likes the kind of free life, where no one limits herself, no one cares about herself, and she can do whatever she wants.
will not be constrained by her freedom by marriage. For women, falling in love, getting married, and having children are not things she has to do.
She has no plans to get married, but she does not refuse to have a fixed partner. Being in love without getting married is also a choice for her.
She is a successful woman. A woman lives her own happiness, and I don’t know how many little girls envy her and worship her.
A woman is 51 years old, she has seen through everything, and lives a very transparent life. She has no family or children, but she can still live happily and happily, which is admirable. #See each other in the headlines##2022 Vitality Conference##Entertainment Review Awards#
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