"Let's get divorced, I've met true love."
Huang Qiuyan , who is to be born in the United States, sat on the ground and collapsed and cried after hearing the call from her husband Jet Li .
She kept slapping her belly, unable to believe that her husband could say such cold words when she was pregnant.
Because of deep love, Huang Qiuyan finally chose to fulfill her.
In 1991, she and Jet Li officially completed the divorce procedures.
Jet Li, who "regained his freedom", publicized in front of the media how much he loves Lizhi .
"I love her, I can die for her, I can do not have fame or profit, and I can ruin all my future now."
Jet Li's love for Li Zhi is, the greater the harm it will cause to Huang Qiuyan and his two daughters.
Sure enough, love and friendship are no match for a thousand pounds of chest.
Two daughters were fostered at grandma's house. They witnessed their father Jet Li remarriage and have children, and also witnessed their mother Huang Qiuyan's 10-year basement life.
And they have become "left-behind children".
The eldest daughter Li Si recalled with tears when she grew up: "Why should I be Jet Li's daughter?"
They all say that children from poor families were early on,
Jet Li was from a poor family when he was a child, and there were two sisters and two brothers on him.
Father Li Qingquan is a technical worker at the TV station. After the meager income earned every month to subsidize the household income, there are very few left.
Mother is a full-time housewife who takes care of the children and in-laws' daily life at home.
hemp rope is specially designed to break in fine places, and bad luck is special to challenge people who are destined to suffer.
When Jet Li was 2 years old, his father was taken away by an accident.
The fall of the pillar means that the mother must assume the responsibility of supporting the family.
Mother came to the bus company and applied for a job as a ticket seller.
Tickets will raise Jet Li with great difficulty.
Influenced by the original family, Jet Li is introverted and inferior.
But in his heart, he always had ambition to turn his destiny around.
1971, 8-year-old Jet Li studied at Beijing Changqiao Primary School.
Because he was obedient, he was selected by the teacher to lead his classmates to do morning exercises.
One day, Yu Bin, a coach at Beijing Shichahai Martial Arts School, saw Jet Li, thought that the child had martial arts talent, so he wanted to accept him as his apprentice.
From then on, Jet Li officially began his martial arts career.
He is introverted and is unwilling to make friends with other companions in the martial arts school. He is the only one in the martial arts school.
Senior sister Huang Qiuyan, who is 2 years older than him, noticed him and began to take the initiative to make friends with him, trying to integrate him into the group.
Not only that, after Huang Qiuyan learned about Jet Li’s situation from her master, she also extended a helping hand in life.
She invites Jet Li to go home for dinner every day and reminds her parents to make delicious food to entertain Jet Li.
When I saw my junior brother covering up and trying to block the ladies' clothes on his body, Huang Qiuyan would also ask her parents to buy a suited autumn clothes and pants for the junior brother.
with such care, the parents will definitely be suspicious, and Huang Qiuyan can only explain: "My junior brother's mother wants to take care of 5 children. You only have to take care of me. His family is in trouble, so I want to help him."
Seeing his daughter so kind, the parents were very moved and were happy to help Li's mother take care of Jet Li.
Jet Li has greatly improved his quality of life under the care of Huang Qiuyan and her parents.
He also practices martial arts very hard, just to make his mother live a good life one day and to repay his senior sister's help.
After practicing martial arts for 9 years at Shichahai Martial Arts School, he finally ushered in a turning point in his life.
1980, Jet Li was invited by the director Zhang Xinyan to shoot the movie " Shaolin Temple ".
He plays the righteous and brave monk "Jueyuan" in the movie.
This movie has been filmed for 2 years. When Jet Li was shooting the last scene of the movie, due to the high difficulty coefficient, the ligament of the right leg, the two cruciate ligaments and meniscus ligaments were all broken.
was sent to the hospital for more than 7 hours of surgery, and he also obtained the national third-level disability certificate.
When the movie is released, the price of a movie ticket is one cent. With such a low ticket price of
, it actually won a box office of 160 million yuan, which stunned many filmmakers.
This move broke the record for the highest top-selling martial arts films in Hong Kong.
