The 60-year-old old man said frankly: Living with my son for 8 years, "invisibly biting the old" made me miserable

Introduction:

A 60-year-old old man confessed that he lived with his son for eight years and was invisibly gnawed at the old age, making our old age life miserable.

Uncle Hu:

I am 65 years old this year. My wife and I have both retired. Our husband and wife have an only son. He is now married. After my wife and I retired, they lived alone in their old age. My wife and I returned to live in the countryside after retiring. Our rural life in the old age is very happy.

But the good days are not long. Not long after we returned to live in the countryside, my daughter-in-law became pregnant. After the daughter-in-law became pregnant, the son wanted my wife to come and take the baby. After my daughter-in-law became pregnant, the son wanted my wife to help her with the baby.

But my wife didn't want to be separated from me, so I told her to take my grandson to elementary school or kindergarten and then come back, so that the burden on the children would not be that heavy. It was originally my wife who went to help my son with the children in the city, but because my wife didn't want to leave me.

So the two of us decided that we both went back to the city to help my son with the baby. My wife and I returned to the city to help my son with the baby.

Daughter-in-law, she is a lazy person and never does housework at home. Living at home with clothes and food, my wife and I are very busy to take care of her.

She is like an ancestor at home and we take care of her. She still doesn't appreciate that we are always picking and choosing, and she came to the city with my wife to take care of our grandson, and we paid for and worked hard. They have difficulties in life. My wife and I have to find ways to help them. My son has to pay off his mortgage and car loan every month.

My wife and I have a monthly pension, so we use a small portion of the money every month to help them pay off their mortgage and car loans. My son was married for less than three years. When they got married, my wife and I took most of our savings and gave them a down payment for a house. The son's home is far away from his company.

Every day my son has to squeeze the subway to go to work, so for convenience, my son said he wanted to buy a car.My son meant that we wanted us to buy him a car worth tens of thousands of dollars, but my daughter-in-law felt that if a car was only tens of thousands of dollars, she would feel that it was not decent at all. But my wife and I can pay tens of thousands of dollars.

is the savings that my wife and I have saved over the years and worked hard for so many years. We have already helped them buy a house and there is no extra money to help them buy a car. We can help him Buying a car for tens of thousands of dollars is already our best effort.

Time passed in a blink of an eye. My grandson was already three years old and went to kindergarten. Originally, my wife and I planned to go back to our hometown and live our old life. When we wanted to go back to our hometown.

was opposed by my daughter-in-law. My daughter-in-law said that she gets off work very late every day, and that she gets stuck every time she gets off work. There is a long distance from the company to my grandson’s kindergarten.

If there is a traffic jam, there will be no time to pick up my grandson. No matter what my wife and I said, my daughter-in-law did not agree with us to return to our hometown. Later, we had no choice but to continue to take care of our grandson at our son's house. My wife and I are already old, and it is very difficult for the two of us to take care of our three-year-old grandson.

The three-year-old grandson is very naughty, running around every day, every time I take him out to play, I have bad legs with my wife and can’t catch up with him, so my wife and I rarely take him Go out to play. Time flies quickly. Another two years have passed. My grandson is going to elementary school soon. My wife and I are going to elementary school.

once again proposed to my daughter-in-law to return to her hometown to live in her old age, but this time was rejected by my daughter-in-law, and I and I could only continue to help take care of our grandson at my son's house. One day my wife went to school to pick up my grandson from school. He was hit by a car and hit the hospital while he was going to school.

At that time, my wife suffered a serious injury to his leg. After two months of keeping in the hospital, my wife could not take the baby. I take care of her every day when I lie in bed. I take my grandson to and from school every day.

I also need to take care of my wife, cook every day, and take the vegetables to the hospital for her to eat. Once I was cooking at home, my daughter-in-law came back from get off work and she muttered, "I don’t care if I ask you to come and bring the children.

I was lying in the hospital for a few months and the child couldn’t pick it up.I was a waste of money in the hospital for so long.” After I heard it, I felt aggrieved, and then I angered my daughter-in-law. “Your mother has helped you take care of your child for so many years. Isn’t she injured because she is going to pick up the child from school? Forget it.

I still talk cold words at home. If it is you, we will not visit you and see what you think. For so many years, doing housework in your home and bringing children has no credit and hard work. Do you not even have a conscience? I don't know how to care about her, if these words are heard by her, guess how cold her heart is. Lived for most of his life.

I have never seen such a cruel daughter-in-law.” Since I heard what my daughter-in-law said, the more I thought about it, the more angry I became. My wife and I have been in their house for so many years either doing housework or taking care of children.

My wife is sick No matter how much she opposes, I will not care about her anymore.

After returning to the hometown, I think that after my wife is discharged from the hospital, I will take her back to her hometown. , My wife and I have lived a happy old age. We have been at my son’s house for the past few years. Every day is very busy. There is no time to relax. Now my wife and I have returned to our hometown. Now we can finally live A happy old age. My wife and I have been helping them with housework and raising children at my son’s house for so many years. In fact, they are invisible gnawing the old.

Conclusion:

There are many invisible gnawing stories in real life. _P3p

I thought that my sincere devotion would be able to return my children’s gratitude, but I didn’t expect that after a long time, my son and daughter-in-law would take the elderly’s work for granted.

Make up not to be confused, and take you to know more emotional stories every day

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