2 years ago, the eldest daughter of Li Ao (famous writer) publicly complained that Wang Xiaofei had bad breath, which caused a lot of controversy on the Internet.
Before Wang Xiaofei could speak, Li Ao re-shot:
There are so many stenches in the world, she doesn't smell it, but she just smells his bad breath.
The father and daughter sang together and made Wang Xiaofei embarrassed, and they were even more angry. They got into trouble directly, pointing out that Li Ao's daughter is a woman who is unwilling to be lonely and wants to hype.
, the two families formed a gangster, and Li Ao even criticized Wang Xiaofei's marriage with big S when he saw the opportunity.
In the show, Li Ao said bluntly that the actress would not end up marrying a wealthy family, especially families like Big S and Wang Xiaofei, which have two strong mothers at home, and they did not have a peaceful life. He also advised Big S to put the money in his pocket as soon as possible.
At that time, Big S and Wang Xiaofei were not long after they got married, and were still immersed in love and enjoying the days when they were held in their hands by Wang Xiaofei. How could they care about Li Ao’s words?
But 12 years later, Big S realized how important the sentence "hold money in your pocket" is.
When marriage, let Wang Xiaofei buy a luxury house and make Wang Xiaofei write an IOU. After divorce, he will spend his money crazily. He would rather bear the infamy than "suck blood" wildly.
Starting from the mattress battle, all Li Ao said at the beginning:
The love-hate entanglement between female celebrities and wealthy families, the quarrel between mother-in-law and mother, the "fight" between reputation and money...
At this time, Big S may really understand Li Ao's words: The grudges of wealthy families are very interesting, and it is difficult to grow old together.
Li Ao's words are extremely realistic, although every sentence is thorny and unpleasant.
Female stars and wealthy families are not as glorious as they appear, but Big S uses his personal experience to let the majority of melon-eating people see the embarrassment behind this.
And she can go from being a powerful female star to ending up in a mess and become a "snatching girl". She can't help but think of the sentence from Guo Degang :
Two people are together, and the most important thing is to be a good match.
01 When he is in a marriage, he realizes the importance of being a good match
Before Guo Degang firmly believed that the joy of two lives is the basis of marriage, but after years of baptism, he felt that being a good match was the long-term truth.
Only when you are in marriage can you truly realize the deep meaning of the four words "family match".
On the surface, Big S is beautiful, Wang Xiaofei is rich, and a talented man and a beautiful woman are not good.
But in fact, beauty and financial resources are not equal matches. The same values, similar living environment, and similar life experience are equal matches.
It is too superficial based on appearance and financial resources.
For example, Zhou Runfa will refuse a group of beauties to marry her unsightly Chen Huilian . What they like is Chen Huilian's talent and gentleness. The two have been together for so many years because they are pursuing the same things in their hearts.
and Gu Juji . He looks handsome and rich, but he doesn't marry a beautiful woman. Instead, he married his own assistant, which is enough to prove that marriage can last longer not only depend on appearance and financial resources.
There is a saying in Jane Eyre:
Love is a game, and you must always be in equal terms with the other party and be evenly matched in order to stay in this way.
is equal and evenly matched, and after all, it is still a match.
Obviously, the balance in Da S and Wang Xiaofei's marriage is becoming more and more tilted.
In life experience, a young man and a desperate three-wife.
In terms of living environment, a rich second generation who is mixed in business circles and a female star who is mixed in entertainment circles.
In terms of consumption concept, one vows to become an entrepreneur and be his own boss, and the other is materialistic and spends a lot of money on packaging noble ladies.
In dealing with people, one has a low emotional intelligence and the other has a calm and means.
two people seem to be a match, but if you look deeper, you will receive different education, different life experiences, different pursuits in life, and what is left after the passion is a mess.
Wang Xiaofei was not born as a rich second generation, and Big S was not born as a star, but the former had a strong woman who dared to make a fuss, while the latter had a good face.
