Recently, many friends said that they were addicted to watching "Menghua Lu" and were completely fascinated by the acting skills of the two leading actors. Zhao Pan'er, played by Liu Yifei, went from being a convicted prostitute to a tea shop owner. Not only did she expand her bu

Recently, many of my friends said that they were addicted to watching " Meng Hua Lu " and were completely fascinated by the acting skills of the two leading actors.

Zhao Pan'er, played by Liu Yifei , went from being a convicted official prostitute to a tea shop owner. Not only did she expand her business to Tokyo, she also became the wife of a high-ranking official in the imperial court, completely realizing a class jump and a great life.

step by step returns to the upper social class in the secular world. Why does Zhao Paner have such confidence? What inspirations does Zhao Paner’s journey to advance bring us?

"Living yourself" is the most important topic in life
99% of people don't understand how important "stabilizing the self" is.

Some people may say that because Zhao Pan'er is talented and beautiful, he was lucky enough to meet Gu Qianfan, and that's why he was so lucky. But is this really the case? Even if Zhao Pan'er doesn't have Gu Qianfan, there will still be Chi Yanei. Even without Chi Yanei, relying solely on Zhao Pan'er, we have reason to believe that she can become a wealthy business woman by opening a tea house.

In the final analysis, Zhao Paner’s confidence is because she has completely lived her life. The self of

is not judged by others. So even if Ouyang Xu dumped her and Ouyang Xu's old slave belittled her, she would only be sad and not belittle herself. Instead, she would have the courage to go to Tokyo to ask for an explanation. The self of

insists on being oneself and does not follow other people's ideas. So even though Gu Qianfan was worried that she would not be allowed to open a teahouse, she still opened it. It only took three days from decision to opening the store.

's self means that when faced with difficulties, he values ​​his own strengths rather than blindly supplementing his shortcomings. So when the business of the teahouse was bleak after it opened, she thought of her own advantage, which was elegance. The advantage of the introduction is Pipa. Therefore, she focused on highlighting the cultural attributes and elegant features of the teahouse to attract literati. At the same time, creating suspense and high-end packaging Song Yinzhang has become a highlight. It can be seen that she is very convinced of her own advantages, rather than blindly supplementing her shortcomings.

So Zhao Paner’s self is complete and stable. On the other hand, her two sisters, although they also possess special skills, are quite different in their self-perception. It didn't fully shine as it should. Of course, in the later stages of the plot, both sisters also grew up and ushered in a happy ending.

Excellence does not equal self-confidence
Understanding one's true strengths and talents is the beginning of self-confidence

Zhao Pan'er can fully live out herself, neither humble nor arrogant, and achieve a class jump. An important support that is very important and cannot be ignored is that Zhao Paner is very clear about his own advantages and talents. The core of

's career development and life transition is that sees his own core strengths and talents and maximizes his talents and advantages.

And what we have been taught since childhood is that we can’t make up for what we don’t know. Mathematics can’t make up for math, and Chinese can’t make up for Chinese. This is completely wrong. The master of traditional Chinese culture Zeng Shiqiang also emphasized that when you do something that excites you and makes you feel valuable, it is the mission of a person's life.

Zhao Paner fully understands his own advantages. What makes her passionate and valuable is doing business and opening a teahouse. Therefore, no matter what difficulties he encountered, Zhao Paner never gave up the idea of ​​doing business.

There is another person worth discussing in the play, that is Gu Qianfan’s younger brother Chen Lian. Chen Lian is also a person who knows his core strengths very well.

In the fifth episode, Chen Lian is determined to be his subordinate with Gu Qianfan. Gu Qianfan asked: "You still want to follow me even though you have a humble position?" Chen Lian responded: "I grew up among women, so I don't have much ability, but I am not slow to get promoted, just because I have the skills. One advantage - being able to follow people. "

Being able to follow people, being able to understand people, and being able to employ people are all great advantages. Obviously, Chen Lian knows his own advantages very well and plays them well.

Recognize your own talents and advantages and work hard to practice
to achieve 100% of your dream life

Understanding your own talents and talents and making good use of them is an important cornerstone for career transition and life development.

However, I often see friends around me who are obviously very good but don’t know it.

not only cannot see their own advantages and specialties, but they also often compare themselves with other excellent people, which increases their anxiety and sense of lack. Compare your own shortcomings with the strengths of others. This is really a huge waste of my innate talents.

For example, Song Yinzhang in the play is mentioned many times in the play as a great pipa master. Song Yinzhang should have been very confident. But from her interaction with the scumbag Zhou She, it can be seen that she turns a deaf ear to her own excellence, and instead has a little inferiority complex. Zhou She made some small plans and sweet words, and then he followed the other party wholeheartedly.

shows that Song Yinzhang has not truly realized his talents and advantages. This is very similar to most people. They clearly have talents and advantages, but they don't explore them. They always think that their fate is unfair.

In fact, it is not that difficult to fully live out yourself and live out your fully blooming self.

As long as you understand and make good use of your own talents and advantages, you can create a unique career landscape and live a 100% wonderful life.

Because each of us has our own equipment since birth, don’t worry at all that you don’t have natural advantages. This equipment is available to everyone and is unique.

What am I good at? what do I like? What is my talent? What is my mission in life? What kind of job is suitable for me? What kind of lifestyle am I pursuing? What does it look like to achieve Dzogchen in life?

Do you know the answers to all the above questions? If you can answer these questions clearly. Then there will no longer be any confusion in your life.

In "Menghua Lu", whether it is Zhao Pan'er, Song Yinzhang, or even Sun Sanniang, they finally completed the construction of self-perfection and lived themselves. It's all about them discovering their talents and living out their mission in life.