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People often say that young couples come and accompany, when they are old, they are accompanied and accompanied by someone. It is also a very happy thing. Everyone’s life is different. Everyone has a story. Some are happy in old age, and some People are old, but sad, even miserable.
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Aunt Qi: 60 years old. In old age, the closest person is definitely my wife, and my wife and I will stay together forever. Over the years, I have given birth to two sons and one daughter for my wife.
But the two sons are not very promising, and they are not willing and unable to take care of me. On the contrary, I have to help them from time to time. Although my daughter has a good life, but marrying far away can’t quench my recent thirst. I can get comfort and support from my daughter on the phone.
I feel that when a person reaches old age, the closest thing is his wife. For so many years, my wife has been with me, sharing housework with me, chatting with me, and I feel sick and unwilling to get up.
is my wife who waits on me, cooks for me, cleans up the housework for me, and puts delicious meals in front of me. What touched me is that I was hospitalized last year, and my wife stayed in step by step, helping me find a doctor, find a nurse, arrange a bed, busy Busy.
accompany me through every day and every night. My wife has never made a lot of money, and has not provided me with a good material life. I still have no great ability. I still don’t regret marrying him. I feel the dearest. As my wife, I can never live without him.
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Uncle Liu: 70 years old. The closest thing is not his wife or children, but money and house. In the past, I had a house, good health, and a pension.
My son is very good to me, he visits me from time to time, he buys me gifts, and sometimes my son and daughter-in-law take me out for travel.
I think my son is so kind to me, and he is responsive to his son's request. At his request, I moved to live with him. The old house originally wanted to rent it to others, but his son said, the old house is useless, and you won't go back. In the future, I will give you the end-of-life care, and simply sell it, and we will change to a larger one.
I obeyed my son's words, sold my hometown house and moved to my son's house. I gave him 2000 yuan a month for living expenses. I thought my son would respect me more. My son really changed a second-hand house and arranged for me. A large room, spacious and bright.
However, I have lived for less than half a year, and my son suddenly said that when my grandson is looking for a partner, he is about to get married. The big house needs to be renovated. Let me live in a temporary room outside. The house is renovated. After the grandson gets married, he will move back. Although I didn't want to, but I could only follow their arrangements.
The house has been renovated, I have paid for it, and my grandson is also married. However, my son did not mention that I should move back. I couldn't help but tell him, when can I move back?
son said, grandson just got married, slow down, don't you have a place to live now? You don't have to pay the rent. What's the hurry?
I have nothing to say, so 5 years have passed, I still live in a rental house, no one cooks for me anymore, I have to do everything myself, but my son still asks me to pay my living expenses every month, and occasionally visits , Buy some fruit at most and treat me as a guest.
I think that having a son is the same as not having a son. Sons rarely visit me. I want to see my grandson. I have to go up and down the eighth floor, which is very inconvenient. , They just didn't look good to me.
I regret to obey my son’s words and sell the house in my hometown. Now the house is not in my possession. Everything is left to my fate. If my wife died, I would not sell the house and go to my son. This is mine. After the end, living with my son is not happy at all, but feels more lonely and sad.
I think that when people are old, their own house is the closest, the rich is the closest, without the money, not even the relatives of the son, this is my profound lesson.
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Aunt Lin: 68 years old. I feel that when I am old, my sons and daughters are the closest. Since the death of my wife, my sons and daughters have taken care of my life.
my little daughter is very filial, She told me to move to her side, I don't want to leave my hometown, I don't want to travel far. The youngest daughter of
quit her job to take care of me. It has been more than ten years now. My daughter takes care of my affairs. My pension and salary card are also kept with my daughter. My daughter goes to the hospital on time to get them every month. Medicine, I have many diseases, such as coronary heart disease, high blood pressure, and diabetes. I have to take a lot of medicine every day. My health is not good. My daughter took me to the doctor in time. I thank my daughter. If it weren’t for my daughter, I would have died I'm back.
She divorced her husband very early, and she has a son who got married. My grandson is also very filial and sensible. She understands her mother to take care of her grandmother. Every year during the New Year holidays, the whole family comes back to me to share family happiness with me.
I think the dearest person in the world is my daughter, who is indeed my mother's little quilted jacket. She took care of me until I was old without complaint.
Conclusion:
is the most dearest in the world, and the most loved one is the person who is most dear to oneself. Some couples will live in the same boat and share weal and woe, and no one can do without.
And some people pay attention to money and material, always want to profit from the elderly, drain the last bit of money from the elderly, and begin to dislike good people, unwilling to respect the elderly, and the elderly are helpless, leaving the elderly in disappointment and pain. I think money is the closest to my own property.
There are everyone in the world. Honoring and caring for the elderly is the unshirkable responsibility of children. Everyone has an old day. I believe that this world is fair, and we must also believe that good is rewarded, and evil is rewarded. Only children who are filial to the elderly will receive God’s favor and have good results, otherwise they will eat their own fruits. Call for essays on the theme of "Flashing Moments" + Phase 2
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