Jet Li also became famous at home and abroad.
At that time, he was still lying in the hospital for treatment, and Huang Qiuyan was by his side taking care of him.
Jet Li looked at Huang Qiuyan who was considerate and kind in front of him, and he felt admiration in his heart. Then he confessed to the other party and the two came together.
But does Jet Li like Huang Qiuyan, or is the other party’s care that makes him feel excited?
Jet Li proved with practical actions that he is just the second type.
When the passion faded, he gradually thought of breaking up.
But his career is in a period of rising, so people can't think that he broke up with Huang Qiuyan because he became rich.
"That girl is nice to me and takes care of me often. At that time, I was not sure what love is. After I became famous, I also thought about whether it is a pity to break up with someone, so I wanted her to become successful. At that time, it would not be me who dumped you if I became famous, but you also succeeded."
With this idea in mind, Jet Li found director Zhang Xinyan and suggested that Huang Qiuyan play the heroine in the second part.
1982, after the filming of the movie " Shaolin Boy ", Huang Qiuyan played the heroine "Sanfeng" in the play.
Then he filmed the movie " North and South Shaolin ". Huang Qiuyan has indeed gained a certain reputation in the entertainment industry.
At that time, many people were asking about the relationship between the two, but she was always unwilling to speak out for fear of affecting her boyfriend's career.
When filming "North and South Shaolin", Jet Li was injured again.
His spine was dislocated, his back muscles were severely strained, and his fifth lumbar vertebrae was cracked.
So he lay on the hospital bed again, and Huang Qiuyan was still taking care of him by his side.
Huang Qiuyan prepares nutritious meals at home every day, and then sends them to the hospital and feeds them bite by bit.
, she did all kinds of work such as hot water, pouring urine pot, etc., day after day without any complaints.
In addition, she will also mentor her junior brother in case he falls into negative emotions.
With her care and company, Jet Li's health gradually improved.
Looking at Huang Qiuyan who was busy with herself, Jet Li began to reflect on herself: "How many women can there be in the world who are good to me? She is more close to me than her family, and she does not ask for any reward. I am still thinking about breaking up. I am really too sinful. I should marry her into the house and love her well."
At this important node, Jet Li took back his heart to break up and instead proposed the idea of getting married.
Later he also admitted that a large part of the reason for marrying Huang Qiuyan was because of repaying kindness, not really liked from the bottom of his heart.
Huang Qiuyan didn't know this, she just wanted to develop naturally.
"As long as you are with him, you will be quite happy because he has a good personality and get along well."
How could she understand "I am in love but my husband is unintentional" at this time.
Wishful love is destined to have no good result.
1987, the two registered to get married.
did not notify relatives and friends, no banquet, no dress and wedding dress, only Huang Qiuyan's wishful thinking.
After marriage, she and Jet Li live in the old house of the Li family. They live in the inner room and Li's mother lives in the outer room.
The whole house is only a small 20 square meters.
Huang Qiuyan no longer concentrates on her career, but focuses on taking care of her husband and Li’s mother and being his virtuous support.
For the sake of her family, she even turned down the invitation to "Journey to the West".
Tsui Hark directors have felt sorry for her: "If her focus is not on her family, she will be one of the best kung fu stars in China."
and Jet Li have been practicing martial arts for many years, but Huang Qiuyan's strength is not inferior to her husband.
When she was determined to return to her family, Jet Li's career began to decline.
, who was unable to receive good resources for the time being, decided to go to the United States for a while.
In 1988, Huang Qiuyan, who was pregnant with Liujia, came to the United States with Jet Li.
They used most of their savings to buy a villa in the suburbs.
Jet Li goes out to find employment opportunities, while Huang Qiuyan takes care of housework at home.
She can't speak English, which means she has completely lost social interaction in the United States, but she doesn't mind.
What Huang Qiuyan expects every day is that her husband will go home and then lie quietly in her husband's arms.
In the same year, the eldest daughter Li Si was born.
Li Si brought a little happiness to this family, and also added a lot of pressure to Jet Li.
He has no stable source of income and must find a way to make money to support the family.
