Exclusive丨There is no highest score in life, life needs an average score

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"Every time an adult shines suddenly, it is a normal performance after tempering." He is here, he is here! Kang Hui brought his growth experience to come!

Kang Hui × "Night Reading" exclusive interview

talk about the role of

no matter what the role is always sincere to face the audience,

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"Night Reading" : from "News Network" anchor, Spring Festival Gala host, to new Internet celebrities, Vlog The recorder, and then to the guest reviewers of "2019 Host Contest", "A Good Class" "Class Teacher"... Every time you change your role, you will make the audience shine and receive rave reviews. What do you think of these role transitions? Share with us the "character experience".

Kang Hui: When I was the host of the Spring Festival Gala for the first time, I was very unclear about my role. I tried very hard to get closer to the image of a variety show host, but it was awkward and misplaced. Later, when reviewing the program, a leader woke me up. He said, in fact, you don’t have to deliberately turn yourself into another person or another role. You are still a news show host, and you have such a professional role. Step onto the stage of the Spring Festival Gala with social roles and welcome the New Year with everyone. I suddenly felt that no matter what role I am, I have my own background, which is to always face the audience and everyone in good faith. It seems that plays different roles now, but I think these roles are me, and I always have to face every friend sincerely.

Talk about the "average score"

This is the way of non-genius endeavor

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"Night Reading" : In your new book "Average Score", where you share your growth experience, we see a very special point of view, "Life does not have the highest score." There is no maximum score for career, and life needs an average score. "In the current social environment, there are ranking anxiety, comparison anxiety, promotion anxiety, etc., without taking the highest and averaging, how to convince readers of your point of view?

Kang Hui: I don't think I am a genius, and I am not saying which one will be completely better than others. In the course of my life, I just try to pass everything that I have to do . If has passed, I will work hard to improve the score a little bit, and finally get a better average score, so that my life really does not slip to mediocrity. This is me. Most of us are not geniuses. We need to work hard and harder in what we do, and we may be able to achieve a little bit of what we expect. Maybe this kind of life is the life of most of us. I hope that each of us can work hard to get a better average score in every subject that needs to be completed in life.

In fact, when writing this book, I just want to communicate with you in another way. The text may touch more subtle inner feelings in more detail than speaking. Since it is communication, it is not like a debate or a speech. It must be accepted or convinced by others. I just put some of my feelings and knowledge in front of everyone frankly, hoping that such a sincere collision can make us different. Obtained. Even if " collide with ", the final result is not resonance, but divergence. I am also very happy. That at least shows that we have communicated sincerely.

Talk about "warm"

Life is not easy to be really warm

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"Night Reading" : Whether you are enthusiastic about public welfare, you as a "poop shovel officer", or you as a warm family life, you can always make the audience feel warm You have properly shown us the "warm man" side. What does warmth mean to your life?

Kang Hui: Actually, I really dare not say that I am a warm man, because I do not take good care of my relatives and friends. I think life is really not easy, no one's life will always be smooth sailing. In addition to our own hard work and strength, we also need support and support from relatives, friends, and even strangers who have just passed by or met. I think this is warm, maybe a little bit.The weak light may be a fire. Sincerely treat all people and face everything sincerely, we will be able to radiate our own warmth, and the society we live in will be different. If some friends can feel the warmth I give from my work, including text communication, it is also very gratifying to me.

responds to questions from netizens.

hopes to continue to surprise you.

"Night Reading" : The first season of "@大国传说的前线" Vlog is over. You have already circled a lot of fans. Netizens have come to urge the second season, when do you plan to release it?

Kang Hui: When there is the next important diplomatic action by a major power, I will continue to record in this way when I have the opportunity to go to the forefront. Can other work and life be presented in this way? I dare not give a definite answer now, but I think there will be in the future, and I hope to continue to surprise everyone.

"Night Reading" : Netizens ask when do you open Weibo? Do you have this plan?

Kang Hui: I have no plans to open Weibo for the time being. It is not a resistance. The main thing is that I am busy with work. After opening such a communication channel, it is bound to devote a lot of time and energy to continuously enrich it. If you just set it aside and put it aside, it seems to me inappropriate. Of course, I am on the hot search, and I am especially grateful to my friends for following me through Weibo. Also, hopes that in future hot searches, everyone will pay more attention to me because of my work, not just because of my personal .

