In 1994, Wei Wei informed his parents on the phone that he was going to marry in the United States. After hearing this,
's parents were so angry that they hung up the phone on the spot, and then gave her an ultimatum: "If you dare to marry abroad, I will sever the father-daughter relationship with you."
Wei Wei had a big quarrel with her father and decided to marry the pianist Michael regardless of the circumstances.
However, what Wei Wei did not expect was that the marriage she would rather break off the relationship between father and daughter would bring her countless pain.
In 2003, Wei Wei couldn't bear her husband's domineering control and filed for divorce.
But her husband became resentful because of this and used crazy methods to imprison and threaten her...
Until 2004, someone exposed what Michael had done, pushing both of them to the forefront.
And Wei Weicai used his own tragic experience to successfully leave Michael.
html Married in 2010, from happiness to never meeting again, Wei Wei made up his mind to return to China and start over.In 2005, when Wei Wei and her three sons stepped into her familiar hometown, the only people who greeted her were her parents and former friends.
Looking back at the time when she was at the top of the music scene with high spirits...
01, she became famous overnight at the age of 26, and had a falling out with her mentor.
Wei Wei was born in Inner Mongolia in 1963, and her father was a soldier. When Wei Wei was a child, she had a stubborn personality. Her parents told her to do anything, but Wei Wei would not do it.
My father was once a soldier, and he had the idea of ​​obedience and obedience in his heart. She was very angry when she saw Wei Wei disobeying her parents every time. Sometimes she would hit Wei Wei with the soles of her shoes.
Wei Wei has a good relationship with her mother, but she and her father are really incompatible. Within less than a day of getting along, the two would have a big fight, and her father would accuse her of coming for revenge.
8-year-old Wei Wei was dancing in the yard, and her mother was watching with great enthusiasm.
But when his father came home and saw it, he scolded Wei Wei for being shameless and dancing swaggeringly in the yard wearing a small skirt.
"Mom, dad is old-fashioned and very annoying." Wei Wei had a sad face, thinking silently in her heart that even though she danced so well, her father would only scold her every time.
In 1977, Wei Wei entered the Beijing Art Troupe and became a small actor. At that time, her name was still Zhang Juxia, and the leadership thought she was too tacky.
In order to develop her career, she changed her name to Wei Wei, following her mother's surname. Wei Wei, who just came out of society, was penniless and so poor that he could not afford to eat.
She lives alone in a basement in Beijing without seeing a trace of sunlight all day long.
Every time it rains, layers of mold appear on the walls, making them dark and scary.
Wei Wei is busy at work. If he doesn't go home for two or three days, the rental house will become a playground for rats, and the ground will be full of rat droppings.
Wei Wei cried secretly in the basement countless times. She could only save money desperately, thinking that one day, she would move out of this dark house.
Wei Wei, who can't even bear to eat a bowl of clear soup noodles, does a very good job in filial piety to her parents.
Whenever Wei Wei goes home during the Spring Festival, she always brings back large and small packages of gifts. Her father was still lukewarm, and then told her not to be in a hurry to fall in love outside.
's mother joked: "Your father is soft-hearted and hard-spoken. He has been complaining about why you haven't come back for a few days!"
Wei Wei smiled and distributed the gifts to her brothers and sisters, feeling extremely sweet in her heart.
struggled in Beijing for several years. By 1986, Wei Weicai participated in the Youth Singing Competition and won the third place in popular singing . Her outstanding performance attracted the attention of music teacher Li Guyi, who then accepted her as his apprentice.
"Teacher, I don't understand this very well. Can you teach me again?" Wei Wei was holding a music book with many circles on it.
Li Guyi was secretly happy, praising Wei Wei as a good musician, with high talent and hard work.
"This is how the song goes."Seeing the teacher's demonstration, Wei Wei nodded and started to follow it, and quickly learned what he didn't understand.
At that time, Li Guyi and Wei Wei had a very good relationship. When Li Guyi goes to a concert, he will take Wei Weiwei with him.
Wei Wei also made friends with many musicians of the same age.
In 1989, Wei Wei was recommended by teacher Li Guyi and appeared on the Spring Festival Gala for the first time, singing the song "Love's Dedication".
This song is adapted from a real incident. It is reported that a little boy in Beijing was seriously ill at that time.
His parents were both workers and had no money to treat him. Neighbors, classmates at school, and people from the street office all donated money to save the child's life.
The theme of "Devotion of Love" is noble and grand, full of countless love and the truest goodness in the world. This song has also become one of Wei Wei's masterpieces.
Wei Wei, who attended the Spring Festival Gala, did not become famous. It was when she sang "Asian Heroes " with Liu Huan the following year that she became famous all over the country.
In this year, Wei Wei's career reached its peak, and love quietly came. Wei Wei is in love with cross talk master Hou Yaowen , who is 15 years older than Wei Wei.
