Preface
The problem of remarriage in the elderly is realistic and cruel. Because there are native families, many family conflicts and property are involved after remarriage. The troubles caused by remarriage in the elderly make many single elderly people hesitate and contradict the issue of remarriage.
Many single elderly people choose to have a partner without getting a certificate, and they live a leisurely life.
Let's walk into Aunt Guo's life together, and take a look together, maybe it will give you inspiration or help.
62-year-old Aunt Guo: I have a house and a pension. I don’t even consider getting a certificate if I am looking for a wife. It’s good to have a partner, so I can save my troubles in the future.
I am 62 years old this year, and I have retired for many years. , I don't go home often, and I found it outside. I cried and made trouble, and finally got divorced.
When I got divorced, my only request was for the custody of my daughter. He was often away from home and didn't take care of her at all. The custody of my daughter naturally belonged to me.
Since the divorce, I no longer believe in men, and I thought that I would never look for it again, raise my daughter, and after retirement, it would be good to and retire together with my old sisters.
Now, my daughter has also started a family abroad, and I have also retired for more than ten years. After so many years of hardships, what do I still need to do with my wife.
But some time ago, my thinking changed a little. I had a bad cold and I couldn't get up from the pain. It was difficult to pour hot water by myself, let alone eat. What a good thing, at least there is someone around who suffers from minor illnesses and disasters.
In fact, every time my daughter who is far away contacts me, she persuades me to find another wife, saying that she is too far away to take care of my mother, and she feels sorry for me, and she started crying on the phone.
My daughter also persuaded me to live with her in the past, but I didn’t agree. No matter how good my daughter is, she will bump into more over time, and she will inevitably get angry. Besides, there is also a son-in-law. Generations of ideas and concepts are also different.
It's not that we feel uncomfortable when we go to other people's houses! After
had the idea of finding a wife, my old sisters began to worry about paying attention to the right person.
The old grandson is a good friend of my good sister and husband. He is about the same age as me. His wife passed away a few years ago. One son and one daughter have already married, and now he lives alone. After meeting
, I feel that this person is not bad. Anyway, he has no burden. Even his little grandson is in junior high school. After having been in contact with
for a period of time, Lao Sun said to me: let's get a certificate or not? I didn't answer him directly, I told him, I'd better go back and discuss it with my children to avoid trouble later.
The old grandson went back and told his children about us, saying that it was the children who said it was better to be with us, and that they did not agree to get the certificate. In fact, everyone knew in their hearts that an adult would not accept the mother who received the certificate after receiving the certificate. I am afraid that there will be disputes over the family property in a hundred years.
When I told my daughter, she felt awkward that she didn't get the certificate. I told my daughter that although we are together, every day is a bump in life, and we need to get to know each other after we are together. To, there is no trouble and relationship.
Companionship means that two people take care of each other. There is a person who knows the cold and the heat in front of you, who can talk and talk. If there is a day when you really fall ill, there are not many people who remarry or have a partner who can accompany you to serve you.
In this way, my old grandson and I started a life of companionship, companionship and companionship, and we don't need to be too clear about what to eat, drink, and drink in life. After all, we are all people with pensions.The
partner is not to rely on for life, let alone all the money. I think everyone has a heart. As long as you pay, you are not stupid. After
partners, we cultivate common interests and hobbies together, and life is very leisurely. In short, it is good to be happy together, and there is no need to create unnecessary troubles for yourself.
is a family with children. This way, their children can rest assured. They don't have to worry too much about their elderly being cheated, and they can feel at ease.
As for when you get old and can't walk, or you can't take care of yourself, you can hire a nanny yourself or go to a nursing home for the elderly. There are also
s who can serve their partners, but they must not be many, so I don't expect, nor do I expect, I still rely on myself!
There are also many elderly friends who insist on getting the certificate. In fact, it is also true. You say that a woman has no housing or no pension, and they are following you for their own future considerations.
One day I kicked my legs and left, leaving an old orphan, my sons and daughters will definitely not accept it, and there are so many things going on in lawsuits for property.
, no matter if you are a partner or get a certificate, you are all at ease. This person is old, and I hope that someone will care and care.
Concluding remarks
As people grow old, they need more companionship and care. Lonely old age life is difficult and difficult!
May the elderly all over the world have less entanglements and more sunshine on the road to remarriage, paving the way for a happy sunset life!
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-