Wang Xiaofei falls in love with Big S's skin, and Big S falls in love with Wang Xiaofei's wallet, saying that she fell in love at first sight and got married 20 days after they met. In fact, it is difficult to get married quickly if you remove any money or skin.
After the passion, you will find that Wang Xiaofei needs a good wife who will accompany her to start a business, while Big S only hopes to live at her own pace, and the two of them are getting farther and farther away.
Neither Li Ao nor Guo Degang said it was wrong. The wealthy family and female stars cannot last long, and it is a bad match.
However, a good match is not just about the two people who combine, but also about whether the basic values of the two families are consistent.
Obviously, the parents of the S family and the Wang family are not on the same level.
S dad prefers boys over girls and does not pay attention to family. After sending his daughter to his debut, she lives a pampered life and relies entirely on her daughter and son-in-law to make money to support herself.
Zhang Lan, when she was young, made a South Beauty, but she still didn't accept her old age after experiencing strong storms. Now she is 64 years old and has more motivation than young people.
One is to pin your hopes on your daughter, and the other is to create miracles with yourself. The values of the two parties are different.
Chinese-style marriage is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families. Values depend on whether the two families are consistent.
02 Marrying into a wealthy family is as deep as the sea, how many people are truly happy?
In the TV series " Golden Years ", Jiang Nansun and Zhang Anren interpret the consequences of being inappropriate and being forced to be together.
Jiang Nansun, a wealthy family is held in the palm of her parents. She has no idea about money and pays more attention to spiritual pursuit.
Chapter An Ren, ordinary people in small cities have been worried about money since childhood, and when they grow up, they value money and interests more, and even use any means to get everything they want.
Jiang Nansun still fell in love with Zhang Anren when his family background, growth experience and values were different.
But the result is that Jiang Nansun wants to change his lifestyle for Zhang Anren's values, leave the high-end steak restaurant and go to the school cafeteria to eat fast food, and reduce the frequency of staying in a hotel to do SPA.
Zhang Anren deceiving Jiang Nansun for his so-called face, causing each other to feel a grudge and gradually drift away.
Children from wealthy families are not only different in terms of values, but also in terms of living habits and people's behaviors.
All Jiang family members, including Jiang Nansun, are refined. The food on a table is different every day. Even the dishes on are of particular importance. They don’t look down on houses in suburban in Shanghai.
Kezhang Anren, being able to eat the canteen every day is happiness, and having a small house in the suburbs of Shanghai is to shine on the family.
In dealing with people, Jiang Nansun received education that "if people offend me, I will pursue it", while Zhang Anren received education that "can't afford to offend me."
Jiang Nansun has the confidence to speak out, but Zhang Anren has the confidence to do so?
On the surface, Jiang Nansun is beautiful, Zhang Anren is excellent, and a talented man and a beautiful woman are very good.
In fact, has different circles, and they can't even blend in.
Isn’t it the same for women who marry into wealthy families in reality?
It seems that you can enjoy a happy life by marrying into a wealthy family, but in fact, they only know the pain in it.
For example, after marrying gambling king , the scenery is just for outsiders to see.
html Liang Anqi, who made money to support her family at the age of 113, was just a dancer who was worried about her livelihood and worked four jobs a day. After the dance became a lover, she brought wealth and honor, accompanied by ridicule.
In 2011, the gambling king Ho Hongshen encountered two major problems, one was that his family was competing for property, and the other was that his brothers and sisters were blocking the company's listing.
In order to help Stanley Ho’s company go public and to consolidate his position in a wealthy family, Liang Anqi personally attended the reception and accompanied the bigwigs from all walks of life with a smile.
After a drink, Liang Anqi was served by countless pairs of eyes and slandered by countless sarcasm, but she still begs everyone to buy company stock .
After the dinner, Liang Anqi could no longer hold it back and squatted on the side of the road and cried. She didn't dare to go home until she vented her emotions, for fear of being seen by Stanley Ho.
