1963, a very sad year for 6-year-old Zhao Benshan , because this year he became an orphan in people's mouth.
In 1963, Zhao Benshan, who was only 6 years old, was very sad when he saw his mother die by his side, and he couldn't accept it.
What he didn't expect was that after his mother passed away, his father abandoned himself and went away.
6-year-old Zhao Benshan not only has to face the grief of his mother's death, but also has to face his father's cruel abandonment.
Although he was young, he was very sensible at that time.
Mom passed away, dad abandoned it cruelly. At the age of 36, he had to rely on his blind second uncle for life.
Zhao Benshan's blind second uncle plays erhu , and is proficient in various traditional crafts.
Growing up in a difficult environment, he also learned all the crafts of his second uncle, and also carried forward the crafts learned from his second uncle.
In the end, Zhao Benshan lived up to expectations and became an actor familiar to the audience across the country. After he appeared on the CCTV Spring Festival Gala stage, he became famous all over the country, and Zhao Benshan's poor father came to recognize him.
When it was difficult, he chose to abandon his father, but when he became famous, he came to recognize him. So did Zhao Benshan help his father back then?
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1957, Zhao Benshan was born in a very ordinary family in Kaiyuan City, Tieling, Liaoning.
The father and mother in the family are both poor ordinary people, and the only one in the family with skills is the blind second uncle.
Because the family is poor, Zhao Benshan was already very sensible when he was very young.
However, before his mother passed away, he did not suffer too much, but gradually grew up under his mother's love.
And after his mother passed away at the age of 6, his life changed drastically.
The death of my mother and the abandonment of my father made Zhao Benshan, who was only 6 years old, not know where to go.
Later, there was no choice but to follow the blind second uncle, and he could have a meal while learning skills.
The second uncle of the blind is also a miserable person. Although he has the skills, he does not make much money because he cannot see it.
Uncle Er is also a kind person. He knew that Zhao Benshan was a miserable child, so he left all the delicious food for this child.
In order to make this child have a promising future when he grows up, he also educated Zhao Benshan with good intentions and very strictness.
Under the second uncle's strict education, Zhao Benshan gradually became a well-known person.
In 1982, his performance of " Sanxian " has become popular all over the country. Later, the outstanding ones even appeared on CCTV's Spring Festival Gala.
After becoming famous, that miserable child will no longer be miserable. that miserable child can also allow the blind uncle behind him to live a happy and stable life.
It was also after he became famous that the father who abandoned himself at the age of 6 came to the door.
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When he became famous, his poor father suddenly came to recognize him, and Zhao Benshan was very surprised and uncomfortable.
The reason why he was surprised back then was because he missed his father very much and hoped that his father could always support the sky for him behind his back.
The reason why he felt uncomfortable back then was that was because his father did not appear when he was suffering and was suffering.
and he was in glory and could live a happy life, but his father came to recognize him.
When the poor father came to recognize each other, Zhao Benshan had become a father, so he knew the feeling of being a father and the mood of the child hoping for his father.
When he grew up, his father almost did not accompany him, and he did not educate himself too much, but this did not make Zhao Benshan hate his father.
Although he often publicly said in front of the camera that he and his father have no father-son relationship , in fact, he still likes his father very much in his heart and longs for his father to be behind him all the time.
A poor father, after he came to recognize him when he became famous,
Although he had complained about his father before, Zhao Benshan was still very happy to take his father home, took his father to the company to check it out, and took his father to the office to sit.
Zhao Benshan's father has never read any books. Although he did not participate in the career behind Zhao Benshan at the beginning, he cursed him directly when he saw some bad things.
Zhao Benshan was also very uncomfortable with his father's violent temper at that time.
However, in his heart, he still loves his father very much and is very filial to his father.
He knows that his father lost his temper is for his own good and for his company to save more.
is like this. After becoming famous, Zhao Benshan did not dislike his impoverished father. Instead, gave all his filial piety and helping him.
In order to allow your father to be by his side, Zhao Benshan not only settled his father, but also let his father appear in the company and around him.
