Recently, director Zheng Xiaolong and Zhao Liying have released a new work. As the saying goes, it becomes popular before it is aired, and it aroused heated discussions on the Internet as soon as it was aired. Because it has only been aired for two episodes, the audience has been

Recently, director Zheng Xiaolong and Zhao Liying have released a new work. As the saying goes, it becomes popular before it is aired, and it has aroused heated discussions on the Internet as soon as it is aired.

Since it has only been aired for two episodes, it has presented the audience with a very realistic "marriage trouble" scene. If you have watched the marriage trouble scenes.

The first thing I felt was that it was definitely not a wedding scene. This was clearly a scene of sexual assault, molestation, and rape.

A group of men who were like wolves and tigers, in the name of "wedding trouble", dragged the bride Zhao Liying's sister to a small dark room and locked the door.

tore her clothes, touched her legs, and put his hands into her clothes.

then said: just touched it. If it doesn’t make trouble, it won’t be called troublesome.

If my sister hadn’t kicked the door open and slapped the head of the man who was having trouble with the marriage, the consequences would have been absolutely disastrous. How far can a beast go without limit?

Just think about the Tangshan beating incident!

However, what is more despairing than the wedding scene is the attitude shown by everyone on the scene towards this matter. The evil of human nature is everywhere.

Long-planned, evil of human nature

It was Wan Chuanjia, the son of the Secretary of Wanjia Village, who took the lead in the wedding. At the wedding scene, he set his sights on He Xingfu's younger sister He Xingfu, played by Zhao Liying, and he was very interested in this man who was studying in college in the city. The girl became interested and moved her thoughts.

When her companions said that He Xuxun was a arrogant girl, everyone toasted her without even drinking.

even more aroused his desire to conquer this girl. He first said verbally: "In my Wanjiazhuang, there can't be a girl who refuses to drink while toasting."

immediately joined other companions to surround them. He Xuxun pulled her to the room, threw her on the bed, locked the door, and pressed He Xuxun heavily with his body to prevent her from moving.

Then several other tall and thick men squatted aside and touched her legs.

This obscene scene, cloaked in the guise of a wedding, was also being filmed by a photographer.

Photographers are not the only people who are indifferent.

When He Xingfu's brother-in-law came out to report that He Xingfu was being bullied, He Xingfu's mother-in-law heard it and remained motionless. She even said shamelessly:

"If you like to make trouble, the more trouble you make, the happier it will be. If they want to make trouble, they will make trouble." Go ahead, no fuss."

No one went to the dark room to rescue the girl who was molested by the crowd. Only her sister He Xingfu rushed in and rescued her.

As a result, He Xingfu domineeringly broke the head of the instigator Wan Chuanjia. Unexpectedly, everyone at the wedding scene felt that it was He Xingfu's fault.

"Isn't it just fun?"

"Isn't it just being touched?"

What's even more outrageous is that He Xingfu's mother-in-law said:

Secretary Wan was invited with great difficulty. Being able to come is a gift to our family. To save face, wasn’t it just a bit of a fuss?

"If others can bear it, why can't you? If others can tolerate it, why can't you?"

This kind of evil in human nature is really to the extreme. They feel that they have been violated by people they call "VIPs". Shouldn't they be grateful? ? How can you still hit someone?

Moreover, this is not the idea of ​​one person, but the unanimous idea of ​​the entire village and all villagers!

Extremely ignorant, this is the most terrifying thing. The entire village is the victim of the girl sister, who is trying hard to get justice for her sister.

The Evil of Her Boyfriend

The Touchstone of True Love

When He Xingxun was caught in the dark room, she was on the phone with her boyfriend, and her boyfriend was involved in the whole process of her being violated because the phone did not hang up.

But he didn't take any action, didn't call anyone to help stop it, didn't call the police, and didn't rush to the scene immediately. Instead, he listened silently to the whole process.

then dumped her!

After He Xuxun was successfully rescued by her sister, she immediately went to find her mobile phone and called her boyfriend, only to find that the phone was not hung up.

When her boyfriend heard her talking to him, did not feel any comfort or distress, but directly hung up the phone.

When He Xingxun dialed his phone again, he still had no words of concern for his girlfriend.

He only cares about one question, and that is: "I just want to know, what did they do to you? Why are they just making trouble for you and not others?"

Why is it you, not others, this sentence seems to be I'm saying, it must be you who are indiscreet and don't love yourself, and you are the one to blame, otherwise why would it be you and not someone else.

He barely cares about his girlfriend at all. He only cares about whether his girlfriend has been defiled, is dirty, and is no longer worthy of him.

Then break up with her!

This kind of man is really terrible. He has fully implemented the "victim's guilt theory" . At the same time, he doesn't know how to love others at all. This kind of person is definitely not a good person.