The life of a wealthy family is intriguing, and the shopping mall is like a battlefield, but if you want to gain a foothold, you have to keep making efforts.
includes Liang Anqi's daughter-in-law Xi Mengyao . After marrying into a wealthy family, there were fewer children and many more children. The mother became "Concubine Xi" based on her son's honor.
But in comparison, Xi Mengyao is still lucky. After all, she doesn’t have to participate in family internal strife. Her husband is handsome and has no scandals, and her mother-in-law likes her.
, but Zhang Jiani, who also married into a wealthy family, was not so lucky. She gave birth to two boys and had not waited for a wedding. She did not wait for her mother-in-law to approve her, but for news of her husband's cheating.
includes Fang Yuan . From a little internet celebrity to the current wife of the king, it is enviable that money is not a worry about.
But is bright and beautiful for outsiders, and the sadness is left to yourself.
Once a passerby met August Kwok and Fang Yuan went shopping with Fang Yuan. Fang Yuan repeatedly hinted that the other party paid the bill, but Aaron Kwok asked her to leave directly.
Not only that, Aaron Kwok also asked Fang Yuan to sit in economy class and sit in first class upside down.
Even in a special period, Fang Yuan took her children to economy class.
Guo Biting , who also married into a wealthy family, was exposed to cheating after three years of marriage.
marries into a wealthy family Liu Tao . He paid off his husband's debts shortly after getting married. On the day of delivery, her husband Wang Ke fell to the ground and foamed at the mouth because of excessive medication.
As Li Ao said, the grudges between female celebrities and wealthy families will last forever, and it is the most difficult to grow old together.
They seem to be well-matched, but they are actually not in the same circle at all. In the end, they either leave or continue to merge in a strong manner. No matter which one is a torture.
03 You still need to be strong yourself. If you want to marry into a wealthy family, you have to become a "wealthy family" first
Big S wants to marry into a wealthy family. Wang Xiaofei wants to marry into a wealthy family. Unfortunately, it is difficult to walk on a wealthy family and difficult to control a female star.
Whether it is Big S or other female stars, If you want to marry a wealthy family, you have to turn yourself into a "wealthy family". This "wealthy family" is not the amount of money, but the pattern, vision and its own strength.
Because the best match is not money, but a competition of comprehensive strength.
is like marrying Ho Qigang Guo Jingjing , one is a wealthy family, the other is an athlete, one is a businessman, one is a body, one is a movement, and one is still.
The two seem to be from two worlds, but Ho Qigang pursues Guo Jingjing relentlessly and eventually enters the palace of marriage and has been in love for more than ten years.
This is Guo Jingjing's strength, not based on her appearance or family background, but on her own achievements and general personality, as well as the same values as Huo Qigang.
After marrying into a wealthy family, she did not buy luxury goods like Big S, but was as simple as usual, which is also the reason why Ho Kit-gang loves her.
Secondly, although the two have different backgrounds, their experiences are similar.
Guo Jingjing has been training in the team since she was a child. Without parents' care, she can only take care of herself. She has to do everything herself, and over time, she becomes independent.
After Huo Qigang graduated from the sixth grade, he went to the UK to study. He had to make himself independent as he was far away from overseas. Even a wealthy young man was quite down-to-earth.
So after getting married, they are often photographed living a down-to-earth life like ordinary people, which is very different from the rich and wealthy grandmothers in their impression.
Simple, simple, and a person who lives a life. Guo Jingjing is as rich as Huo Qigang, so she can naturally go long.
If you want to marry into a wealthy family, you must first make yourself rich, instead of squandering yourself after marrying into a wealthy family by relying on your appearance, or always compromise for the so-called glamorousness. Only a love that is evenly matched can last for a long time.
Big S and Wang Xiaofei seem to be on the same journey, but in fact they live in two worlds, including their families, all living completely different lives.
Such a bad family is wrong, breaking up may be inevitable. Why didn’t Li Ao and Guo Degang see through life?
two people seem to be a match, but if you look deeper, you will receive different education, different life experiences, different pursuits in life, and what is left after the passion is a mess.