As the expenses become greater and greater, Jet Li still has not found a suitable job, and the gray hair on his head is also increasing at a speed visible to the naked eye.
Huang Qiuyan couldn't bear it, so she tentatively persuaded: "If you still go back to Hong Kong to develop, you might encounter new opportunities."
Jet Li decided to return to Hong Kong after hearing his wife's words.
But Huang Qiuyan is pregnant again, which also means she can only stay for delivery.
"It's okay, don't worry about me. I will take good care of my daughter and the baby in our belly here. You can go back with peace of mind."
Huang Qiuyan was still comforting Jet Li,
At this time, she never thought that she would indirectly promote the encounter between her husband and Li Zhi.
In 1989, Jet Li returned to Hong Kong.
After learning that he had returned to China, his friend invited him to shoot the movie " Dragon in the World ".
When he was shooting this movie, he met Li Zhi, who combines all kinds of styles.
How charming is
? Even the gambling king Ho Hongshen once devoted her heart to her and spent a lot of money to invite her to dance together.
appeared in public several times.
You should know that the second wife of the gambling king Lan Qiongying and the fourth wife of the gambling king Liang Anqi are both because of dancing with the gambling king.
If it weren't for a few wives in the first place, Li Zhi would probably have become the "five concubine" of the He family.
angel's face and devilish figure, if Jackie Chan could not control it at the beginning, then the hat of "a thousand pounds of love and friendship" would be put on his head.
Even when Xie Xian saw Li Zhi, he couldn't help but pursed his lips. A peerless beauty like
deeply attracts Jet Li's heart.
The moment Jet Li saw Li Zhi, he completely understood what true love was.
Because of the reason why they were filming together, they spent a lot of time together.
Jet Li learned that the other party had similar experiences to him.
Both of them have experienced ups and downs and pains in society in order to survive.
Here in Lizhi, Jet Li felt a soul resonance that he had never had before.
He realized for the first time that this was the best partner for him.
So, he planned to file for divorce from his wife Huang Qiuyan to pursue true love.
"I'm sorry for you, but I still let you down. Sorry, I'm sorry, I think I've met true love."
Jet Li tried and called Huang Qiuyan, who was waiting for childbirth in the United States.
His heart was filled with love for Li Zhi, completely forgot that his wife was pregnant with Liujia and had to take care of her young eldest daughter Li Si.
When Huang Qiuyan saw her husband call, she answered the phone with great anticipation and was about to report to him about her second child.
didn't expect that what he got was such cold words.
She didn't understand and couldn't accept it.
"Please, don't leave me, okay? We have a daughter and an unborn baby. Are you really going to abandon me?"
Her emotions gradually became irrational, and she also tried to use family to win back her husband's heart, but she underestimated Jet Li's love-zhi heart.
"We are not suitable. I repay you more kind than feelings. You know this. Do you really want to let this wrong relationship last?"
Jet Li is frank. The other party's love for him is 80 to 90%, while his love for him is only 20%, and the rest is all thanks.
Huang Qiuyan was still begging hard, but the other party didn't know how to deal with it, so she hung up the phone.
Looking at the empty house, looking at the wedding photos on the wall, and her eldest daughter who was sleeping soundly in bed, Huang Qiuyan was desperate inside.
She began to regret that she shouldn't have persuaded her husband to return to Hong Kong.
If her husband doesn't return to Hong Kong, wouldn't he have met Li Zhi, and wouldn't have filed for divorce from her?
She tried to dial the phone again, but unexpectedly what she waited for was a more indifferent answer.
"I beg you to let me go, let yourself go, let go of this relationship, you can start over."
The other party's words once again hurt her heart.
"Okay, I'll let you go."
because of her deep love, she finally chose to fulfill her wish.
She gave birth to her second child alone abroad and was named Li Taimi .
In 1991, she took her two daughters back to China to go through the divorce procedures.
Because she had no financial source, she gave custody of her two daughters to Jet Li and asked the other party to leave the American house to her.
Jet Li felt guilty towards Huang Qiuyan and agreed to her request.
Then, the two children were sent to Jet Li's mother to take care of.