Unfortunately, the two only dated for less than half a year, and Hou Yaowen fell in love with the young actress Yuan Yin . After the breakup, Wei Wei cheered up and started working on her career again.
At that time, she was already the "first sister" in the group, and her words were very important. The booming popularity also fueled her "fake power".
Once, the group was going to have a concert together. During the promotion, Wei Wei's name was mentioned. As a result, during the concert, Wei Wei left alone without saying hello in advance.
Li Guyi went to Wei Wei and asked her to guard against arrogance and impetuosity. But Wei Wei disagrees. She believes that she is free. She can go when she wants to go, but she can't go to the concert if she doesn't want to go.
Seeing Wei Wei's attitude, Li Guyi quarreled with her for the first time. A few days later, Wei Wei was unable to participate in the competition because of a cold. Li Guyi asked Wei Wei to go to the hospital for a check-up in front of countless people.
I don’t know who misrepresented the news. When the media reported it, it turned out that Li Guyi confirmed that Wei Wei had AIDS and went to the hospital for treatment. As soon as the
report came out, Wei Wei and Li Guyi were thrust into the spotlight at the same time. In order to prove his innocence, Wei Wei investigated thoroughly and after visiting many newspaper offices, the result he obtained came from his mentor Li Guyi.
This incident made Wei Wei extremely disappointed. She couldn't figure out why her mentor wanted to harm her? Is it because she is disobedient?
Because of this incident, Wei Wei's career plummeted. In anger, she went to court with her mentor to seek justice.
After the incident was found out, although Wei Wei and Li Guyi forgave each other, their teacher-student relationship could not return to its original state.
Every time Wei Wei attends an event, her colleagues avoid her for fear of having anything to do with her.
Everyone knows that Wei Wei is not someone to be trifled with. She can even take her mentor to court. What else can't she do?
The pressure from her parents, the ruthless accusations from her mentors, and the avoidance of her colleagues made Wei Wei painfully confused about whether she should leave this sad place.
However, before she could make up her mind, a man made the decision for her whether to stay or go.
02. He broke up with his parents because of love, but was imprisoned by his husband.
In 1992, pianist Michael visited China . He once called him "the father of modern music" in the United States.
Wei Wei and Michael met at a concert. At that time, Michael approached Wei Wei and proposed cooperation. Wei Wei's popularity in China was already low at the time, and Michael's invitation was like a sudden burst of rain after a long drought.
Wei Wei followed Michael to Sweden . During the day, Michael took Wei Wei to walk on the streets and saw the scenery of Sweden. In the evening, Michael composed songs for Wei Wei.
In the past year, Michael created 10 classic works tailored for Wei Wei. However, after these English songs were released online, there was not much response.
Wei Wei told Michael disappointedly that she was already a has-been singer and no one liked to listen to her songs. Michael comforted Wei Wei that she would stand up again one day and there was no need to lose heart.
Michael's encouragement made Wei Wei's heart gradually turn towards him. The two soon lived together. At that time, Wei Wei knew that Michael was married.
Soon after, Wei Wei became pregnant. Michael filed for divorce from his wife and almost left the house. Wei Wei could no longer stay in Sweden, so Michael sent Wei Wei to a relative's house in the United States to wait for the birth.
When Michael got the divorce certificate, he quickly proposed to Wei Wei. Wei Wei was deeply moved to see this man, who was 25 years older than her, abandoning his first wife but wanting to be with her.
She called her father to tell her, but he called her shameless and angrily scolded her: "If you dare to marry that foreigner, never come back again."
In order to seek her father's consent, Wei Wei returned to China while pregnant. However, she tried every possible means to explain, but her parents did not understand her.
Wei Wei broke up with her father because of love, and went to the United States to give birth heartbroken. Her parents also had tears streaming down their faces, and they didn't understand why Wei Wei would go to this point.
In 1994, Wei Wei and Michael got married and have lived in the United States and Sweden since then. In 1996, Wei Wei and Michael visited Japan and returned to China for a concert at the end of the same year.
At that time, Wei Wei was in countless glory and enviable. In the eyes of the outside world, Wei Wei climbed up to Michael and reached the pinnacle of her life.
In 2000, Michael also created "My Chinese Wife-Wei Wei" in English, which tells some interesting things about the two people's acquaintance and love. The book
once became a bestseller in Europe and the United States. Wei Wei married Michael and gave birth to three sons. Their marriage is so happy!
But is Wei Wei really happy? It is said that when a woman marries far away, it is difficult for her relatives to know about her suffering, and Wei Wei is no exception.
Wei Wei often goes out to give concerts. Michael wants a stable life as he gets older. The gap between their lifestyles became wider and wider, and they often quarreled.
Around 2003, Wei Wei filed for divorce and she wanted to return to China with her three sons to develop.
Michael firmly disagreed. He felt that he had sacrificed too much by leaving home and joining Wei Wei, and he did not want to end up in a situation where he was old and had no one to take care of him.
