couples are always full of passion when they are newly married, but after living for a while, the relationship between the two gradually fades. Especially a married woman, a person has to play several roles, not only a wife, a mother, but also a child.
Heavy work and family make women gradually lose their original tenderness, not only no longer tenderness, but also becoming more and more indifferent, losing the enthusiasm of the past.
But this phenomenon doesn't always exist, because women start to become amorous again once they reach their 40s. What is the specific reason? Let's take a look:
Ms. Wang: 42 years old, because I no longer work for my children, I have time to pay attention to my husband.
I am 42 years old and my husband and I have been married for 18 years. Although we are a campus love, it is said that the emotional foundation is very good, but it still has not resisted the passage of time. Our relationship gradually faded, and later, because of taking care of the children, we were too busy to have time to communicate.
I don't know when it started, we have become a little bit of life, and there is no lively atmosphere of love and love like before.
Fortunately, when the child grows up, he no longer needs us to take care of all the details. We also have time to cultivate our relationship together, and my focus has returned to my husband from the children. When my husband saw my change, he responded enthusiastically. Now we are as loving as a couple in love.
Ms. Yin, 45 years old, because of the better living conditions and no financial pressure, she is willing to be coquettish and gentle to her husband.
I am a very enterprising woman, and I have been working hard to start a business all these years. Although my husband's career is doing well, I want to be a woman who can support herself.
Fortunately, through my own efforts over the years, I have become prosperous in the advertising industry, and various business processes have become more and more standardized. Naturally, I am not as hard as before.
I know that I have been busy with work all these years and neglected to care and take care of my husband, resulting in a small distance between us. Fortunately, my husband knew that it was not easy for me, so he has been silently supporting and helping me. Now that my career is stable, I have begun to focus on taking care of my husband's emotions. Because of the realization of economic freedom, I felt very relaxed, and I began to think and act like a spoiled brat to my husband again.
Ms. Guo: 43 years old, because I realized the importance of my husband, I want to live a good life.
My husband and I have been married for 20 years, and I thought that the relationship became deeper and deeper. Who knew that after marriage, due to the tedious work and life, we had to live in a shared tenancy relationship.
A man who used to be pleasing to the eye no matter what, but now he sees only shortcomings. Even doubting his own vision, why did he choose him among so many suitors. If you change your choice, you may live a different life.
naturally has a bad life with this mentality. Fortunately, I realized this later. I also feel that after living together for so many years, it is not easy for each other, and I don't know how long they can accompany each other. So I started to care about my husband. Everyone has feelings. After a long time, my husband also understands my thoughts, and he pays as much attention to me as when we were newly married, and our relationship is as good as ever.
is written at the end: looking back thousands of times in previous lives, in exchange for passing by in this life. Being able to become husband and wife is a great fate.
Although life will consume our feelings, it cannot match our attachment to feelings. As long as you have each other in your heart, even in the old age, that is the state of love as always.
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