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Recently, the wedding photos of Da S and Gu Junye were exposed.
In the photo, Big S’s smile is bright and sunny. They are leaning on each other, and there is sweetness between their eyebrows. Looking at her photos, she looks like a beautiful girl in her 20s. Time seems to have not left any mark on her face. Mottled marks underneath.
This also confirms the saying that love really makes people younger.
After the divorce between Big S and Wang Xiaofei, the 45-year-old Big S became more and more beautiful. The white wedding dress and the quirky selfies of the two of them in daily life could not hide her happiness and joy.
Seeing this, people are envious. The first thing I envy is her appearance, and the second thing is that she can be true to herself. After divorcing Wang Xiaofei, she did not give up on herself.
Big S has sacrificed a lot in her marriage to Wang Xiaofei. They have been married for ten years and have a son and a daughter. At the beginning, they loved each other very much. If Wang Xiaofei wanted to eat dumplings, Big S would fly over and make them for him. She devoted herself wholeheartedly to this family, but ended up being slandered by him.
After their divorce, Wang Xiaofei posted on Weibo that Big S had been taking illegal drugs. As soon as the Weibo post was posted, it immediately attracted the attention of many people, who speculated about what Big S had taken.
Later, Big S’s mother couldn’t help but come forward. She said that the medicine Big S took was an anti-epileptic relaxant, and the epilepsy was caused by the disease she suffered after giving birth. When she gave birth to her second child, she had a narrow escape from death. After that, she suffered from epilepsy attacks again and again, and it was not an illegal drug.
Seeing Wang Xiaofei’s slander against Big S, she couldn’t help but exclaim, “This is a good divorce.” To slander a wife who has given birth to children to you like this.
Not only that, they got divorced because Wang Xiaofei cheated first. After the affair, he still didn't realize his mistake and even asked for remarriage. But there are only zero or countless cheatings, and Wang Xiaofei cheated on her more than once.
When Big S found out about Wang Xiaofei’s cheating, he became disheartened and chose to divorce. Indeed, when a woman stays away from a marriage that causes internal friction, your body and mind will also gain long-lost freedom.
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At the beginning, when Da S and Gu Junye suddenly announced their marriage, I could not believe why she got married so quickly. Later, she learned that Gu Junye was her first love, and thinking about Big S's character of daring to love and hate, I only have deep blessings for her marriage.
Looking at Big S’s recent posts, we can see that she is in really good condition.
reminds me of a saying, an unfortunate marriage will only bring you endless harm, but a good marriage will bring you happiness.
When I was browsing on Zhihu , I saw a question: Do women live miserable lives after divorce?
I don’t think so. After a divorce, a woman will of course accept guidance from the outside world, but if you don’t care about it, these rumors will naturally not hurt you. If you don't divorce, you will only suffer more harm.
I have a cousin who got divorced last year. Her mother has always advised her not to get divorced. She said that divorced women are easily looked down upon by others. People in rural areas have a concept that after a woman gets divorced, she will basically be like this for the rest of her life.
She clearly knew that her daughter was not living a happy life. During pregnancy. The cousin's husband beat and kicked him. After she gave birth to her second child, a girl, the cousin's husband said chilling words to her, "If you want to give birth to a son, we will not divorce."
My cousin gave birth to two children for her and died twice. However, he was not grateful to his wife, but used actions and words to hurt her.
I would like to ask, is this kind of marriage what we long for?
Fortunately, my cousin chose to divorce him. After the divorce, my cousin met someone who was very good to her. They chose to get married, and her current condition is getting better and better.
As someone said, when you break away from an unhappy marriage, your body and mind will gain unprecedented energy, and this energy will light up your way forward.
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There is a saying on the Internet that the most tragic thing for a woman is not that she gets older, but that she loses herself in marriage. If you choose to swallow your anger for the sake of a bad marriage, then your life will pass.
Think about it from everyone’s perspective, is this the marriage you want? Or is it the life you want?
I don’t think so. When a person comes to this world in his entire life, he should first love himself, take care of himself, and give meaning to his life. Not letting yourself down and not letting your family down is the best state of life for a person.
Now Big S is living a good life. She gave up that unhappy marriage and found a happy marriage again. I sincerely wish her long-term happiness.
also hopes that everyone can get happiness and happiness in marriage.
Author: Xiaofan, only writes words with warmth, and is willing to be a small tree hole in your soul.
