In the past week, Dong Yuhui has been receiving much attention, and he has really become popular.
Dong Yuhui was originally an English teacher at New Oriental . He taught more than 500,000 students in 8 years. With his help, many students have been admitted to the universities of their choice, including many prestigious universities such as Tsinghua University and Peking University. After New Oriental established the Oriental Selection live broadcast room, Dong Yuhui also changed his identity and became a live broadcast anchor. In his own words, he is a "vegetable seller."
At the beginning, Oriental Selection was not conspicuous in the vast live broadcast room. At its worst, there were only single digits of people watching in the live broadcast room, and the sales of goods were even pitiful. After half a year, the anchors of Oriental Selection, represented by Dong Yuhui, became popular all over the Internet overnight. Dong Yuhui was sought after for his distinctive characteristics and unique views. His knowledge reserve, his expression, his attitude towards life and his life experience are all impressive.
During the live broadcast and interview, Dong Yuhui talked about his family, work and some unforgettable things. Dong Yuhui was born in a rural area with average family conditions and local education was relatively backward. Dong Yuhui said that he had no exposure to English at all when he was in elementary school. In the first English test in junior high school, he ranked last in the class. He later learned English well through hard study and practice, and was finally admitted to the School of Tourism of Xi'an International Studies University.
He started working part-time to earn money when he was a freshman, and he never failed to do his homework. When he graduated from college, he got three well-paid job opportunities at the same time. He was a bit confused as to which one to choose. One day, he and his father talked about it. His father asked him: "If you sell a high-end watch or a high-end car to a rich man now, what changes will it bring to this society in five or ten years? People are the measure of all things, and work that affects people must be the most valuable. Value of ." His father's words helped him find the direction of his career. He chose to become an English teacher at New Oriental to influence the students he taught.
In his later work, his father’s words were verified by him. Dong Yuhui said that he once brought a particularly unforgettable student. When he was taking classes in Xi'an, a girl came to his open class and sat in the first row. After class, she gave Dong Yuhui a thumbs up, and she came to sign up the next day. She untied her handkerchief, which contained money of various denominations, including hundreds, tens, yuan, and cents. All of them added together were not enough for tuition.
Dong Yuhui was particularly touched when he saw it. He helped the little girl apply for a 50% discount for employees and paid for the remaining half of her tuition. In order to take care of the girl's feelings, he deliberately said that New Oriental had waived her tuition. And during class, he often praised and encouraged her. Under his influence, the little girl became more and more confident and cheerful from her original introversion and nervousness. Her grades also improved rapidly, and she was finally admitted to a particularly good university.
When Dong Yuhui mentioned this matter, he was full of happiness and pride. If it hadn't been for what his father said to him back then, Dong Yuhui might not have made the choice he would have made, and he might not have come into public view in this way today.
After being unable to become a teacher, Dong Yuhui once felt lost and confused. Especially in a new position, no one paid attention to him at the beginning, many things could not be sold, and no one cared about what he was saying. For this reason, he seriously doubted his own value. But he didn't give up, he persisted, and a very important reason why he persisted was that he thought his work was very meaningful.
He said that he had sold and apple in the live broadcast room before, and he came from an area with relatively backward economic conditions. They only have a few yuan in profit from a box of apples, which they then convert into coupons and send them out, so their team doesn't make any money.However, he believes that if these apples can be sold, the farmers will have income, their children will need to go to school, and the elderly will need to take medicine. With money, these problems will be solved.
Through his influence, he can guide mass consumption and increase farmers' income. He feels it is very valuable. Although the job content of selling goods through live streaming is different from that of being a teacher, he can use his influence to change others and change society. Nowadays, he is very busy at work. Because of his fame, more people are contacting him, and there is even a team trying to poach him from New Oriental. But Dong Yuhui has always been calm, restrained and practical. He enjoys his current working status and is fully mentally prepared for possible changes in the future.
He said that he will not leave this team that shares the same joys and sorrows, but if one day the team is missing, he will not have any impact. His savings can ensure that he can live a normal life. He may find a place with relatively backward economic conditions. Go to teach. He still likes the profession of teacher, and wants to influence more children through his own efforts, help them become better, and make their future more promising.
It is no exaggeration to say that what his father said at the critical moment of his career choice almost affected his life. The importance of father's influence on children has been verified by Dong Yuhui. An American psychologist even directly asserted that fathers can determine the success or failure of their children. Stephen Bolt wrote in the book "The Father Factor": "Whether you get along well with your colleagues at work, whether you have an entrepreneurial spirit, whether you worry too much about your work, whether you are exhausted or promoted along the way, and even whether you will succeed. Being a boss, all of these will be influenced by our father. "
" Sometimes we can't express clearly the influence our father has on us, but we often find that the way we speak and do things unconsciously is almost the same as it has been for twenty years. My parents were exactly the same as before. If we analyze it carefully, we will find that the father’s influence on his children is reflected in almost every aspect.
The father will affect the pattern of the child. An ambitious father will reveal himself unconsciously in his life and work, and his children will be affected in a subtle way. They will also have high aspirations like their father. They will not get entangled in trivial matters and boring gossip, but will be full of ideals and pursuits. On the contrary, a mediocre father will most likely raise an equally mediocre child.
Fathers will affect their children’s cognitive . When children are young, they are like copies of their parents. How they speak, how they analyze problems, how they solve problems, how they interact with others, etc., what their parents usually do, their children will follow. Parents' education methods affect children's cognition and thinking to a certain extent.
Fathers influence their children’s marriage. Children have lived with their parents since childhood, and their parents' relationship style will deeply affect their children's views on marriage and love. If the parents' marriage is unsatisfactory, with quarrels and cold wars all day long, the children will either repeat their parents' pattern after they get married, or they will develop a fear of marriage. On the contrary, if parents have a harmonious marriage, their children will also be full of beautiful yearning for marriage.
Fathers will affect their children's future. The father's character, words, thoughts and actions have a comprehensive and profound impact on his children, and these factors combined can almost affect a person's lifelong development. What kind of choices you make at critical moments, what kind of job you choose, what kind of group you join, what kind of friends you make, etc., are all traceable.
However, although the person mostly refers to the father, it is not necessarily the father. It may be the mother, an elder you trust, or an important person in your life.
This enlightens us that as adults and seniors, when getting along with children and younger generations, our words and deeds may have a vital impact on others.
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