Huang Qiuyan returned to the United States and decided to do something.
But she has repeatedly hit a wall and can only make a living by working as a hotel waiter and other odd jobs.
Even the house was taken back because it could not afford the loan.
When she was lonely and helpless, an old Chinese lady reached out to her and let her live in her basement.
Huang Qiuyan has lived in the basement for 10 years, and these ten years have also made her gradually let go of her love for Jet Li.
After getting married, Jet Li began to pursue Lizhi crazy.
After Lizhi failed to start a business and owed tens of millions of debts, he did not hesitate to sign a 6-year performance contract with Xiangtai to get the money to help Lizhi pay off his gambling debts.
1999, he and Lizhi held a century wedding in Los Angeles.
Before the wedding, Jet Li invited his two daughters to witness, but was ruthlessly rejected.
The eldest daughter Li Si said that because she knows how hard her mother lives alone, she doesn’t want to witness the source of her mother’s pain.
"I don't want to have a father like you. You are irresponsible to your mother and have not fulfilled your father's obligations to us."
Because of the mistakes my father made, Li Si and Li Taimi did not spend a good childhood either.
Two children were taken care of by their grandmother and met with their parents for a few times during this period.
Jet Li satisfies his two daughters as much as possible materially, but he is always absent mentally.
In Li Si's memory, her childhood grew up with the ridicule of her friends.
She and her sister are often ridiculed as children without parents.
"Your parents don't want you, you are just 'wild children'."
Li Si was teased by her classmates since she was a child. Sometimes she poured out all the things in her schoolbag, and sometimes she scribbled around her books.
At that time, she hoped that her father would appear in front of her and told others: "Li Si's father is Jet Li, not a wild child who no one raises."
fantasy, and she didn't wait for this day until she grew up.
and her thoughts gradually changed.
One day she asked her grandma: "Grandma, if my father was not Jet Li, then would my life be different? I don't like the current life."
Grandma did not answer, but just took her tightly into her arms.
In 2000, my grandmother unfortunately left the world due to illness.
Li Si and her sister were greatly hit in their hearts, and they didn't know where to go for a while.
Jet Li then entrusted his two children to his sister for care.
Perhaps he may re-establish his family, and it will not be convenient for him to bring the two children born with his ex-wife back to Hong Kong.
This makes the gap between the two children and Jet Li grow bigger and bigger.
On the other side, Huang Qiuyan, who is far away from abroad, started to do beauty makeup.
Although the income is not high, I finally don’t have to live in the basement anymore and can afford a decent house.
She and her daughters have never been disconnected, and she is also determined to get back the custody of her daughter.
She has been working hard for this goal. After her life gradually stabilized, she decided to take her two children to study abroad.
In 2006, Li Si and Li Taimi came to the United States to reunite with their mother.
Huang Qiuyan doesn't want her child to live under the love and hatred between her and Jet Li, and advises her child not to hate her father anymore.
"We divorced out of voluntary terms. No one is sorry to anyone. He is still your father after all. It is his help to go to school and study abroad. If you want to contact us, you still need to contact us."
Li Si finally followed his mother's advice and no longer kept his father out.
However, there has been a gap between the father and daughter, and we cannot go back to the past.
What's more, Jet Li and Li Zhi have now formed a new family and have nurtured two daughters.
The two sisters don’t want to bother their father anymore. They have grown up and just want to accompany their mothers well.
Li Si is now 34 years old, but she is still single.
Huang Qiuyan and Jet Li believe that their daughter Li Si must have been affected by their failed marriage and refused to get married.
They have advised their daughter to find a partner many times, but she politely refused.
She is the embodiment of her parents' failed love. She witnessed her mother being abandoned and lived in the basement for 10 years since she was young, and witnessed her father remarrying and marrying someone else.
And because of the influence of her original family, she spent her childhood amidst laughter.
Li Si dared not accept love because she didn't want the story of her parents to reappear in herself.
For her, marriage seemed to be painful.
But no matter whether she chooses to get married or be alone in the end,
As long as she follows her inner thoughts, lives out herself and lives happily, it is not a bad thing...
