Author: seventy-seven
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"Circle of Friends" can basically be said to be something that we all come into contact with every day. Sometimes when I wake up, I can’t help but swipe a few rounds in the circle of friends when I tap the phone.
In the circle of friends, we can not only understand the daily dynamics and moods of others, but also record our own personal past experiences and feelings. So Moments is a good place to get to know each other and understand each other's lives through it, although they don't communicate much in daily life.
In real life, some people share some of their daily life in Moments every day, or confide in their personal mood and life, but some people rarely post to Moments, or even have not posted a news for a long time. When you click When you enter his circle of friends, there is very little information in it.
You think they are lazy, but in fact it is not the case. In fact, people who don’t like to post in Moments are caused by their own personalities. Under normal circumstances, they all belong to the following four categories.
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The first type of people: introverted people
Actually some people, because of their own personality is relatively introverted, so whether it is the daily life dynamics or their own feelings, they do not like to share with others. In their opinion, just keep in touch with their best friends from time to time.
Besides, for them, the "circle of friends" is just a place to get to know and get acquainted with other people, not a place to show their character.
may be in the eyes of their group of people, and sometimes they want to change it. They want to be like most people. You can share what you encounter with others or record it through your circle of friends. However, when I really want to post to Moments, I don't know where to start, let alone how to express it.
is mainly because of the more introverted personality. His usual speech and manners have long been restricted and restricted. In terms of self-expression, it is different from those of extroverts. So after thinking about it, I deleted and deleted, changed and changed, and I didn't post it in the end, so I didn't want to show myself too much.
In fact, in the circle of friends, we can easily find that such people exist. They often have a monotonous life, and there are not many friends. Moreover, the content of the circle of friends is very few and it is impossible to understand.
The second type of people: people who are focused on career
Frankly speaking, each of us has our own life experience, living environment, and occupation, etc., each of us has different personalities, and the thoughts and pursuits created are different. They are also different.
In real life, some people love life and know how to enjoy in time. In addition to work, they will spend the rest of their time in their own lives. Naturally, they will also gain many different experiences and feelings to enjoy life. Go to Moments.
However, some people live more inspirational and love their careers. Even the remaining time at work will be spent on learning, enriching themselves, and improving their strength.
People who love work like this are all thinking about how to do the work at hand to the best, and how to maximize their abilities and strengths.
As for life, you will feel that it is plain and simple. Other things in life are naturally not touched, and there is no extra time and energy to contact.
People like this, of course, don't have much time and energy to spend in life, and they don't even use Moments or post content in Moments.
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The third type of people: colleagues in the circle of friends, people with too many relatives
Actually, we will add all kinds of friends to our mobile phones, such as classmates, friends, relatives, family, and more importantly. There will be many colleagues, leaders, etc.
If you have simple friends in your circle of friends, even if you send some daily news, you still feel your emotionsIf you accept, or occasionally complain about your work or colleagues, it’s okay. Even friends and family will see that they will encourage and care to comfort you and relieve you. Your emotions will naturally be able to After being released, I feel better.
But some people in the circle of friends, because of the nature of the work and other reasons, have to add a lot of colleagues, leaders, partners and customers in the company.
Everyone knows very well that work is very important to most of us. After all, we need to rely on the economic income from work to maintain a normal life. Of course, we dare not slack off easily.
In the workplace, we usually show that we are hardworking, hard-working, motivated, and mature, especially for our small partners and superior leaders. If you frequently post some trivial things that happen in your daily life in your circle of friends, you will inevitably be seen through by others, leaving a handle, and even they still think you are an unreliable person in their hearts.
Therefore, if there are many senior leaders, colleagues, partners, and colleagues in the circle of friends, they will naturally pay attention to their usual speech and behavior, and they will not just post anything to the circle of friends.
The fourth type of people: low-key people
We often see some people in the circle of friends, and from time to time we like to post in the circle of friends and show our daily life. For example:
bought a brand-name bag or brand-name shoes. Show off with a hair ring;
is going to travel during the holidays, and you have to send a ring to show off;
has someone to fall in love with, and you have to send a ring to show off your love;
...
In short, as long as you are better than others, It is necessary to show off all kinds of hairpins, even some trivial things in daily life, can be accompanied by a large section of soul chicken soup, as if to tell others how their life looks like in this way How different is your happiness.
is different from this kind of person. In real life, there is another kind of person. Although he originally had good conditions in all aspects such as family background and ability, everyone can see that they are excellent in themselves, but I rarely post to Moments, and I rarely see their dynamic content in Moments.
Their lives, for us, are like a mysterious passage, we want to explore but have no direction.
And in their opinion, no matter how powerful or outstanding one is, it is all one's own business. There is no need to show off to others, let alone care about these superficial vanity.
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In fact, in the final analysis, the "friend circle" can be said to be our personal small world. It stands to reason that we can also post some more personal life and emotions. But precisely because this is a more personal place, it is also the easiest place for others to understand you. The more you post in your circle of friends, the more you will understand your own personality and personality.
However, everyone will always have such a time, there will always be such things, do not like their own life emotions and life to be seen through, or they do not care about other people's eyes, just want to live their own lives. All right.
Under normal circumstances, these four types of people rarely leave their own information in the circle of friends, and it can even be said that they are specially isolated. If you don't like it, you don't act like that; if you don't care, you won't care.
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, do you usually post to Moments?
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Author introduction: Qiqi, freelance writer/columnist/weibo signed from the media; a warm and poisonous tongue, rational and emotional coexistence of Libra girl, loves eating, drinking and having fun, good at talking about love; welcome to follow me, willing to cooperate You share an interesting and meaningful life, independent and change with you. Good-looking skins are the same, and interesting souls are one in a million. If you like my text, please like, repost, and bookmark it!
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