"Night Reading" : Everyone would like to know what are your hobbies after work?

Kang Hui: I am ashamed now, I have been given work most of the time, so whenever I am asked such a question, I think how boring and boring I am! If I have more time, my biggest interest is in movies, and of course I will read a book. The "worst" thing is to exercise. I have been a sports idiot since I was a child, and I will think of various ways to avoid physical exercise. The book "Average Score" also touches on my interests outside of work. If you are interested, you can take a look. Thank you.

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"Growth"

(excerpt) Author/Kang Hui From "Average Score"


First, growth is a process of constantly knowing oneself, and knowing the world through knowing oneself. Z2z

I have a deeper understanding of this point in my work, because our profession has such a characteristic that it is often shrouded in a halo that does not belong to me. And the more this happens, the more you need to know who you are.

When everyone is complimenting you, you have to ask yourself, is it really as good as they say? When people around you belittle or deny you, you have to ask yourself, is it really as bad as they say ? In the end, it all depends on what you know about yourself in your heart and how powerful your inner heart is.

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There is another characteristic of this profession, whether you are doing well, too many people are watching and commenting. And everyone must have different evaluation standards, and you are easily influenced by others' evaluation standards. At first, I might try this today and change it tomorrow, but it cannot always be influenced by other people's standards. Slowly, you must let your heart become more and more constant, you must establish your own standards, I know what I should be, what I can be. When this standard is in place, has grown. Every time you choose

, ​​you should be based on your understanding of yourself at that stage, rather than being constrained by some concepts or other people's definitions of you . Only by constantly knowing yourself can you have choices and choices on the path of growth.

Second, growth is a process of gradual learning and understanding of responsibility.

We came to this world, and as we grew up, our responsibilities accumulated little by little. Responsibilities can be large or small, ranging from being responsible to oneself and family, to being responsible to society. And being responsible to the society starts from being responsible to oneself and to others.

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responsibility for these twoThis word, we can take it very, very important, but at the same time, taking responsibility can start with something very, very small. I think that assuming social responsibility means that you are a good person in this society, and that is enough .

Is it difficult for you to be a good person? It's actually not difficult.

To be a good person is to get along with other people in accordance with the basic values ​​and rules that everyone should follow together. If you don't do things that hurt others or yourself, you are a good person .

Third, growth is a process of slowly understanding what "respect" is.

Learning to truly respect others is a very important sign of growth. This respect must come from the heart, not just a polite gesture.

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This kind of respect also lies in the development and change of our society every day, and we may have to come into contact with many people or things that are not necessarily the same as our perceptions. So apart from some major issues of principle, can we also have tolerance and tolerance for some differences? Can there be real respect?

In other words, you can dislike , you can disagree, but you have to respect it .

Fourth, growth is a process of gradually learning to question and no longer blindly following.

is young and often very impulsive. Sometimes it is precisely because you blindly obey or blindly trust something that you do not make a serious and prudential decision. When starts to learn to use your life experience and life experience to judge what these actually represent, you are growing .

seems to be very popular in society nowadays, but not all the words of people who are labeled as success must be the truth. On the one hand, we need to listen and feel with a positive, learning, and positive attitude. But on the other hand, I also hope that everyone will question and even confront each other with a critical eye. I think only in this way can our growth be more quality.

knows myself , assumes responsibility , knows how to respect , learns to question , this is a very important key word that I have experienced in the growth process.

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Finally, I want to say that growth is a natural process, but it is also a process that requires continuous learning. What I hope for
is that everyone continues to grow and become more mature, but not to become more sophisticated.

In my opinion, there is a big difference between maturity and sophistication. The biggest difference is that maturity means that no matter how ups and downs you experience, you will still look at the world with a pure perspective, but I will be younger than when I was younger. See the world from more angles, see deeper and wider . Z1z and sophistication are entirely from the perspective of their own interests, always looking at the world with an attitude of seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages, looking at all people and things .

Slowly, your eyes will become more and more turbid, and the world you see will become more and more turbid. When people's eyes on the world become muddy, will the world become beautiful and clear?

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