Wang Xiaofei was not born as a rich second generation, and Big S was not born as a star, but the former had a strong woman who dared to make a fuss, while the latter had a good face.
Wang Xiaofei falls in love with Big S's skin, and Big S falls in love with Wang Xiaofei's wallet, saying that she fell in love at first sight and got married 20 days after they met. In fact, it is difficult to get married quickly if you remove any money or skin.
After the passion, you will find that Wang Xiaofei needs a good wife who will accompany her to start a business, while Big S only hopes to live at her own pace, and the two of them are getting farther and farther away.
Neither Li Ao nor Guo Degang said it was wrong. The wealthy family and female stars cannot last long, and it is a bad match.
However, a good match is not just about the two people who combine, but also about whether the basic values of the two families are consistent.
Obviously, the parents of the S family and the Wang family are not on the same level.
S dad prefers boys over girls and does not pay attention to family. After sending his daughter to his debut, she lives a pampered life and relies entirely on her daughter and son-in-law to make money to support herself.
Zhang Lan, when she was young, made a South Beauty, but she still didn't accept her old age after experiencing strong storms. Now she is 64 years old and has more motivation than young people.
One is to pin your hopes on your daughter, and the other is to create miracles with yourself. The values of the two parties are different.
Chinese-style marriage is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families. Values depend on whether the two families are consistent.
02 Marrying into a wealthy family is as deep as the sea, how many people are truly happy?
In the TV series " Golden Years ", Jiang Nansun and Zhang Anren interpret the consequences of being inappropriate and being forced to be together.
Jiang Nansun, a wealthy family is held in the palm of her parents. She has no idea about money and pays more attention to spiritual pursuit.
Chapter An Ren, ordinary people in small cities have been worried about money since childhood, and when they grow up, they value money and interests more, and even use any means to get everything they want.
Jiang Nansun still fell in love with Zhang Anren when his family background, growth experience and values were different.
But the result is that Jiang Nansun wants to change his lifestyle for Zhang Anren's values, leave the high-end steak restaurant and go to the school cafeteria to eat fast food, and reduce the frequency of staying in a hotel to do SPA.
Zhang Anren deceiving Jiang Nansun for his so-called face, causing each other to feel a grudge and gradually drift away.
Children from wealthy families are not only different in terms of values, but also in terms of living habits and people's behaviors.
All Jiang family members, including Jiang Nansun, are refined. The food on a table is different every day. Even the dishes on are of particular importance. They don’t look down on houses in suburban in Shanghai.
Kezhang Anren, being able to eat the canteen every day is happiness, and having a small house in the suburbs of Shanghai is to shine on the family.
In dealing with people, Jiang Nansun received education that "if people offend me, I will pursue it", while Zhang Anren received education that "can't afford to offend me."
Jiang Nansun has the confidence to speak out, but Zhang Anren has the confidence to do so?
On the surface, Jiang Nansun is beautiful, Zhang Anren is excellent, and a talented man and a beautiful woman are very good.
In fact, has different circles, and they can't even blend in.
Isn’t it the same for women who marry into wealthy families in reality?
It seems that you can enjoy a happy life by marrying into a wealthy family, but in fact, they only know the pain in it.
For example, after marrying gambling king , the scenery is just for outsiders to see.
html Liang Anqi, who made money to support her family at the age of 113, was just a dancer who was worried about her livelihood and worked four jobs a day. After the dance became a lover, she brought wealth and honor, accompanied by ridicule.
In 2011, the gambling king Ho Hongshen encountered two major problems, one was that his family was competing for property, and the other was that his brothers and sisters were blocking the company's listing.
In order to help Stanley Ho’s company go public and to consolidate his position in a wealthy family, Liang Anqi personally attended the reception and accompanied the bigwigs from all walks of life with a smile.
After a drink, Liang Anqi was served by countless pairs of eyes and slandered by countless sarcasm, but she still begs everyone to buy company stock .
After the dinner, Liang Anqi could no longer hold it back and squatted on the side of the road and cried. She didn't dare to go home until she vented her emotions, for fear of being seen by Stanley Ho.