If you encounter this kind of man, you must stay away.

"Stinky wedding troubles" are everywhere

In March this year, at a wedding ceremony somewhere in Hubei, a group of groomsmen lifted up the bridesmaids in skirts, threw them up heavily, and then "thrown" them onto the bed. .

Moreover, the bride was "fallen" several times continuously and repeatedly, although the bridesmaid still kept smiling without being rude.

All the men present watched the excitement happily, unaware that the bridesmaid was helpless as a girl was surrounded by a group of men.

Someone later uploaded the video to the Internet, and the comment area was everywhere:

"I see the bridesmaid is very happy."

"The bridesmaid looks like she is enjoying herself."

This is just like in "Female Psychologist" A girl, Li Wei, was dragged to the bathroom by a client and raped. Afterwards, everyone said that she was the one who seduced the man, that she was debauched, and that it was her fault.

The abuser also pointed at her nose and said: You obviously have pleasure yourself.

was so angry that she slapped herself in the face. She really felt that it was her own problem and that she was dirty.

cried and said: "This is the retribution I deserve, I deserve it."

clearly knew that he was the victim, but he was instilled by others with the theory that he was the source of the evil.

This scene really reveals the pain of growing up as a woman and the evil of human nature.

A girl on Weibo recorded her experience as a bridesmaid. Because the bride was pregnant and could not make trouble, as a bridesmaid, she was lifted up by six or seven people and thrown directly onto the roof of the car.

She was wearing a skirt and was so scared that she cried for a long time. From then on, she never dared to be a bridesmaid again, and she felt a shadow deep in her heart.

includes the celebrity wedding scene that was a big hit at that time, and it is also the most familiar to everyone.

In 2016, Bao Bell got married in Bali, and the guests were all well-known celebrities and actors, but there was still a stench of "wedding trouble".

Liu Yan was wearing a tube top bridesmaid dress. She was almost lifted up by the groom and the groomsmen and thrown into the swimming pool. If Jia Ling hadn't stood up to protect her at that time.

Liu Yan may have been thrown into the water, and his whole body was exposed at a glance.

After the photos were leaked, people did not reprimand the groomsmen, but instead said that Liu Yan was deliberately hyping up.

Later, in an interview, Liu Yan was very aggrieved and said with red eyes that it would be a shame if she went to someone else's wedding to hype it up.

The reason why Liu Yan was lost is self-evident.

Because Liu Yan became popular back then, it was indeed closely related to the possession of sexy weapon , and this time Liu Yan, who was wearing a light-colored tube top skirt, would be thrown into the water.

She will definitely be exposed at a glance. She is sexy, but this should never be the original sin of her being teased.

And in our daily lives, there are still many unlimited "marriage troubles" phenomena. It is not just the bridesmaids who are troubled. The scenes are so unbearable that it makes people feel that this world is too ridiculous.

In Yancheng, Jiangsu, a drunken father-in-law forcibly kissed his daughter-in-law at a wedding banquet.

A man pinched the bride's neck and forced her to kneel down.

On a cold winter day, a group of people took off the groom's cotton-padded clothes and pushed them into the sea.

When his son got married, his father was naked and covered in graffiti, while the groom was riding in a luxury car and tethered his parents to the streets.

A groom was tied to a big tree by the road with tape, toothpaste was smeared on his face, firecrackers were set off under his buttocks, and cigarettes were lit on his feet.

Similar incidents like this can be found everywhere on the Internet. This is not an exception, it is a common phenomenon.

So this time, director Zheng Xiaolong was able to bring such a realistic plot to the screen.

Although the audience was very angry when watching it, they were also very happy that someone could expose this phenomenon to the sun and make the world start to pay attention to this matter and boycott it.

A good work sometimes needs to serve as a warning in terms of social influence.

Although I don’t know what will happen next, I absolutely believe that justice will be given to the girl.

Conclusion:

Marriage trouble was originally a traditional Chinese marriage custom. This custom was recorded as early as the late Northern Song Dynasty.

However, with the changes of the times, marriage troubles have changed their flavor, becoming vulgar and stinking, and becoming an excuse for people with bad intentions to engage in bad behavior.

We respect traditional Chinese customs, but we must not condone evil customs. Marriage is not a place outside the law. Those who seriously take advantage of customs to commit evil acts should be resolutely resisted. Those who behave seriously should be punished accordingly by law.

Finally, I want to say to every girl:

Don’t let yourself become the next Fang Siqi and hurt yourself. It shouldn’t be you who commit suicide, and it shouldn’t be you who should die, but him and them.

Don't punish yourself, demonize yourself, sin yourself because of other people's crimes. It's not you who are wrong, but him or them.

No matter what happened, girls, you still deserve to be loved.

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