When I mention "middle-aged", I remember the ending song of the movie " Love Saint " "I Don't Want to Go to Work":
Movie "Love Saint"
Movie "Love Saint" is starring Xiao Yang , Yan Ni , and Xiao Shenyang .
"I Don't Want to Go to Work" is like this (excerpt):
makes me crazy and make me arrogant once
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makes me take off the black crow to suit
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makes me shout I don't care about anything
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resolutely ran to the Antarctic to bask in the sun
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what makes me shout Don't care about
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Sorry boss
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Sorry dear parents
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Sorry dear parents
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I want to spend all my money
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I don't want to go to work
I just want to be a sloppy
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This song, although cheerful, reveals the pain and helplessness of middle-aged people between the lines.
Work pressure increases and life pressure increases.
A middle-aged man at this time is no longer young, but he must cheer up and make more efforts than before.
Some of them work harder, the more they fail. Finally, they suddenly entered a midlife crisis.
Some people are even more and more close to "hang up".
Let’s watch it. In the news, young souls are always lying at the desk.
Middle age is a hurdle. It's really difficult to step over
.
Middle age is a disaster.
accidentally fell into trouble.
When people reach middle age, they will easily fail the harder they try.
When people reach middle age, they need some "sloppy carelessness".
When people reach middle age, they need to be "silent"
1. Silent - In fact, it means "silent"
to see it open, that is, there is nothing you have to do, don't take yourself as important.
Even if you fail, don’t be depressed like you fail in the exam.
people have walked a lot of ways to middle age.
should know that working hard may not be successful.
Because, in this world, there is always a saying:
accomplish things, man lives half of it, and God's will lives half of it.
Just do your best. If you fail, you must also see it.
In this world, there is never a shortage of people who work hard.
If you really face the day of failure, don’t blame others and don’t fight to the death with fate.
opens up and be careless, which is the fulfillment of oneself.
people need to be "silent"
2. Silent - In fact, it means "let go"
There is such a story:
A middle-aged man suffered a career failure and his wife and children were separated.
When he was in a down-and-out situation, he went to a temple to visit the monks and searched for solutions.
The monk said nothing, but just kept him staying in the temple.
The next day, after breakfast, the monk took the leftovers and prepared to feed the dog.
shouted while walking:
Put down, let go, where are you? Let’s have a meal.
A middle-aged man was puzzled after hearing this and asked:
Why did you name the dog "let go".
The monk replied:
Where is I calling it? I am calling myself, reminding myself to let go.
When people reach middle age, they need to be "sloppy"
. That is, don't measure yourself with a worldly perspective, and don't be yourself in the eyes of others.
What others say about you? When we were young, we cared very much.
Because, at that time, when we first entered society, we were always afraid.
is used to using other people's evaluations to measure your right or wrong.
is used to making your own choices with other people's eyes.
However, we really don’t know what we want.
People who are middle-aged and are used to being the self in the eyes of others, we have reached our limit.
At this time, you need to let go and find out who you are.
can only recalibrate the latest beacon of life.
people reach middle age, they need to be "silent"
3. Silent - In fact, it means "waiting"
people reach middle age, they are prone to have an illusion and encounter difficulties, and they always think that it is not an objective factor, but that they have not worked hard enough.
Waiting, that is, when encountering a midlife crisis, don’t rush hard.
Instead, stop and sit quietly.
slowly wait for the wind to come.
people reach middle age and need to be "sloppy"
Everyone is a car. When
first left the factory, it had a beautiful appearance and a full power.
When I reached middle age, the car had been running for most of my life.
It is time to park the car and get overhauled.
At this time, if you still stubbornly run the second half.
Although, you will be ahead of others for a while.
However, sooner or later, your car will have problems, or even safety accidents.
The car that was resting halfway through the journey surpassed you more quickly and confidently after a brief adjustment.
sets off again in order to better reorganize the line.
people reach middle age and need to wait.