The life of a wealthy family is intriguing, and the shopping mall is like a battlefield, but if you want to gain a foothold, you have to keep making efforts.
includes Liang Anqi's daughter-in-law Xi Mengyao . After marrying into a wealthy family, there were fewer children and many more children. The mother became "Concubine Xi" based on her son's honor.
But in comparison, Xi Mengyao is still lucky. After all, she doesn’t have to participate in family internal strife. Her husband is handsome and has no scandals, and her mother-in-law likes her.
, but Zhang Jiani, who also married into a wealthy family, was not so lucky. She gave birth to two boys and had not waited for a wedding. She did not wait for her mother-in-law to approve her, but for news of her husband's cheating.
includes Fang Yuan . From a little internet celebrity to the current wife of the king, it is enviable that money is not a worry about.
But is bright and beautiful for outsiders, and the sadness is left to yourself.
Once a passerby met August Kwok and Fang Yuan went shopping with Fang Yuan. Fang Yuan repeatedly hinted that the other party paid the bill, but Aaron Kwok asked her to leave directly.
Not only that, Aaron Kwok also asked Fang Yuan to sit in economy class and sit in first class upside down.
Even in a special period, Fang Yuan took her children to economy class.
Guo Biting , who also married into a wealthy family, was exposed to cheating after three years of marriage.
marries into a wealthy family Liu Tao . He paid off his husband's debts shortly after getting married. On the day of delivery, her husband Wang Ke fell to the ground and foamed at the mouth because of excessive medication.
As Li Ao said, the grudges between female celebrities and wealthy families will last forever, and it is the most difficult to grow old together.
They seem to be well-matched, but they are actually not in the same circle at all. In the end, they either leave or continue to merge in a strong manner. No matter which one is a torture.
03 You still need to be strong yourself. If you want to marry into a wealthy family, you have to become a "wealthy family" first
Big S wants to marry into a wealthy family. Wang Xiaofei wants to marry into a wealthy family. Unfortunately, it is difficult to walk on a wealthy family and difficult to control a female star.
Whether it is Big S or other female stars, If you want to marry a wealthy family, you have to turn yourself into a "wealthy family". This "wealthy family" is not the amount of money, but the pattern, vision and its own strength.
Because the best match is not money, but a competition of comprehensive strength.
is like marrying Ho Qigang Guo Jingjing , one is a wealthy family, the other is an athlete, one is a businessman, one is a body, one is a movement, and one is still.
The two seem to be from two worlds, but Ho Qigang pursues Guo Jingjing relentlessly and eventually enters the palace of marriage and has been in love for more than ten years.
This is Guo Jingjing's strength, not based on her appearance or family background, but on her own achievements and general personality, as well as the same values as Huo Qigang.
After marrying into a wealthy family, she did not buy luxury goods like Big S, but was as simple as usual, which is also the reason why Ho Kit-gang loves her.
Secondly, although the two have different backgrounds, their experiences are similar.
Guo Jingjing has been training in the team since she was a child. Without parents' care, she can only take care of herself. She has to do everything herself, and over time, she becomes independent.
After Huo Qigang graduated from the sixth grade, he went to the UK to study. He had to make himself independent as he was far away from overseas. Even a wealthy young man was quite down-to-earth.
So after getting married, they are often photographed living a down-to-earth life like ordinary people, which is very different from the rich and wealthy grandmothers in their impression.
Simple, simple, and a person who lives a life. Guo Jingjing is as rich as Huo Qigang, so she can naturally go long.
If you want to marry into a wealthy family, you must first make yourself rich, instead of squandering yourself after marrying into a wealthy family by relying on your appearance, or always compromise for the so-called glamorousness. Only a love that is evenly matched can last for a long time.
Big S and Wang Xiaofei seem to be on the same journey, but in fact they live in two worlds, including their families, all living completely different lives.
Such a bad family is wrong, breaking up may be inevitable. Why didn’t Li Ao and Guo Degang see through life?
