Introduction
Old-age care is always a hot topic of discussion, and people in old age hope to have a good home and a good old-age care environment.
Many elderly people are well aware that raising a child can no longer prevent old age, let alone old age, feeling wronged and full of helplessness.
75-year-old Aunt Cao, after going around her children's home with full of hope, she expressed a heavy emotion: No matter how good the relationship between and her children before, don't go to their home for the elderly.
Why does the old man express such emotion, let us listen to Aunt Cao's confession.
75-year-old Aunt Cao: My children’s home is not my own. The old ones are useless and they will be abandoned. No one can trust the children. I still need to support myself
. I am 75 years old. My wife left me because of illness a few years ago. I am left alone with an old woman.
My wife and I had 2 children and 1 daughter. At that time, life was difficult and it was not easy to bring them up. No matter how hard it is, my wife and I must support them to go to school. Don’t be the same as us. .
The three children are also fighting, and each one is better than the other. My wife and I think it's better now. When we are old, we will rely on our family. The neighbors are very envious of our family.
After the children got married, I served this family and took care of the other family, either looking after my grandchildren or taking care of my nephew. The children who I served were all going to school, and they were all my own children. , I can't rely on people when I get old. When the wife of
was alive, the children were very filial on New Year's Day. They rushed back from the field to see our old couple. They either gave money or took large bags of gifts. They also respected us. The neighbors and friends of
for many years said that these children did not provide for them to go to school in vain, and that they were better than their homes. The comfort in my heart is beyond description.
But since the death of his wife, everything has changed.
I think about how old I am, my legs and feet are not flexible, and I often leave things behind. I have locked the key at home when I go out several times, so I want to live with my children, and I always feel so at ease.
I called my youngest son and said to live with them for a few days. This youngest son is my favorite, and he said nothing.
I prepared my luggage and asked my nephew to drive me to my younger son's house.
When I ate at night, I told my son and daughter-in-law what I thought, and they didn’t say much, but within a few days, the daughter-in-law started to shake her face, full of upset, and told her son: lazy If you don’t do anything, you just know that you have to sit down and eat, and you have to be served. It’s not just this one.
I am old, but my ears are not deaf, I did not sleep all night.
I didn't expect that the next day, my daughter-in-law told me to stay at my daughter's house for a while while eating. I knew this was driving me away.
I called my daughter. I didn’t expect that the daughter who treated me so well would say: "Mom, my daughter is married, and she is an outsider, regardless of her family’s wealth. Of course, my brother and brother should give you care for you. Besides, if you have a long and short one, I can't afford it as a daughter", I hung up without saying a word.
Since my daughter's house is not willing to let me go, then I can only go to the elder son's house.
picked up the phone again and called the eldest son. He didn’t expect the eldest son to say on the phone: Mom, don’t toss, it’s so far away, and there is no place to live at home, so just stay at home and just hear your daughter-in-law. On the phone, she said that she prefers the youngest son, why don't we go to her second home to provide for the elderly, we can't afford it, and my heart was completely cold when I heard what the elder son and daughter-in-law said on the phone.
spent a night at my youngest son's house, so I should think of a way to provide for myself.
The next day, I asked my youngest son to send me back to my home and stayed at home for a few days. I called my nephew and daughter-in-law to help me clean up the house and asked my nephew to contact me in the nursing home.
I locked the door with tears in my tears. I was about to leave the nest I had lived in all my life. I felt a little reluctant. I brought my luggage and photos of my wife to this nursing home.
Now I have been living in a nursing home for almost a year, and I am very happy every day. After eating, I played cards with the old men and old ladies, and I went back to the house to watch TV when I was tired. This kind of life is much better than living with my children.
Seeing my current life is both happy and happy!
Here I also advise everyone: this person is old, don't always think about going to the children's home for the elderly, it is not our home, no matter how filial and filial, the children will dislike it.
stay in your own nest if you can take care of yourself, and go to a nursing home if you have difficulty taking care of yourself. No one asks them, and you live happily. Z2z
writes at the end
More and more elderly people are planning their own old age. The era of raising children to guard against the old has passed. More old people are yearning for a free and comfortable life instead of relying on their children for the elderly.
No matter how old you are, you still need to have a relatively healthy body. Children of
should be more considerate of the difficulties of the elderly, communicate more with the elderly to understand the wishes of their parents, and try to make the elderly feel satisfied!
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