Retired women live together for a year: other people’s lives have hope, and my days never look back

1. Foreword

In 2019, China's single population reached 260 million. What this means:

One out of every six people who pass by you every day is single, and many of them are elderly.

The older generations always believe that the single life represents loneliness, isolation and helplessness, and finding a wife is the best way.

days with company

2. Retired woman partner

58-year-old Aunt Qiao, who has only one daughter, studies abroad part-time and part-time, has a monthly pension of more than 4,000 yuan and a set of 105 square meters Suite, there is also a car.

Aunt Qiao spent a few years in retirement by herself. She slept carefree every day until she woke up naturally. She went crazy with her sisters when she had time. His travel aesthetic was a little tired.

The old father left a few years earlier Now, my mother is following the eldest sister's house, and life is still moist.

I go in and out by myself every day. I am lonely and long for a company by my side.

Single days

The old sisters introduced him to Lao Zhou. Lao Zhou is 66 years old this year. From the neighboring district, his wife has been away for 5 years and is a retired veteran.

The hall at home is no longer there. My son is also in a different place. He is married and started a business. The grandson is in elementary school. There are two apartments for self-occupation and one for rent.

After meeting the two people, they had a good chat. Three months later, they discussed and lived together, and the children did not object.

Lao Zhou proposed that he only partnered with each other without any evidence. He believed that each other had children and property was involved, and he was afraid that there would be a lot of trouble in the future.

and proposed to move to his side to live there. He will pay for the living expenses and the two of them will do the housework together.

Aunt Qiao thinks what he said makes sense,Mainly two people can speak.

I just don't get the certificate, I always feel that my life is not so fair.

Elderly partner

In the first few months of the little day, the two spent the first few months of shopping and grocery shopping during the day, and walking at night. Aunt Joe felt that the day was too much, especially when sleeping with company and sleeping more securely.

One year has passed.

One day, Zhou told Aunt Qiao that his daughter-in-law gave birth to a child and wanted Aunt Qiao and herself to help take care of the confinement and take the child to the kindergarten.

Aunt Qiao is silly after hearing this. It will take five or six years, and she hasn't brought a child.

Aunt Qiao told Lao Zhou that we are just living together, and we are not your son’s mother, so why can’t we fight? How about serving the confinement for the daughter-in-law?

It's better to hire a sister-in-law, and then hire a nanny when the child is older.


After listening to this for a few days in the old week, I ignored Aunt Joe. How could Aunt Joe think this could blame herself? Do not let go anyway.

Lao Zhou said after dinner last night, "You didn't want to live your life sincerely with me. You don't want to be confinement for my daughter-in-law, and you will bring me grandchildren. Then what shall we have?"

Aunt Qiao packed up a bag of small luggage the next day after listening, and left her home in Zhou.

Old Monday didn't say anything, and he said viciously at the door that you will never find your wife in the future,

Aunt Joe left without looking back.

The old couple walked with their grandson in the autumn

@玉锵锵 felt that

Aunt Qiao and Lao Zhou may not have made it clear before they lived together. If Lao Zhou had mentioned before, if another grandson wanted to take his grandson, I think Aunt Qiao would not agree to live with him.

Lao Zhou felt that he was raising Aunt Qiao with living expenses, so Aunt Qiao should pay his daughter-in-law for confinement and bring the children.

Aunt Qiao's own conditions are also very good, looking for a partner is to find someone who is intimate,It's not Tu Laozhou's little living expenses, leaving himself without freedom.

Sanmao said in "Meteor Shower": I think age, economy, nationality, and even knowledge are not conditions for choosing a spouse. Of course, these conditions are important for ordinary people, but the most important thing is each other. The character and soul of our people, this is what we want to be "right to the door".

Looking for a wife to look for a wife, looking for a companion who takes care of each other and has the same views.

Whether you remarry or live in a partnership, you must understand and understand, just want to get, this kind of life can not last long, especially after retirement, if you encounter this kind of man, it is better to be single by yourself, but more free and unrestrained.

Do you think you want to bring children to your wife’s son?

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