Introduction: I watched "The Legend of White Snake " again many years later, and found that instead of choosing the handsome and elegant Xu Xian, it is better to choose the practical and down-to-earth Li Gongfu for a husband. And many years later, I discovered that Li Gongfu’s parenting concepts were also very advanced and worth learning. He was not only a good husband, but also a good father.
Xu Xian certainly looks talented, but from Bai Suzhen's perspective, he is the handsome guy from Yushu Linfeng. He is also kind and upright, very infatuated with his wife, and knows how to be romantic. If he can only pull Xu Xian out, he will indeed be considered very good among men. But Xu Xian is a "wife and treasurer", and being the wife of such a man must be very tiring. Xu Xian is a man, but he is a weak scholar. As the saying goes, "A scholar who is useless is a scholar." This sentence is vividly reflected in Xu Xian.
Xu Xian, as a doctor, actually has average medical skills. Bai Suzhen secretly supports him and helps him solve difficult and complicated diseases. If he is allowed to open his own medicine shop, he will be an ordinary doctor, and he can only treat ordinary ailments and pains. Yes, it is estimated that it is very difficult to support a family. Moreover, he is timid and cowardly. He can't tell the difference between love and hate. A snake can scare him to death. He faints, gets hurt, and cries at every turn. I'm afraid such a man is not very good at being a husband and wife, right?
encountered setbacks in life, so he just gave up on everything and became a monk. He gave up on his children and career, and his whole person was in love. Fortunately, he became a monk, otherwise he might not only be unable to support himself Xu Shilin , it is very likely that he himself has to rely on his sister and brother-in-law for food. Marrying a man like Xu Xian is actually quite good if you have enough food and clothing, but if you want to make a living, you must be prepared to be a grown-up woman. Bai Suzhen is a snake demon . She is so tired even with the blessing of magic. It would be unimaginable for a mortal woman!
Compared with Xu Xian, brother-in-law Li Gongfu is actually much more reliable. At least he has a public official position, he is not too big and not too small, just enough to support his family. If you don't get to the center of power, there won't be much of a problem. In fact, Li Gongfu's abilities are weakened in the TV series because he is surrounded by monsters, so it seems that Li Gongfu is very good. In fact, among mortals, he can be regarded as a first-rate master. Facing the green snake and the centipede spirit, was Li Gongfu afraid? At best, people are just stunned.
And as a husband, although he works at the entrance of the dyeing tank yamen, he insists on getting out of the mud and not dyeing. He has no bad habits, is very responsible for Xu Jiaorong, and is very considerate of his family. He is not shabby in appearance, very strong in body, and has a sense of humor. It can be said that more than 90% of the laughs in this drama are contributed by Li Gongfu.
And the most rare thing is that Li Gongfu is emotionally stable, his temperament does not have ups and downs, nor is he very irritable, and his values are also very flexible. His thoughts are not rigid or conservative, and his behavior is flexible and not rigid. Even though I later found out the identities of my younger siblings Bai Suzhen and Xiaoqing, I was a little scared at first, but then I quickly accepted them and truly regarded them as a family. Whatever problems the family encounters, he always resolves them actively and never blames others. It can be said that Li Gongfu is the backbone of the family. And even if his wife Xu Jiaorong gave birth to a daughter for him, he would not pursue a second child, and he would not have any preference for sons over daughters.
Treats Shilin as his own child. Xu Xian's greatest blessing in life is not to marry Bai Suzhen, but to have a brother-in-law like Li Gongfu, who raises Xu Xian and helps him raise his son. I remember one time Shi Lin's wife came to complain, and Li Gongfu's behavior of protecting the calf was also very cute. It was clearly Liang Mingming's family who was bullying others, but the wife came to accuse Shi Lin, and Li Gongfu directly pushed the wife back. On the one hand, he was indeed protecting the calf with his strength. , on the one hand, he also clearly expresses his position on love and hate.
And unlike Xu Jiaorong, who is not as careful about raising children, he encourages Shilin to climb trees, and he also appears to be very open-minded on the marriage and love issues of the younger generation, and is not completely influenced by Shilin and Bilian's doll kiss , in Li Gongfu's eyes, as long as the children are happy, anything is fine, and children will not be forced to obey their parents' orders.
Li Gongfu is a very kind and responsible man at heart. He is not only a good husband but also a good father who is very good at raising children, isn't he? Marrying a man like Li Gongfu will actually be much happier and more practical than marrying a man like Xu Xian, right?
