When everyone watches "In the Name of Family", they often feel injustice for the younger brother He Ziqiu. The little brother's sentence "Why don't you all want me" really makes people feel that he is too pitiful. In the latest episode of
, Anna Mae finally revealed the reason for abandoning Ziqiu, and also revealed the fact that she did not remarry and the children were raised for others. Ziqiu finally wants to reconcile with himself.
Although Ziqiu was abandoned by Anna Mae, Li Haichao loves him wholeheartedly and is not the poorest person in the play. The poorest person in the
drama should be Qi Mingyue, who seems to be loved by his parents and has a well-off family.
1. Originally she was a top student, but turned out to be a scumbag.
When she was in high school, Qi Mingyue had good grades. If nothing else happened, she would definitely go to a good university in Beijing.
But her mother seems to be dissatisfied with her grades, hoping that she can get the first place in the exam, and has been enrolling her in various classes and forcing her to study. Under the pressure, her psychological quality deteriorated, so that she wrote the wrong answer sheet during the exam and could only go to a second-rate university.
Just imagine: if my mother gave more understanding and help at the time, she might not have so much psychological pressure, and she would be able to realize her college dream.
is a good academic bully, but was forced to become a scumbag by his mother.
What a shame.
On the other hand, Jianjian, when she was in school, was the second last in her class, but Li Haichao never said anything about her, and only hoped that she would grow up healthy and happy.
I didn't expect such an educational environment to actually cultivate an "artist".
In high school, he was self-taught and sculpted at will and won awards. He was admitted to a local university and majored in woodcarving. His works have won many awards, and he has become the teacher's "proud student".
Academic masters become academic scum, and academic scum counterattacks academic masters.The stories of two people tell us that home education is crucial to a child's growth.
Give the child more affirmation, and the child can give unexpected surprises.
Otherwise, it will only scare you.
2. Originally outstanding ability, the result is not smooth
Although the college entrance examination failed, Qi Mingyue's ability is very strong.
After graduating from university, she engaged in a profession she liked. Although she is only a non-staff reporter, her work ability is obvious to all. If she is sent to Beijing for two years, she can have a formal establishment when she comes back.
But mother doesn't allow it.
Mingyue has achieved good results in her work, but she always picks on her faults. It doesn't mean that her makeup is not neat, or that the clothes she wears are ugly. Anyway, in her eyes, her daughter is useless.
Mingyue wanted to send her to Beijing, but she disagreed and forced her daughter to take the civil service exam.
In her eyes, Mingyue is the best choice only if she is admitted to the civil service. In the latest episode of
, she also wants to buy a house for Mingyue to prepare her for marriage.
didn't get into a good university, but there are too many people who counterattacked through their own efforts in the later period, but unfortunately Mingyue couldn't become one of them.
She could only watch her hobby being trampled on by her mother, and she reluctantly lived as her mother wanted.
Doesn't she want to fight?
She also thought about it, but the oppression over the years has made her form a character of resignation.
She wanted to fight, but her tenacity and passion have been worn away.
The girl who originally had a great future was kept in captivity like this, which is really pitiful.
3. It seems that the family conditions are very good, but in fact they live very unhappy
Among this group of people, Mingyue seems to be the luckiest.
Her parents have stable and decent jobs and good family conditions. She should be the kind of child who has been held in the palm of her hand since she was a child.
Compared with Jianjian who has no mother, Ziqiu was abandoned and adopted, Ling Xiao was hurt by her mother since childhood, Tang Can sacrificed her studies to make money for her family, Mingyue is considered a "little princess".
is such a "little princess", but no one else lives happily.
is like Ziqiu. Although he was abandoned by Anna Mae, Li Haichao treated him as his own son. Knowing that Ziqiu misses her mother, she tried to get in touch with Anna Mae, trying her best to resolve the knot in Ziqiu's heart.
He said to Anna Mae: Although I have given Ziqiu a lot of love, I know that he still lacks a corner in his heart, and you can only supply him with this corner.
Ziqiu is very bitter, but the tide is painful, and Jianjian and Ling Xiao are not brothers and sisters more than brothers and sisters. He is actually luckier than many people.
And what about the moon?
She never felt love and respect from her mother.
My mother is always denying her, always forcing her; and my father can't beat a strong mother. In such a family, it is really not as happy as an ordinary family.
Mingyue loves to sing, drink, and wants to escape from home, is it not because she feels depressed?
The mother found out that she was not ready to apply for the civil service examination, and also discovered her drinking habit. It is estimated that the conflict between the two will break out in an all-round way.
I don't know whether their mother and daughter can reconcile after this tit-for-tat, and whether Mingyue can pursue the life she wants.
I think "In the Name of Family" actually wants to tell us: Whether a person lives happily and whether he can reap happiness depends not on whether the family is healthy, but on whether the family is happy.
Some pains are given to us by the native family; and some pains can only be resolved by a lot of love.
Everyone needs healing, and healing can only be achieved through self-reconciliation and reconciliation with the family of origin.
hope everyone can be as lucky as Ziqiu, although abandoned, but still loved.
hopes that every parent should take the parents of the bright moon as a warning, and not always love their children in their own way.