In the company, many people know that Zhao Benshan’s father has a bad temper and also know that he likes to take care of some things.
Because of these things, Zhao Benshan and his father had a lot of conflicts at back then.
Dad always feels: Rural people should not be extravagant and wasteful, and they should be thrifty even after becoming famous.
Zhao Benshan thinks: is OK to save yourself, but for subordinates or those who work hard to perform with them, they must live a better life.
At that time, both Zhao Benshan and his father's starting point were very good.
In the father's heart, he knew that his son did that for the sake of others' good, and
in Zhao Benshan's own heart, he knew that his father was very attentive in doing this,
, but he knew that the other party's starting points were all good, but still had a quarrel for decades.
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In this heart of Benshan, he knew that his father had good intentions. The reason why he often had a quarrel with his father is that also wants his father to live a better life, wants his father not to worry so much, and wants his father to enjoy the hard-won life.
Later, in order to prevent his father from worrying so much and to do more meaningful things , he decided to let his father do charity for him.
Zhao Benshan and his father grew up in the countryside, are both very kind-hearted people.
As long as they mention doing charity and helping others, they are happy and very happy to do it.
After becoming famous, Zhao Benshan has been silently committed to doing charity behind his back.
But when he has no time to film or participate in a show, he asks his father to do these things on his behalf.
He does charity and helps others himself, which is very low-key.
He asks his father to do charity and help others, and he does not deliberately promote it.
And Zhao Benshan's father is the same. He has helped others for so many years, but few people have known about until now.
Zhao Benshan's father regarded doing charity as the most important part of his life back then.
No matter whether his son has time or not, he would use the money he earned from his son to go out to help the old farmers openly.
Zhao Benshan's father is a person who has suffered hardships, and he has been a farmer all his life.
So when his son is capable, he uses his son's ability to help more old farmers who have endured hardships like him to improve their lives.
Zhao Benshan's father has been working hard all his life to do charity and to help Zhao Benshan's career.
Seeing that his father's health was getting worse every day, Zhao Benshan felt very uncomfortable. At that time, he chose to leave more time with his father.
In order to better take care of his father, he had to let his father be by his side every day while filming.
The reason why Zhao Benshan did this back then was that, on the one hand, he could let his father see the joy of filming, and on the other hand, he could take care of his father all the time.
It was also at this time that some of the things my father did behind him that made Zhao Benshan, who rarely shed tears.
When Zhao Benshan led his father to film, His father secretly ran out with illness to comfort the farmers.
After knowing these things, Zhao Benshan was moved by his father's behavior and shed tears because his father's fatigue and health were not as good as before.
Later, Zhao Benshan's father became more and more serious.
In order not to delay career and to be able to take care of my father every day, I worked hard during the day and went to my father's bedside without even having to rest at night.
Before my father died, two things moved Zhao Benshan very much.
Things 1: Dad lying on the hospital bed still wants to do more charity and help more people.
The second thing, Dad lying on the hospital bed, held Zhao Benshan's hand tightly and told Zhao Benshan: You are a good person and an excellent child.
Hearing these two things my father said before his death, Zhao Benshan couldn't help crying again.
In his heart, he knew that his father had good intentions, but he did not expect that his father would say this in person when he was lying on the hospital bed.
When a stubborn father is no longer stubborn, when a tough father is no longer so tough , he also knew what it meant at that time.
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After dad passed away, Zhao Benshan kissed his father's face very affectionately.
That was the most affectionate time in his life that he was close to his father's face,
That was also the last time he was so close to his father in his life.
html Although he was abandoned when he was 06 years old, in Zhao Benshan's heart, father is always his own god.When he became famous, his father was so poor that he recognized him. He did not dislike him. Instead, gave all his help to . used the best way to support his father in his old age and sent him to the end.
In the TV series " Liu Laogen ", Zhao Benshan once played an old man who forgot to go home.
The reason why he acted so affectionately was that he played the experience in his life and that he played the way he might be in the future.
In this way, calls on everyone to care more about their father at home.
In this way, also calls on everyone to give more care and warmth to the elderly at home.