Kewei Weiwei kept making divorce, which completely disappointed Michael. Knowing that he could not save his marriage, he transferred all the valuable things in his home to his friends' houses.
In order to prevent his son from leaving, Michael hid all the passports of Wei Wei and his sons.
Everyone knows that you can hold a gun abroad. Michael hired several bodyguards to guard outside the villa with guns.
During that time, Wei Wei could not go out or contact her friends. She had to endure Michael's crazy torture every day. Once, Wei Wei couldn't stand it anymore, so she went out secretly, but was discovered by her husband.
Her husband viciously told her that he would shoot her to death as soon as she stepped out of the villa. Wei Wei was afraid. She quickly ran back to the room and stayed there, not daring to step out of the door.
When the sons saw their mother being imprisoned, they secretly called her to ask for help.
In 2004, the marriage scandal of Wei Wei and Michael was exposed, and many reporters squatted outside their villa. Michael was also afraid of losing his security at night, so he asked the bodyguard to leave.
During this year, Wei Wei and Michael went to court and finally got the divorce certificate.
10 years of seemingly happy marriage also came to an end.
03, returned to China with her 3 children to develop, and is still single
After the divorce, Wei Wei still lives in Sweden, and is fighting a lawsuit with her ex-husband Michael to take away the custody of their three children. In 2005, Wei Wei and her aunt returned to China with their three sons to develop.
The moment she set foot on her hometown, no one paid attention to her. Only a few friends and parents came to pick her up.
When her father saw her coming back in embarrassment, he couldn't bear to blame her. He just wiped his tears quietly and said, "It's good to come back. It's good to come back safely."
Wei Wei hugged her mother and cried loudly. She wanted to have a good rest, but for the sake of her three sons, she could only cheer up.
"Mom, they are very well-behaved." Wei Wei entrusted her three sons to her parents. She wanted to start working and make money to support her family.
Although Wei Wei obtained custody of her son, she did not receive a penny of compensation or alimony from her ex-husband. The children's tuition, fees, and living expenses will be borne by her alone.
In order for her son to thrive, Wei Wei dragged her exhausted body to participate in countless business performances and interview programs.
In 2007, Wei Wei suddenly fainted and fell to the ground while participating in the Spring Festival Gala rehearsal.
She has developed heart problems due to long-term fatigue. If she doesn't get a good rest, it will lead to heart disease.
Wei Wei had no choice but to temporarily stop fighting, obey the doctor's advice, and rest for a while.
2010. When his father passed away suddenly, Wei Wei returned to Beijing. When my mother saw her husband pass away, she felt very bad and went to the hospital every few days.
Wei Wei has to take care of her mother and three sons, and her head and six arms are not enough.
One day, Wei Wei was cooking at home and suddenly broke into a cold sweat. Fortunately, the eldest son saw it and dialed 120 in time to save Wei Wei's life.
Her heart disease recurred and she could no longer work. For this reason, she had to put down all her work and stay at home. During that time, there was a lot of gossip from the outside world.
Some people say that Wei Wei married abroad again, while others say that she has passed away.
In fact, Wei Wei has always lived in Beijing, but her health is not good and she rarely appears in public. After more than a year of treatment, Wei Wei's condition improved a little, and she started composing music and recording programs again.
But she chose to refuse to participate in some large-scale concerts, competitions, etc. Wei Wei was worried that her health was not good and if she worked too hard again, the program team and her family would be harmed.
In 2021, Wei Wei's condition completely recovered, and his sons have grown up. After graduation, the eldest son did not go abroad, but chose to stay and work in Beijing.
Every holiday, he would go home to stay with Wei Wei and give her a lot of money.
The second son is studying at a university in the UK. The annual scholarship is more than 100,000 yuan, and Wei Wei does not need any money.
The younger son left the society early and stayed in Beijing to work.
In 2022, 59-year-old Wei Wei finally lived a leisurely life. And she also chose to remain single for the sake of her three sons.
Conclusion:
In the past many years, Wei Wei has long forgiven her ex-husband Michael for what he did, and occasionally asked her three sons to contact Michael to let them talk more.
Michael later married a new wife, but they did not have a son.
Since 2018, Michael has been sick several times. When Wei Wei found out, she told her three sons that if they wanted to go to Sweden to see Michael, she would not be sad.
3 Although the three sons do not like their father, they still occasionally go to Sweden to visit him. Michael once wanted to leave the family property to his three sons, but they politely refused.
After 18 years of divorce, Wei Wei and her three sons are living a happy life in Beijing.
Michael could only be alone in distant Sweden, looking at the photos of his three sons when they were young.
After experiencing failure in career and love, Wei Wei finally found a glimmer of happiness in her three sons.
Looking back on her life, most of the time she was forced to choose a way out. Fortunately, now that all her hardships are over, she can finally stop and enjoy a beautiful life!
