text｜Zhang Ping
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On April 23, Zhou Yangqing wrote a long article, blew up that she had broken up with Luo Zhixiang , and her article mentioned that Luo Zhixiang cheated on others many times, and the breakup scene was not friendly.
This pair made the outside world sigh in love for 9 years, and finally ended in failure.
I don't know if you found out that the more long-term couples in are, the less likely they are to get married in the end.
Don't look at Zhou Yangqing and Luo Zhixiang's often showing their affection, but in fact, the two people's relationship has gone through a long-distance running for nine years, but they still can't get into marriage. Only the parties themselves know their true happiness.
Internet celebrity, face-lifting, and the labels affixed to Zhou Yangqing made many Luo Zhixiang's fans dissatisfied, thinking that she was never worthy of Luo Zhixiang.
Whether two people are compatible is not up to others to decide. Although the matter of affection starts with appearance, it is something else that really promotes the two people to stay together for a long time, such as personality, three views, etc.
Luo Zhixiang also said that Zhou Yangqing is a very hard-working girl with a good personality. As a star's girlfriend , , she did not use this to promote herself vigorously. On the contrary, her achievements today are all through her own efforts She got the , and she also told everyone about her plastic surgery very frankly.
It is human nature to love beauty. Sometimes, when you think about it, those girls who pay a lot to become beautiful are actually very admirable. At least they are brave and patient.
01.
Someone once asked me how long it takes to get married?
Regarding this issue, I have also thought about it many times, and finally found that there is no fixed time for two people who really want to get married.
Some people decide to get married once they meet, and some people talk for a few years and still don't get married.
What really drives two people to get married is not time, but love for each other.
When Zhao Jing and Yu Bin were together for three months, Yu Bin had the idea of getting married. At that time, they were still in love. Yu Bin loved Zhao Jing more, and he felt that she was very good in his heart. He wanted to get married because he didn't want to miss it.
But at that time, Zhao Jing was not sure about this relationship, and she even secretly went on a blind date with Yu Bin. The reason why she was dissatisfied with Bin was because of his height and height.
Zhao Jing's net height is 165, and Yu Bin is only 164 when she takes off her shoes. Even if Zhao Jing wears flat shoes, she is taller than Yu Bin. The genes of Zhao Jing's family are all good. The cousins around him are all tall, especially the cousins, each of whom is tall and handsome. Even the boyfriend that he brought with his cousins is also over 180.
So Zhao Jing has always been brooding about Bin's height.
However, apart from being short, Yu Bin is very good in other aspects, especially his temper. Every time he quarrels, he will take the initiative to let Zhao Jing, and every time he has a holiday, he will prepare a small surprise, and whenever there is a holiday, he will take Zhao Jing out for a trip.
and there is also a 160-square-meter three-bedroom under the name of Yu Bin, the full price. In terms of family background, Yu Bin's family is good. Both parents are teachers, and they can be said to be from a scholarly family. Moreover, Yu Bin's parents are very open-minded.
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During the two years of their relationship, Yu Bin mentioned marriage three times in total, and Zhao Jing rejected from .
The last time was half a year ago. That day happened to be Zhao Jing's birthday. Yu Bin carefully arranged the venue and made a lot of friends.
After the third marriage proposal was rejected, Yu Bin's attitude changed a bit. He no longer took the initiative to chat with Zhao Jing every day, and he didn't even reply to her WeChat messages in seconds. He would also use overtime on weekends to refuse Zhao Jing's date. request.
At that time, Zhao Jing didn't pay much attention to it. In her heart, Yu Bin loved herself. The reason why he did this must be because he refused his marriage proposal in front of so many people, which made him lose face and was just unhappy. .
She thought it would be fine after a few days like this. In those days, she still had to do something, invite friends to eat and drink, and go out to chat with friends.
Two months have passed in the blink of an eye, and the two have not mentioned breaking up, nor have they discussed it. A week before
broke up, Yu Bin came to her and said that he wanted to chat with her face to face.
On that day, they talked for a long time, about the past and the future of the two. Finally, when Yu Bin asked Zhao Jing if she had the answer to marriage, Yu Bin got up and left without looking back.
On the way back, he sent her a message on WeChat, which read: Let's break up.
When Zhao Jing regained her senses, she realized that it was too late. and not only deleted his WeChat, but also moved to a new house and cut off all contact with her.
Actually, whether it is a man or a woman, when you really want to marry someone, you will do a lot of things related to marriage.
For example, take her to meet your friends, relatives, create memories and plan the future with her.
If the relationship between two people is only simple eating, drinking, and having fun, just stick to being happy and have no plans for the future. In most cases, the other party just treats you as a passer-by in life.
Why do you say that the longer you are in love, the harder it is to get married?
In fact, the real fresh-keeping period of love between lovers is only a few months or a few years. After that, the reason why they do not separate is not necessarily because of love, but because of habit.
Love is all impulses. It must be because you love someone very much that you want to marry the other person. But if it is just a habit, in fact, whether it is with this person or another person, there is not much difference, so, If you really want to marry a person, you must tie the other person when he has the urge to marry, otherwise it is very likely that in the end, it will just be an empty joy.
In addition, the youth is only for a few years, no matter how good you are, you must understand that when you love someone, you must love them deeply. A mountain is high, and the result of 's greed is that in the end, nothing can be obtained. #Zhou Yangqing exposes Luo Zhixiang cheating#
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About the author: Zhang Ping, psychological counselor, marriage and family counselor, well-known emotional self-media. I have wine, do you have a story?
