Lead:
Quarrel between husband and wife is inevitable. There are many trivial things in life that cause the couple to quarrel. After a couple quarreled, the wife ran away from home for 8 months. The husband took two children by herself and hired two nanny. Finally, he found that his wife was more tired than the nanny.
Mr. Zhong:
I have been married to my wife for more than 10 years. When we first fell in love, the relationship between the two of us was pretty good. We talked and laughed every day. After returning home, the two of them will cook together, and we will play games on the sofa for a while after the meal.
But having children after marriage is different. The relationship between our husband and wife is getting worse and worse. I always quarrel with my wife in life. Now my wife and I have two daughters. The eldest daughter is in the sixth grade and the younger daughter is in the fourth grade.
It has been 8 months since my wife ran away from home. Two months before my wife ran away from home, my youngest daughter had a fever. At 7:00 that morning, my wife sent my eldest daughter to school. I hurried back to take my little daughter to the hospital for an injection. After the daughter had the injection.
My wife has to rush to the market to buy vegetables, go home to cook, clean, wash and cook. After the meal is finished, I have to pick it up again. The big girl is out of school. I worked overtime at the company that night and didn't go home until 11 o'clock. When I got home, my wife hadn't finished her work.
I thought about playing with my phone on the sofa for a while, and then eating, bathing and sleeping, but when I was just lying on the bed and playing with the phone for a while, my wife walked over with my little daughter and pointed at mine The nose said to me
"Can you help me with a little housework, every day like an uncle, I play on my mobile phone when I come back from work, I am busy all day long, I have never been idle, you see me so Busy, don’t you feel any guilt in your heart? You don’t know how to help me with the housework."
At that time, I was anxious after hearing this. "What are you tired of at home with your children every day? Isn’t it just doing housework? If you feel tired, or you go to work, I’ll take the kids at home every day. "My little daughter was sick for a few days,One night even though my little daughter had taken the medicine, she still said she was dizzy.
My wife couldn’t leave even one step, so she stayed by her side to take care of her and put a hot towel on her. My wife didn’t make dinner that night. After I got home, I saw that there was no dinner. I was angry. , Yelled to my wife, "Every day I know that this kid doesn’t know how to cook. You want to starve me to death. I didn’t even cook it so late."
My wife explained to me, but I don’t Listen, I was so angry at the time, and then a colleague of mine sent a message saying that I would go out for a drink. I didn’t even think about it. I put on clothes and didn’t want to look at the yellow-faced lady. My wife didn’t respond when I went out Then I went downstairs and my wife immediately called and asked me where to go.
Then I said to her, "Go out and have a drink with friends. You didn't even cook any food. What do I eat at home? You can watch the kids by yourself and watch it." After speaking, I hung up the phone severely. Then I drank it at one o'clock in the morning before coming back. I drank a lot of alcohol outside that night, and when I came back, I felt dizzy.
When I got home, I immediately spit up on the toilet. I vomited for more than 20 minutes. After I vomited out the stuff in my stomach, I went back to bed and went to bed.
On the second day, I didn’t wake up from the wine, my wife scolded me that I knew to drink all day long, and I didn’t come back until midnight after drinking. The child didn’t bring it, and even the residue left in the toilet was not flushed. go.
My wife said that she does housework and takes care of me every day. She can't bear this alcoholic. I quarreled with him and he said he couldn’t bear it. Then I said angrily, “If you want to leave, leave this house and no one will keep you. I will live more comfortably without you.” After I finished speaking, my wife immediately Go back to the room and take out a suitcase to pack your things.
took a few sets of clothes and left immediately. At the time, I thought I would come back when the weather subsided. She must be reluctant to bear the children. Since my wife ran away from home that day, I have taken on the responsibility of bringing two children. I leave early and return late every morning, and send my eldest daughter to school in the morning.
After sending the eldest daughter to send the younger daughter back from get off work every day, I will pick them home and then go buy vegetables and cook them for them.After my wife ran away from home, I took over her job. It was a difficult task to take care of the children alone, so I planned to hire a nanny. The first nanny I invited was from the countryside.
can do nothing except housework. My eldest daughter is very irritable and the nanny is from the countryside. My eldest daughter thinks she is sloppy and sloppy. My eldest daughter often quarrels with the nanny. Every time the nanny quarrels with her, the nanny will not let my daughter. I still want to do it.
Once I came back from get off work and heard that they were arguing. As soon as I opened the door and saw that the nanny's hand had been raised to my daughter's head, I was ready to fight. At that time, I told the nanny immediately after seeing this. You can't bear it anymore. You should leave our house. At that time, I paid the nanny's salary and let her leave.
Later I found a second nanny. The conditions for this nanny are a bit harsh. They go to work every day at 8 and then leave at 6 because her family still has a grandson to take, and the work time is only 7 hours. She had already agreed with me before she came to my house. By 6 pm, she will go home to take care of her grandson.
Ask me to come back before 6 o’clock, otherwise I will leave the child alone at home for fear that it’s not safe. It was hard to find a nanny at that time. I promised that once the company’s overtime leader said that no one was allowed to leave until ten o’clock in the evening. At that time, I immediately called the nanny to explain to her that I couldn’t come back after working overtime in the company.
Or you can stay with my family for two more hours. I will pay you the money, and the nanny reluctantly promised me. After I came back, the nanny went home, but I don’t know why. Since that time, our company often Work overtime, and every time it is until 10 o'clock.
The nanny said that it was okay to go home at 6 pm to take care of the grandson. Although I said to give her money, she was not willing. This kind of life lasted for two or three days, and the nanny was reluctant to do it, and then left our house without receiving half a month's salary.
I was helpless if I couldn’t ask for a babysitter. I really didn’t have the time to take care of my child. Later, I called my wife cheekily and asked my wife to come back. Easy things? Then you take the kids out of work and want me to go back and take the kids to dream.
Since you said that that day, I decided not to have any children in the future. I will leave the two children to you. You don’t care, and I will give you a bit of living expenses every month Take care of them.” After my wife’s absence, I found out how tiring it is to bring children to work alone.
At the beginning I didn’t understand my wife’s hard work, and I regret it now. At the time, my wife took the children at home to do housework every day. From morning till night, she rarely complained. After hiring two babysitters this time.
I found that the job of those babysitters is easy, the salary is high and the time is short, and the salary is quite good. Think about it In the past, no one understood what my wife was doing, and she always felt that she was very idle. I really blamed my wife now.
Closing remarks:
After this quarrel, I learned a lesson and I finally understand my wife’s suffering. If my wife is still willing to come back to help me take care of the children, I will treat her well in the future, and I will love her well, and will never make any mistakes.
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